This is prob going to sound like such a pathetic whingey post and i dont consider myself an attention seeker but....
Is it wrong of me to expect a bit of sympathy and understanding while im pregnant?
I feel like Jase doesnt understand this time round atall. When i was pregnant with Coby he was great, wouldnt let me do anything also asking questions and seeing if i was ok, this time round i feel hes being an arse.
I am still carring the weight from Coby so im extra heavy right now and i can feel the affect its having on me and my body daily (my fault for not doing anything about it i know)
At teh weekends we normaly clean the house together, its a 4 bedroom 3 reception room house so it takes us a while to get it done. Last weekend he went off on one coz he had to empty the dishwaher...his area is teh kitchen, the dishwaher is in the kitchen, i didnt see why he was making such a fuss....Anyway, after that and the 'i work all week' excuse being thrown at me for the thundreth time, i decided i would clean teh house bit by bit in the week so he never has to do anything.
Today is hoovering and mopping, so i did that plus 3 loads of washing (washed, dried and put away) plus i also cleaned teh bathroom and kitchen coz they needed it.
It was my night with Coby last night and i got up a couple of times, was meant to be my lie in this morning but i couldnt sleep coz Coby was screaming, so i got up at 8am. I went to lay down at 12 coz i was shattered but was woken up by Jase watching the tv (there is one downstairs!!) and COby climbing all over the bed, so i got up and did teh house work etc.
I just mentioned how tired i am feeling to Jase and he said 'what?! you have sleot all afternoon'....like fuck did i!
I am starting to feel like i cant tell him how im feeling anymore coz im being a pain, he said he cant cope with my down days and my feelings of cheating etc, whcih i can understand, but i wish he would understand that i cant help it either.
I just want some sympathy, attention and understnading, is that to much to ask?
Am i being unreasonable do you think? be honest..
x
Is it wrong of me to expect a bit of sympathy and understanding while im pregnant?
I feel like Jase doesnt understand this time round atall. When i was pregnant with Coby he was great, wouldnt let me do anything also asking questions and seeing if i was ok, this time round i feel hes being an arse.
I am still carring the weight from Coby so im extra heavy right now and i can feel the affect its having on me and my body daily (my fault for not doing anything about it i know)
At teh weekends we normaly clean the house together, its a 4 bedroom 3 reception room house so it takes us a while to get it done. Last weekend he went off on one coz he had to empty the dishwaher...his area is teh kitchen, the dishwaher is in the kitchen, i didnt see why he was making such a fuss....Anyway, after that and the 'i work all week' excuse being thrown at me for the thundreth time, i decided i would clean teh house bit by bit in the week so he never has to do anything.
Today is hoovering and mopping, so i did that plus 3 loads of washing (washed, dried and put away) plus i also cleaned teh bathroom and kitchen coz they needed it.
It was my night with Coby last night and i got up a couple of times, was meant to be my lie in this morning but i couldnt sleep coz Coby was screaming, so i got up at 8am. I went to lay down at 12 coz i was shattered but was woken up by Jase watching the tv (there is one downstairs!!) and COby climbing all over the bed, so i got up and did teh house work etc.
I just mentioned how tired i am feeling to Jase and he said 'what?! you have sleot all afternoon'....like fuck did i!
I am starting to feel like i cant tell him how im feeling anymore coz im being a pain, he said he cant cope with my down days and my feelings of cheating etc, whcih i can understand, but i wish he would understand that i cant help it either.
I just want some sympathy, attention and understnading, is that to much to ask?
Am i being unreasonable do you think? be honest..
x