Fruitmash
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Comments about baby's gender! I'm only 12 weeks so finding out is a long way off but I can't take anymore.
I have a beautiful four year old daughter. When I was pregnant with her I was desperate for a girl, so much I cried on here about not wanting a boy at all. I was so scared and anxious about having a son and not loving him.
This time, I couldn't care less. And I'm really enjoying having no preference, I know I won't be disappointed either way and it feels like a weights been lifted.
But people won't shut up about how I HAVE to have a boy! How great they are!
It's so weird to me, first time around there was such an emphasis on having a healthy baby instead of a specific gender and now it's switched. When people say "aw, I'm sure you'd love to have a boy" all I reply is that I only care that they're healthy. But people keep rattling on "yeah yeah of course but given the choice..."
Sorry for the rant. Totally lost my rag haha
I have a beautiful four year old daughter. When I was pregnant with her I was desperate for a girl, so much I cried on here about not wanting a boy at all. I was so scared and anxious about having a son and not loving him.
This time, I couldn't care less. And I'm really enjoying having no preference, I know I won't be disappointed either way and it feels like a weights been lifted.
But people won't shut up about how I HAVE to have a boy! How great they are!
It's so weird to me, first time around there was such an emphasis on having a healthy baby instead of a specific gender and now it's switched. When people say "aw, I'm sure you'd love to have a boy" all I reply is that I only care that they're healthy. But people keep rattling on "yeah yeah of course but given the choice..."
Sorry for the rant. Totally lost my rag haha