Stuck in LATE but NEGATIVE limbo - Join me!

[RubyRainbows]

Really dumb question what is a FMU??

FMU = First Morning Urine

There are no dumb questions - it's hard to learn all the lingo & acronyms around here!

 

[RubyRainbows]

I just tested (16DPO) and it's a definite negative!

 

[Xstwx]

I'm so sorry it was negative! I have one test left in the bathroom and I am trying really hard to hold out and not test! It is so hard and confusing! I am beginning to wonder if it is all in my head but that would still not explain the missing AF!

 

[Xstwx]

I have always been told to use FMU but I don't really know how important it actually is!

 

[sweet83]

I just tested (16DPO) and it's a definite negative!

 

[SS75]

I just tested (16DPO) and it's a definite negative!

There is still hope - I tested too this morning and I'm with you it was negative.

Xstwx are u testing today?

I only have 2 tests left so thinking I'm going to wait a few days now to see what happens.

 

[Bunanie]

I'm so sorry it was negative! I have one test left in the bathroom and I am trying really hard to hold out and not test! It is so hard and confusing! I am beginning to wonder if it is all in my head but that would still not explain the missing AF!

Haha! Me too! I have one more test left and trying really hard to hold out!

I just read the instructions, apparently I'm only meant to pee on it "FOR 5 SECONDS ONLY" but I don't see how peeing on it more can affect the result and I'm meant to lay the test flat afterwards but I have been putting it in my pocket vertically (hiding it from DH)

So looks like I wasn't doing the test 100% correctly but I have no high hopes coz it was so white that I couldn't even imagine a faint line lol

I usually have cycles range from 30-35days, today is cd 36...

If no af and continues to be bfn, when would you ladies call the GP? I just don't want to ring her and get shoo off for something silly

 

[moonstar_004]

i'm just here because i'm so curious with what will happen with you guys! i'm 14dpo today and haven't tested yet. will test on 20dpo(if i make it).

 

[ms sunshine]

Hi guys I'm in the same boat dpo 20 still got high temps and getting higher. Thought I got bfp but havnt had one since so possible evap. A lot of bfn's now. I got loads of symptoms pressure on cervix random aches and twinges losses bowel movements light headed nausea and palpitations. The twinges are exactly like my first pregnancy and I never get them with af. It's so distinctive how I feel can't see how I'm not pregnant really. The doc wants me to ring on Fri if Ive not had a positive test by then but the waiting is driving me nuts lol

 

[Rq120]

So are looser bowel movements or diarrhea supposed to be a pregnancy symptom?

 

[Xstwx]

Hey Ladies, Soooo AF showed up today! I am so down, I really thought this might be our month, Just so fed up
But on happier note how are you ladies?

 

[RubyRainbows]

AF arrived today! I'm so heartbroken! I can't even say "on to next month" bc we need to use a (known) donor to conceive and he is no longer able to help us. We got donations from him 3 cycles... and now he's no longer available. I was praying I would have my BFP this month and that wouldn't matter. No luck tho!!

Big hugs to those who also caught the today.

For those still in limbo - FX'ed for you!!!!

 

[RubyRainbows]

Xst

 

[moonstar_004]

how many days were you late before you af got you?

 

[SS75]

Af arrived for me too ,early hours today.

Rubyrainbows sorry to hear that is there no other option?

We had decided next month is our last month trying before we call it quits and move on. But the way I'm feeling now , I'm not sure I could go through this again, and maybe just quit now. Feeling upset.

 

[SS75]

Hey Ladies, Soooo AF showed up today! I am so down, I really thought this might be our month, Just so fed up
But on happier note how are you ladies?

Sorry to hear that xstwx - I know how you're feeling

 

[Bunanie]

Wow, it must be something... Coz af is here today for me too

Better luck next month ladies

 

[Rq120]

I've been following along. HUGS to you all

 

[ladyV84]

Awww guys so sorry to hear that... Nasty nasty witch

Xxxx

 

[Xstwx]

Looks like it was a bad day for us all! How is everyone doing now??
I am so torn up about it I'm thinking the next step for us will be involving the Dr. I said I would never stress and go crazy over it but I am and I want to know before we continue that we are both good and there isn't an underlying issue. So stressful! RubyRainbows is there no other option? I am so so sorry!! xxx