~*Team 2012 Baby*~ ladies arriving from our TTC #1 Team 2012 find your friends here!

[armywife11]

Jo- I was thinking round ligament pain as well. I had period like cramps my whole pregnancy with Laila and she arrived past her due date so try not to worry. Hopefully just the stretching.

Wis- Ugh time slow down!!!

JM- Yea I showed much faster and noticed things much sooner. I guess you just know what everything is. I don't want to post what she said exactly but basically it was just how the second tri doesn't mean you can stop worrying, but in more graphic and this horrible thing happened to me phrasing.

 

[jmandrews]

Oh no I can't believe she would say something to you like that I'm sorry try to let that go and enjoy the 2nd Tri. It's out of our hands what happens so just have faith that baby is healthy. Sorry that was said to you.

 

[wantanerd]

I am not out yet! I got triggered today! Our Anniversary is this weekend so here's hoping!
This will be the last trip to the FS, hubby and I are moving to VA for a year next month. So if I don't catch the egg, the next time I can think about getting into the doctor is in July up in Viginia. Thankfully we will be in Dulles so there are FS's all over the place. So here's hoping!

I hope everyone is having a good valentines day!

 

[armywife11]

GOOD LUCK WANTANERD!!!


Baby had a good heartbeat today and everything is measuring right on track. I feel much better now.

 

[Wilsey]

Good luck wantanerd!

That's great news army!

 

[armywife11]

Any updates?????

I go back in a few weeks and will schedule the 20 week ultrasound then... boy or girl we shall see.

 

[jmandrews]

Nothing much here. I have no symptoms. I hate not having symptoms. It makes me worry. 2 weeks until my ultrasound though! Yay! I can't wait!

 

[wantanerd]

I didn't ovulate according to BW but I am heavily spotting now. Last fertility treatment for awhile. Have to concentrate on moving for the time being. =(

 

[armywife11]

jmandrews - I didn't have many at first, then had morning sickness, and back to almost none. Totally different from my first one. I am glad I am feeling kicks a little now so thats comforting.

wantanerd - Sorry to hear that hopefully you will have good luck after the move and everything.

 

[Mrs W 11]

Good luck for your scan jm! Not long to wait.

Wantanerd, sorry to hear that but exciting news about moving! What's your new house like?

I'm having a really horribly frustrating time after my mc. On my 2nd cycle now and my opks always have lines, mid cycle bleeding and cramping but no temp increase so haven't oved. Keeping fingers crossed I will soon x

 

[wantanerd]

I wish I knew! We are moving to one of the most expensive areas in the country and all we can afford is a tiny apartment. DH is leaving on Sunday and starting work on Monday. I have to stay behind to move most of our stuff into storage. DH will be apartment hunting while I get to find someone to manage the house we bought here and rent it our. But it's only for a year and then we will move back to my home town.

I am not looking forward to moving. We are entirely too close to his family that we have had problems with for the last 5 years. They know nothing of our impending move or job change and its totally stressing me out.

Af is at full force. I woke up with horrible cramps and I have so much to do but I can't move!

 

[jmandrews]

Thank you time is flying. I just can't wait to see my sweet little bean.

Keeping you two in my prayers and sending lots of dust. Wantanerd good luck on your move. I know it is very stressful especially with your DH moving before you. I did the same thing 6 months ago. Best of luck!

Mrs W I hope you recover soon. Keeping you in my thoughts. Lots of dust! Fingers crossed you OV.

 

[jmandrews]

I started spotting brown so I went to the Dr. Today and found out that I lost the baby I'm devastated. My intuition has been telling me something was wrong for the last 2 weeks. I just had a feeling. Hoping I MC soon so I can move on and try again.

 

[wantanerd]

So Sorry to hear JM!!!

 

[Mrs W 11]

Oh jm, I'm so so sorry. I understand how you feel as this is exactly what happened to me in January. Sadly it is all too common and I know how devastated you must be. I just had a feeling too, followed by brown spotting.

Look after yourself over the next few weeks, are you going to have a natural mc? I'm here if you want to talk at any time you can pm me.

I got myself magazines, chocolate, wine and had. Week off work with warm baths and hot water bottles. It gets a little easier as time goes on.

Thinking of you

 

[jmandrews]

Thank you so much.
Mrs W wish I could have been there for u more during that time.
It's all so surreal right now. I am going to MC naturally. Hoping it happens soon so I can move on. DH and I want to start TTC again when we get the ok by my Dr. My heart feels so empty but DD definitely helps to put a smile in my face. She gave me lots of love and hugs when I got home from the Dr. I pray this doesn't happen to anyone else. I'm lucky to have so much love and support from family and friends.

Was ur MC natural? How does it feel? I'm nervous. I hope my cycle goes back to normal. I know so many people due around when I was so this is going to be hard.

 

[Mrs W 11]

Aww I understand how anxious you must feel. I was given three options, natural (which they told me could take 2 weeks or so), tablets inserted in the cervix to incur mc or a d&c. After a nights thought and talking to my hubby, I choose the medically induced mc with the tablets. I didn't want to wait any longer as I wanted to move on and ttc again and I didn't want surgery.

It wasn't as bad as I had read it could be, I had some bad cramping like mild contractions and a lot of bleeding that night and I passed the sac the next day. I would advise taking some time off if you work and having close family around to help. I just had warm baths, read magazines and ate nice food, and a few glasses of wine! My in laws came to help us out and were a god send.

The mc support area on the forum here is good and I've met some great ladies there and the ttc after loss area too.

Look after yourself Hun and keep smiling. It's so very sad and you will never forget (I have a silver charm on my pandora bracelet with a sparkly star in honour of my angel baby) but it will get easier. I hope your bfp doesn't take too long, they say you are more fertile after a mc so fingers crossed for you. Xxx

 

[Wilsey]

jm - I'm so so so sorry I'm thinking of you and your family! We're all here if you need us x x

 

[josephine3]

Oh so sorry jm
i think u should definitely take Mrs W's advice and pamper yourself!

 

[jmandrews]

Thank you
I am meeting with my Dr. On Monday to discuss what we can do to speed things up. I'm having some pretty intense cramps. We leave for vacation in exactly 2 weeks so I don't want to be bleeding while in Punta Cana. I just want to be able to relax and enjoy our time there. It definitely came at the perfect time. We need to escape reality for a little bit. I'd love to add a charm to my pandora bracelet. That's a great idea.
I'm doing better emotionally. Just ready to start trying again when we can.