Summer Peaches... going to be ripe in late July/early August!!

[kmbabycrazy]

Awwwe kitty so sorry about your husband and your friend. Take care of yourself. Glad baby is doing well xx

Also my friends have just announced their engagement. It's a very happy week and it's only just begun xx

 

[Mosnippy]

here is a pic i took today... must say it does look a bit smaller!

or its the stripes lol they slimming!

 

[molly85]

lol The little monsters prob dropping into place!

Ahhh what a few weeks kitty hugs!

Misse are you getting all the damn ooh you didn't wait comments I do like teh yes it was planned faces lol

 

[misse04]

Sorry about your friend and husband!

Yes have had many comments about the age gap and usually the word 'brave' its getting boring! And yes I dont think people believe me that its planned.

Just been to my sisters scan she paid for a private scan because she thought she was 5-6 weeks and went to the drs and they said could be upto 10 weeks as she took her pill for longer and was on antibiotics, but shes 28 and has a 7 and 8 year old so its come as a bit of a shock to her.. The scan said 5-6 weeks and had to be done internally but was a tiny blob with a heartbeat!

 

[molly85]

Ohhh that must e weird with us knowing dates to the day!

Is she liking the idea or still shell shocked?

 

[misse04]

Shes happy but think shes still shocked at the moment so not quite 100% yet

 

[Mosnippy]

there has to be something in the water!

i found out yesterday my ex has baby no 3 on the way...which pisses me off...not cause he has more kids or anything, just i know he is a shit dad for one, one of the reason i stopped fertility treatment when we were trying (he is absuvie etc wont get into detials) luckily i saw the light..but because he is such a benefits leech! he hasnt worked for so long, he is able to but knows how to work the system and is lazy now...so i get so frustrated that i am still paying for our breakdown in marriage..and really have to be pennywise now with this little one and he is popping them out with no care in the world!

sorry that is my little rant! lol

 

[kmbabycrazy]

I can kind of relate Mosnippy. When my ex told me he was having another baby...oh no wait sorry it was DS that told me he was going to have a brother or sister...I got so mad because he'd complained at me for months for asking for maintenance for DS and he told me he couldn't afford it. All I was asking for was £10/£15 a week to help towards childcare costs. He told me I should be spending more time with him instead of working full time. He told me he couldn't afford it but then goes and has another child who has the most expensive baby equipment brand name nappies and wipes and he also has a Macbook and Ipad and Iphone yet can't afford £10 a week for his first born son??

My OH always tells me that it's okay because he will pay for Toby and when Toby's older he'll realise how little his dad does for him and he'll be grateful to us that we let him spend time with his dad and it'll all be my ex's fault x

 

[misse04]

Ergg men who don't pay for their children really wind me up! He will realise when he's older. I did with my dad i don't see him that much, and do love him but completely grateful to my mum for doing everything on her own without a penny help.

 

[molly85]

KMB don't be so sure Toby will see the light OH is only just seeing how pathetic his own father is. He sends the cheapest b-day cards. Shows no interest in his boys when they were young he would only see them for 2 hours once a week even though his mum said he could have them loads more. He didn't send anything but a card for Abby's borthday I know he bought them a brand new p&t but was the cheapest on I could find and felt very much like a token gift not heart felt.

 

[Mosnippy]

argh that is just horrid KM, that irrates me if he can have all of those but cant look after his own son! my other half will always make sure he has paid for his children before buying anything for himself, he always feels guilty for buying new tshirt and jeans as he feels he could rather do something with kids...shows you the differance in mentality hey?

why are men (most men) such a*holes!!! like i have said, the number of kids doesnt make you a great father! anyone can be a dad but takes a real man to be a father!

i am so grateful i never had children with him! so so grateful i struggled and we tried for over a year! so shows you fate was on my side for sure!

but on the plus side, we all happy now!

 

[kmbabycrazy]

Yeah and Jo I don't mind how long it takes. He'll see him for what he is one day. Even if he doesn't it doesn't bother me. When we first split up he was terrible with Toby he'd promise to have him every Friday night then every Friday morning he'd ring up and say he couldn't have him. We changed it to Sundays eventually as they seemed easier for him, this one time I went to rehearsals for a show I was in. I had to be there for 1pm and he was due to pick Toby up at 1pm so I left him with my parents until he picked him up. I got a text at 5 to saying he couldn't pick him up and could I drop him off. I told him it wasn't fair on my parents to keep having to drop him off and pick him up and he should pick him up. I got home at 6pm and he just hadn't shown and my son was still stood at the window asking for Daddy. It was heartbreaking.

Even if Toby never realises I know deep down in my heart that I did the best I could for my son whatever mistakes I made in the process. But my ex has to live with the knowledge that he'd rather have a good computer than pay for his son...

 

[molly85]

Grrrrr these dads annoy me loads!!! Shame in the 80's the CCS weren't anywhere near what they are today. We'll have these boys trained up to be good dads however they look aftwer their kids!

 

[kittylady]

Thats horrible, poor little guy, I'd be soooooo angry. But blood isnt thicker than water and he will know that your OH was there for him more than his Dad and will have a better relationship with him, its just a shame his Dad doesn't see he is worth more than all of the money in the world.

I'm so glad to be with my hubby, he's so loving and gentle with our cats and I'm sure he'll be the same with LO.

He's at home at the moment but I think he'll be back at work next week. Not sure how I feel about that at the minute though.

We have the funeral for our friend two days before hubby's best man's wedding, so its going to be a bit of a weird week next week.

Saw midwife on Monday though and she says baby is progressing nicely so I have come to the conclusion that nothing will get this baby out before its ready

 

[misse04]

I never eat biscuits or anything but have been wanting some Maryland cookies for weeks so jus bought a pack and ate half the pack with 3 glasses of milk so feeling much better

OH is off up the gym at 7 tonight so looking forward to a quiet night to have a bath and do my nails ... Although i can hardly reach my toes lol

 

[kmbabycrazy]

I'm having pains again but so confused by midwife today. She told me if I had anymore I should go up to the hospital but then she tested my urine and has sent it off for testing and said I could have a UTI and that could be what is causing the pains. So now I'm very confused as to whether I should be going up to the hospital to get checked or wait and see whether it is a urine infection. Don't want to go up and waste their time if it's just a urine infection. Hate it when they don't make things clear

 

[kittylady]

Could you ring your midwife and ask KM? If not just ring the hospital and ask, I'm sure they can give you an answer

 

[misse04]

One of my friends had that and really thought she was in labour but it ended up being kidney infection. I've just burnt my fingers on the iron lol

 

[kmbabycrazy]

My friend has just told me the midwife should have given me antibiotics just in case because utis can cause pre term labour and its more dangerous to leave ms for 2 days than put me on antibiotics. Seriously considering switching midwife but then think i'll only see her a few more times x

 

[molly85]

KMB I know what you mean about not going have you had a bath etc? That's what I did when I was having those contractions. they calmed down then.