CdnEquestrian
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Feeling a bit down. Miss.Cow announced that she's having a girl. My dream.
Like I said....I am sooooo super jealous that she's pregnant, and with a little girl....but I sure as hell don't want her life.
I'm just bummed out. Finished my provera and i'm waiting for AF to start so I can take my first round of clomid.
I just don't understand why I just can't let this go. It makes me SOOOO mad and there is just so many unresolved feelings. She got pregnant because she could and I couldn't....and everytime she updates her facebook, it's there for the world to see. I tried blocking her so I didn't have to see it, but people would just tell me in casual conversation about it anyways. So I feel like, at least this way....I get to be "prepared" when it comes up. You know?
I just wish I could let it go. It feels like it's tainting my TTC/future pregnancy.
Any advice? It's like a bad breakup....maybe it just needs time.
I just want to know that when I get pregnant, it will be all-consuming and I won't care anymore. I'll just be able to bask in my precious little one....with DH by my side. Knowing that at least I know who my baby's father is, am not living in a freaking TENT, have an income and stability/security. I just feel like through our whole friendship, she was always the miserable screw-up and I always had everything together and I was ALWAYS happy to help her out...anytime. Day or night. And it just feels like the ultimate betrayal to get pregnant under my roof, find out using my pregnancy test, all because you wanted to "best" me at something.
I blame the hormones. My moods have been all over the damn place. I've been so depressed lately, but I can't go back on the anti-depressants if i'm TTC.
Like I said....I am sooooo super jealous that she's pregnant, and with a little girl....but I sure as hell don't want her life.
I'm just bummed out. Finished my provera and i'm waiting for AF to start so I can take my first round of clomid.
I just don't understand why I just can't let this go. It makes me SOOOO mad and there is just so many unresolved feelings. She got pregnant because she could and I couldn't....and everytime she updates her facebook, it's there for the world to see. I tried blocking her so I didn't have to see it, but people would just tell me in casual conversation about it anyways. So I feel like, at least this way....I get to be "prepared" when it comes up. You know?
I just wish I could let it go. It feels like it's tainting my TTC/future pregnancy.
Any advice? It's like a bad breakup....maybe it just needs time.
I just want to know that when I get pregnant, it will be all-consuming and I won't care anymore. I'll just be able to bask in my precious little one....with DH by my side. Knowing that at least I know who my baby's father is, am not living in a freaking TENT, have an income and stability/security. I just feel like through our whole friendship, she was always the miserable screw-up and I always had everything together and I was ALWAYS happy to help her out...anytime. Day or night. And it just feels like the ultimate betrayal to get pregnant under my roof, find out using my pregnancy test, all because you wanted to "best" me at something.
I blame the hormones. My moods have been all over the damn place. I've been so depressed lately, but I can't go back on the anti-depressants if i'm TTC.