Coopers_mummy
Mummy of 2
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Hi. I'm 23 weeks into my second pregnancy. At my 20 week scan baby had legs too close together. Sonographer said she didn't see any boy bits and thought it might be a girl but she wasn't sure. I was desperate for another boy and a bit disappointed its a girl. But to make things worse I can't even prepare for the baby as the sonographer was so unsure 
I don't want to get everything pink and then have a boy. It sounds stupid but I just can't bond without knowing the babies sex for sure and it's getting me really depressed. My OH wont let me have a private scan as he says they are too much and we will find out for sure soon enough do you think my midwife would offer me another scan if I explained the situation to her? I'm under watch for anti and postnatal depression
I don't want to get everything pink and then have a boy. It sounds stupid but I just can't bond without knowing the babies sex for sure and it's getting me really depressed. My OH wont let me have a private scan as he says they are too much and we will find out for sure soon enough do you think my midwife would offer me another scan if I explained the situation to her? I'm under watch for anti and postnatal depression
