Super upset. I need some love.

[Babydustx3]

My friend from high school got pregnant senior year at 16. We didn't really talk to much after graduating because she's one of the girls that doesn't think other girls are good enough if they aren't moms. Well, her and I recently started talking again since TTC is so so hard and I needed someone to talk to in confidence. Well, her and her boyfriend decided to TTC #2 last month and bam, she's 99% sure she's pregnant. I am SO upset. :'( I can't even type how sad I am. I am so happy for her of course, but I mean, come on mother nature. Let me (and my fellow BNB girlies be mamas too!)

 

[jen1019]

Oh, I am so sorry! I know how hard that can be. My sister and I are extremely close, and she has a two year old and a one year old. My husband and I have been TTC #1 for almost a year and a half now. She told me about three months ago that she was pregnant again. I was happy for her... but at the same time, it was heart breaking.

I do hope that you'll get your BFP soon And know that I totally understand what you are going through!

 

[tamithomas]

Trust me hun, I'm in the same boat. DH doesn't understand why I'm so moody today considering my BB's hurt right on perfect timing meaning AF is on the way in other words I know I'm already out and I got 6 long days to wait for AF. Meanwhile, I got my dumbass SIL doing like a hissy fit and everyone listening and giving her loads of attention because her 1 1/2 month old baby son contracted a UTI. I feel bad for the kid but for christ sake, it's not something people should be having a heart attack over.. a bit of antibiotics and he'll b good.

Plus, my friend down the street is due in the next few weeks, a "oopsy" pregnancy too...Got so pissed off at DH a few weeks back because we went to our local coffee shop (small town) and the father popped up, as the father was leaving he said "you're gonna come and see the newborn when he's born right?" and DH without hesitation before I could answer said "sure no problem!" Needless to say he got an earful when I got home... I'm a woman of promise therefore I'm stuck going through that again, with a father that dared call up my DH at 3am because he was having doubts about being a dad. everyone around me seems to be getting pregnancy by sharing soap at this point. And the women that are having oopsies are barely 18. I'm 23 myself.

Anyways, just here to say I fully understand!

 

[Babydustx3]

Aww ladies I am so so sorry as well. It's so disheartening. I'm 20, almost 21, and have been TTC since I was 19 but I've been with DH since we were both 15 and it's just right. I want to be a young mom, and he wants to be a young dad.


This cycle will make it or break it for my emotions I feel. Last cycle we didn't really try... we took kind of a mental break but we accidentally put ourselves in the running because we bd'd the day before ov (go figure lol). This month I'm in it full force.

Have either of you told a lot of people that you're TTC?

 

[flipbabies]

i know how you feel babydustx3...my husband and i are 27, have a son thats 2 and people always tell us "well youre young...it will happen!" well guess what here we are a year into trying for #2 and still nothing.

its so hard when others tell you their excitement because you cant help but feel disappointed its not you. your not alone and im sorry your having a rough day!

 

[tamithomas]

for me no I haven't told anyone because now that my SIL just had her little one, sadly if I go telling people right now we're TTC it would only look like I'm just trying because she's had a baby now which isn't true we started trying even before my step brother got together with my SIL. If there's any pregnancy i resent, it's her!!! Dumby did it on purpose by stoping the pill without telling my step brother and within 2 months bam she was BFP. The catch? she was still living at my mom and his dads place, no job, my step brother had a part timer, they were major dope heads and smokers,drinkers you name it. The list is endless as to why I hate that they fell BFP