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ohh it goes upp there :|
ohh my godd!
a male is NOT doing that too meeee .. yu brave girl!
 
:rofl:
aww i feel for you id hate a doctor to do it to me im glad iv got a midwife lol but then again iv been seeing her throughout my pregnancy and i feel abit uncomfy her going up there lol!
 
yea it wasn't fun
my mom is like just wait till your in labor everyone will be touching you down there.
I was like "oh god"
 
Yeah but that isnt as bad cause your guna not be bothered in labour and stuff youll just want him out and healthy! wel im not going to be bothered who pokes and prods me lol ill never see them again so its all good :haha: but with my midwife just ill see her again at my doctors whenever i go up :haha:
 
do they just see how far dialted yu are?
it sounds like if they stik there hand up like there stuffin a bluddy turkey!
 
:rofl:
sometimes they wont do anything depends what happens if babys stuck or in a good position.. but all they do is help baby out if anything and check how many cm's you are ever hour or so
 
I don't think they pull the baby out unless s/he is stuck.
they just put there fingers/hand up there to check how many cm dilated you are
 
Nooo ...
if the baby is like out abit they will try and help you along abit so its not as painful. But i think you can say weather you want assitance or not in your birth plan. I think all they do is them internal examinations (i think thats what its called?) but thats just to see if your ready or not.
 
ya they do internal exams. thats what I had yesterday

but I think if the baby is stuck they use forceps to help bring the baby out.
I don't know I think at different times in active labor there will be hands around or in your lady area! lol
 
they dont use forceps in the UK anymore do they ? dont think they are allowed
 
Yeah they still do use foreceps lol my midwife was saying if baby is stuck they will either use foreceps or this new thing called a 'kiwi' (basically a suction thing that just gently helps baby out more thats that when babys on the way out so its over within matter of minutes.. but i dont actually want foreceps cause my best mates sister had her baby tuesday and her face is marked cause of them :( it will obviously go but it looks really sore
 
my doctor said hes the best in the area and that no other doctor should even try to use them,
cause sometimes you don't get your own doctor for your birth
 
my doctor said hes the best in the area and that no other doctor should even try to use them,
cause sometimes you don't get your own doctor for your birth
 
bec, cant u feel too see if ur dialted.. sorry if TMI but if its 1 cm 1 finger... + u havnt seen somebody in so so long :\ x

lol when my doctor put his fingers/hand up there...it was painful, I was like "WHERE IS HE GOING:shock::shock:"

:rofl:

My doctors a male.. I had to have a pelvic exam my first appointment.. Just tried to keep my mind occupied
I really hope he's the one that delivers my baby though, he delivered me and my brother and I have alot of trust and confidence in him..
If I get another doctor it's going to SUCK! The one I have to visit while he's out of work is just horrible IMO.. It makes me appreciate the one I have.. Even if he is male
 

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