Summer Peaches... going to be ripe in late July/early August!!

[kmbabycrazy]

I think that's what it is with me stardust. I don't think I'll be so much disappointed I just won't feel as connected to the baby and will have to learn to bond with my bump as I just can't even hear the words "it's a boy" not us being told or me telling others. The words are just lost on me. I don't care if it's a boy and I wouldn't mind it will just be such a strange feeling as it feels so much like I'm carrying a girl (just an instinctive kind of feel) that it's hard to imagine it being a boy. I can't see me buying boy things or saying our boys name to this baby. It's such a strange feeling

 

[stardust599]

I think that's what it is with me stardust. I don't think I'll be so much disappointed I just won't feel as connected to the baby and will have to learn to bond with my bump as I just can't even hear the words "it's a boy" not us being told or me telling others. The words are just lost on me. I don't care if it's a boy and I wouldn't mind it will just be such a strange feeling as it feels so much like I'm carrying a girl (just an instinctive kind of feel) that it's hard to imagine it being a boy. I can't see me buying boy things or saying our boys name to this baby. It's such a strange feeling

That's exactly what it was like! I was convinced from the beginning it was a little boy and had imagined my boy, thought of "he" when I felt kicks and put my hand on my belly etc. I had bonded with this little "boy" then at the scan they told me it was 100% girl and I was a bit upset, took me a while to come round but I honestly just can't imagine it being any different, I can't imagine loving a boy the way I love my LO, she's my sweet precious little girly!

This time I've been really careful not to imagine anything so I really have no instinct or idea whether it's boy/girl. TBH I think a teeny part of me wants another girl just because it'll be easier (no redecorating the room, moving when they are older and we still have some girly things etc.) but a little boy would be a lovely surprise! This is our last baby as I don't cope well (mentally with anxiety etc.) with being pregnant, especially cos i can't take any meds plus I found the birth of my LO traumatic and upsetting - couldn't take about it for at least 6months without sobbing and the anxiety/depression with a newborn was just horrendous. I couldn't cope with the pressure again! xx

 

[molly85]

16 week appointment at 2 very excited

 

[irmastar]

GL at your app molly.

 

[Mosnippy]

aww good luck!

i am please to say I dont have to see anohter docter , nurse, consultant or midwife till 8h March!

It was getting a bit much at one point! felt like i should move into the hospital!

 

[kmbabycrazy]

Realised that not including today and after bank holidays and annual leave I only have 13 Mondays left at work!! Woop woop!!

Don't have to see the midwife til 7th March but do have my asthma check and scan before then. So excited to see bubs again. She's kicking harder so hopefully won't be long before OH can feel it as he's getting a little impatient.

 

[Mosnippy]

OMG i have 14!!! that doesnt sound like alot! haha

my scan is on the 8th cant waittttttttttt has to hurry up and both me and oH birthdays are in march, mine 1st and him 21st so that will be a nice birthday pressie to find out!!

 

[kmbabycrazy]

OMG i have 14!!! that doesnt sound like alot! haha

my scan is on the 8th cant waittttttttttt has to hurry up and both me and oH birthdays are in march, mine 1st and him 21st so that will be a nice birthday pressie to find out!!

Both our scan and OH's birthday is 2nd March so it's a lovely birthday present for him. I had a feeling right from the off it would be on his birthday. So glad it is. He's dying to know what we're having so it's a lovely birthday present for him x

 

[Mosnippy]

awww that is awesome! i was hoping i would get the scan on my birthday but that didnt happen lol

 

[molly85]

HP fine though she didn't write down the rate.

Induction agreed at MW level consultant will probably go for it to.

she was a little blaise about dates and baby measuring big and went off the first scan date not the 2nd scan. The place we've got out gender scan booked has had some dubious reports to. Fab!

Abby was a star though so all good

 

[Koolmami]

OMG i have 14!!! that doesnt sound like alot! haha

my scan is on the 8th cant waittttttttttt has to hurry up and both me and oH birthdays are in march, mine 1st and him 21st so that will be a nice birthday pressie to find out!!

My Birthday is on 21/3! Hopefully I will find out on 2/3. x

 

[Mosnippy]

aw awesome koolmami, there are so many birthdays in March

best month to be born in haha

i am office chair hunting.. work pays for it..as the one i got is not very supportive... man what a mission lol

 

[irmastar]

My scan is on 23rd and my son's bday is on the 24th so finding out the sex will be a great present as he can't wait to know if he's having a brother or sister.

 

[Mosnippy]

Happy Valentines day ladies! hope you and your bumps got spoileeeddddd with lots of love!

xxx

 

[kmbabycrazy]

OH left for work at 5am so nothing so fair but I have promises of being spoiled and pampered later...he's cooking us a meal...a rarity but he's a brilliant cook!! Can't wait.

He was very sweet last night and I think it was because he knew he wouldn't see me this morning. It was lovely because sometimes he doesn't seem very involved in the pregnancy or excited for the babies and then other times he comes out with the sweetest stuff last night he said "you do know the baby will be almost cuddled to death, she's not even here yet and I don't ever want to put her down." I even teared up a little. I'm very lucky XD

 

[Mosnippy]

OH left for work at 5am so nothing so fair but I have promises of being spoiled and pampered later...he's cooking us a meal...a rarity but he's a brilliant cook!! Can't wait.

He was very sweet last night and I think it was because he knew he wouldn't see me this morning. It was lovely because sometimes he doesn't seem very involved in the pregnancy or excited for the babies and then other times he comes out with the sweetest stuff last night he said "you do know the baby will be almost cuddled to death, she's not even here yet and I don't ever want to put her down." I even teared up a little. I'm very lucky XD

awww that nearly made me all well up

that is sweet!

my OH the same, not really showing any excitiment for baby but now and then more lately, he will rub my belly or cuddle me and just hold my bump..that just makes me melt

soppy cow i am lol

 

[kmbabycrazy]

OH left for work at 5am so nothing so fair but I have promises of being spoiled and pampered later...he's cooking us a meal...a rarity but he's a brilliant cook!! Can't wait.

He was very sweet last night and I think it was because he knew he wouldn't see me this morning. It was lovely because sometimes he doesn't seem very involved in the pregnancy or excited for the babies and then other times he comes out with the sweetest stuff last night he said "you do know the baby will be almost cuddled to death, she's not even here yet and I don't ever want to put her down." I even teared up a little. I'm very lucky XD

awww that nearly made me all well up

that is sweet!

my OH the same, not really showing any excitiment for baby but now and then more lately, he will rub my belly or cuddle me and just hold my bump..that just makes me melt

soppy cow i am lol

Me too. He gets soppy with me all the time but rarely about the baby and then occasionally he says something like that

 

[Mosnippy]

morning ladies! how are all of you doing good evening?

I built my new office chair this morning..let me say this was not a stressfree experiance!!! haha damn things!

I went to Dr last night (normal GP) as I been sufferring with back pain that going into my right butt cheek, like a pinched nerve almost, and suffer worst at night and murder when trying to turn in bed! looking on internet this might be Pelvic Girdle Pain,
the dr firstly wanted to prescribe me Ibruprofen Gel, and I said No I am not allowed that, so first a few min spent arguing.. she checked in her little book...and OMG I am right.. dumbass woman.. then she said well there is nothing we can do for it..and said Its called being Pregnant.. you just have to live with it!

I left in suchhhhhh a mood was more then pissed offf...so going to ring my midwife today...which i should have done in the first place but figure the Dr should know!

bunch of tits! haha

ok rant over!

 

[stardust599]

morning ladies! how are all of you doing good evening?

I built my new office chair this morning..let me say this was not a stressfree experiance!!! haha damn things!

I went to Dr last night (normal GP) as I been sufferring with back pain that going into my right butt cheek, like a pinched nerve almost, and suffer worst at night and murder when trying to turn in bed! looking on internet this might be Pelvic Girdle Pain,
the dr firstly wanted to prescribe me Ibruprofen Gel, and I said No I am not allowed that, so first a few min spent arguing.. she checked in her little book...and OMG I am right.. dumbass woman.. then she said well there is nothing we can do for it..and said Its called being Pregnant.. you just have to live with it!

I left in suchhhhhh a mood was more then pissed offf...so going to ring my midwife today...which i should have done in the first place but figure the Dr should know!

bunch of tits! haha

ok rant over!

I have it too hun. It's been agony the past few days. The pain is low down on oneside of my back and shoots down my bum and leg whenever I walk or turn over in bed. It's sciatica - the baby/uterus is putting pressure on one of my spinal nerves or something. I had it last time and some days I couldn't move. Sometimes a shower or something helps as it seems to move baby. Otherwise there's nothing that can be done!

 

[kmbabycrazy]

I had a lovely valentines day my lovely OH cooked me a gorgeous steak dinner and we curled up in bed and watched some telly. He also made me profiterole and chocolate mouse cake with cream...omg it was heaven in a bowl!!!

Feeling really shitty today...terrible migraine which is making me feel sick. Finally off to buy some maternity trousers today though as my work trousers have 3 buttons on them and i'm down to just one button lol. Think if I leave it much longer I won't have any trousers to wear haha.