Summer Peaches... going to be ripe in late July/early August!!

[stardust599]

I'm sorry km

I'm going through similar. I'm in so much pain, so overwhelmed and tearful, I can't do anything with LO and I really need OH's help.

Yesterday OH went out at 11am and wasn't back until near 1am this morning! I text him angry about it as didn't even know where he was and he had the cheek to sleep on the couch because apparently I'm the one in the wrong here? This morning he lay in bed until 9.30am, took LO out for an hour then went to football, he took the car when he knew I needed it as really wanted to go to a baby/toddler sale today plus we live in a tiny town so it leaves me and LO stuck in. He didn't get back until 5pm. He won't just watch a DVD with me or anything meaning I'll end up heading to bed bored so he'll disappear out to his mates to play PS3 until midnight/1am, come home, wake me up and snore all night then I'll have to fight with him to get him up in the morning for work. I remember he went like this before LO was born too - is this your OH's first? It's like they suddenly feel like they are going to be trapped and have no life and have to go to the extreme opposite end. Men

I had such a hard day yesterday, I can't even take my LO out for a walk for longer than 15mins as I'm just so tired and uncomfortable and she's driving me crazy being stuck in the house. OH helps with the day to day stuff but he NEVER does anything like take her to soft play etc. to wear her out - only if I force him to like this morning I put LOs shoes and coat on and handed him a loaf of bread to feed the swans. It's so unfair on LO because I don't have the energy to do anything with her. I might try and brave swimming for half an hour tomorrow morning with LO as it always wears her out.

 

[kmbabycrazy]

Yeah it's his first and that's probably it I should've thought about that. I'm still in tears, I just can't stop and poor Toby thinks he's done something wrong and I just have to keep telling him that it's not his fault and that I'm just tired.

I will not be going to bed until OH is home because come hell or high water we are talking about this tonight!!! I've been having pains all day too and I'm worried something is going to happen and he won't be here and I won't be able to get in touch. I just feel so let down! I wish I could smoke and drink. Could really do with 10 fags and a bottle of wine right now!!!

 

[misse04]

:O hes turned his phone off! I would fucking kill him what a prick! I dont see why he couldnt just come home? Its only one night and football is on bbc1 so not like he couldnt watch it!

Connies party went really well she was very spoilt, now in bed and were waiting for dominoes to watch England

 

[misse04]

cake

 

[kmbabycrazy]

We don't have a tv lisence or a tele point so he can't watch it here but if he'd have come home and given me a kiss and cuddle and made a good attempt at cheering me up I probably would've felt bad and told him to go back again and I'd have been fine. My sister is absolutely fuming though. She's just asked me if I want her to go get him and said when he does decide to show up to tell him from her that he needs to man up and get his fucking act together or she won't be held responsible for her actions. She's pretty scary lol. But truth be told I don't even want him here right now. He's let me down and really upset me and I don't wanna look at him but it'd be nice if I could get in touch with him if something happened and he was at least bothered about running the risk of me going into labour and him missing the birth of his daughter. I'm so mortified that this has happened I feel completely disappointed in him. I can't even explain it. He's this wonderful man but there's just times when he completely flips and I see this awful side here he completely breaks my heart and when he realises what he's done it kills him but it's the fact that he does it in the first place. He can just be so childish and he just doesn't think sometimes. I don't even know what is going on in my own head right now. I feel like this time is just the straw that broke the camels back I've felt let down the other times but this time is just once too many and if he was here I would be going crazy so I'm kind of glad he's not gonna be home for a while I feel like I need that time to just take a breath if you know what I mean?

 

[molly85]

Men suck! I'd say you've hit the bear with a sore head phase so she could be here within the week! It's one of those things they never tell you so you can't even warn the blokes. I the week or so before birth you turn into the extra sensitive hormonal monster there is nothing you can do to stop it. They just have to ride it out and think (not a man's best talent) breathe have a cuppa or pour a glass of wine put it in a pint glass and cover in lemonade it'll last longer and is perfectly allowed. Have a good cry and snugle with Toby!

 

[kmbabycrazy]

Can I not just have a pint of wine instead? Lol.

Can I do it with beer? We don't have wine but there's carling in the fridge lol. I'll top it up with lemonade promise. I'm so glad people thought about me with the baby shower gifts because I have 4 HUGE bars of chocolate. There'll probably be none left tomorrow!!!

 

[Mosnippy]

Aw ladies sorry you having shitty times with your oh's , I don't think that's right of them an they do need to man up it's two of you that made the baby it's two of you that need to go through this , Makes me treasure my OH greatly, one he doesn't watch footy hahah so that's a plus an two he just cleaned the whole house while I had a nap sorry you probably don't wanna hear that but thy need to realise now is when you need them mod then anything

Misse your cake is gorgeous! Little girls dream cake!

 

[molly85]

Screw it your not doing it every day go for it!

and damn the size of your bump you could smoke the whole fag counter and it won't stunt her growth!

 

[misse04]

hmm fags.. havent thought about missing them more than twice this whole pregnancy which is strange when I found it so hard to give upo... hope i dont go back to it. Im not sad hormonal just major angry at stupid things but today has cheered me up and loved watching Connie enjoy her day.

Have a bath KM and chil out and eat chocolate (my answer to everything pregnant)

I'm waiting for 50 shades darker to be delivered and hope it comes soon I'm missing it! Highly reccommend to anyone who hasnt read them. I read the firs one in 3 days! lol

Cant believe Connies party and everyones baby showers are over now it seems like these big events are done were all on our last countdown! I know i keep saying it.. but seriously time to get organised lol

 

[molly85]

Don't forget the meet the baby party!!!

Need a delivery date to arrange that ohh and order my stupid birthing t-shirt

 

[kmbabycrazy]

I'm eating chocolate and leftover cake, watching a stupid films and sat in my pyjamas. Really starting to worry he's gonna end up staying out all night and that he's completely forgotten we're out in the morning taking toby to his dad's and then going to the hospital for a growth scan!!!

 

[molly85]

ohh growth scan that's 2 i have to wait for the results of tomorrow!! Ones a head thats growing slowly and 38 weeks and the other id for Hippo baby!!!

I hope they both report back with good news and he's not being a dirty stopout and just a freaked out bloke

 

[kmbabycrazy]

Yeah, have to see how huge my little chubber is lol. I hope he comes back too and I hope he feels really guilty all night until he does come back!!! I hope he's suffering and I hope his mates girlfriend is there who has a 3/4 week old baby because she's probably telling him he's being a dick. People tend to do that but instead of coming home like he should he instead stays longer to talk to them about it rather than come home and make up for it!!

 

[molly85]

lol i hope she throws a sknky nappy at him or pooped on vest

 

[kmbabycrazy]

Lol he just seems to think that because he listened to people tell him he was shit and a dickhead that makes it okay that he stayed there!!!

 

[molly85]

lol lets just hope they don't go through

 

[misse04]

Would like to avoid meet the baby party this time... wish people would lose interest... hate everyone holding my baby! lol

KM hope OH sorts himself out!

 

[molly85]

LOL no one said holding was going on!!! he might be hungry lazy mummy can't be arsed with bottles so he will have to stay with her mwahhhhhhh

 

[misse04]

haha good plan!