~*Team 2012 Baby*~ ladies arriving from our TTC #1 Team 2012 find your friends here!

[jmandrews]

yay congrats!!!!!

 

[wantanerd]

So we went to the ultrasound and its a boy! He was sleeping and as soon as the tech woke him up, he uncurled and its a boy! The 3-d could have been better if he wasn't hiding in his placenta but just knowing what we are having made it all worth it!!!

 

[Bug222]

awww congrats!!! Beautiful scan photos!!!

 

[ferens06]

Congratulations!xx

 

[jmandrews]

CONGRATS! sweet baby boy

 

[EMSchick22]

Well girls I just haven't had the heart to get back on here until today.. We found out on Tuesday that our precious little baby was no longer with us The baby stopped growing around 6 weeks 2 days and no heartbeat was present on the ultrasound....We are devestated....doctor told us that something just prob wasnt forming right with the baby...maybe a spinal, heart, or brain defect.. I am so hurt, scared and at a loss for words, but I guess I would rather have this hurt now than for my baby to have ever had to feel one ounce of pain... I had a D&C done on Wednesday and my doctor said we shouldnt have any complications in the future he thinks it was just a fluke thing and shouldnt happen again...but still extremely nervous and sad and really not sure where to go at this point...Im sure once he clears me we will begin trying again only this time with one angel on our side looking over us.....

 

[jmandrews]

I am soo soo sorry for your loss EMS i hope you find peace soon and are able to start trying for another precious little one. You def. have an angel looking over you. Keep in touch.

 

[Bug222]

Oh EMS I am so very sorry for your loss. Take comfort in each other and know your little angel is watching over you.

 

[likeaustralia]

Oh no! I'm so so sorry EMS!! I wish you a speedy recovery and send you lots and lots of !

 

[ferens06]

So sorry EMS

 

[wantanerd]

So sorry EMS

 

[kitcatbaby]

ems! Sleep tight angel... so sorry! Xx

 

[Mrs W 11]

So sorry ems. Sending big hugs and prayers to you at this time. X x

 

[josephine3]

Oh what sad news. Sorry EMS lots of love to you xx

 

[likeaustralia]

Well, we told my in-laws last night after xmas dinner. They were excited. My brother-in-law's wife asked if we were "Trying" or if it "just happened." I just kind of ignored her and changed the subject. Super awkward. I didn't really want to talk about our sex life at the christmas table! Anyone else get odd questions when they announced their news?

 

[wantanerd]

We didn't tell DH's parents we had been trying or seeing a fertility specialist so we caught them off guard when we announced to them. They asked if this was a surprise and the hubby said something along the lines of nothing is a surprise with fertility treatment. His parents knew before I had PCOS and it would pretty much be inevitable we would have to use some sort of fertility but they seemed to be blind sided that we kept TTC a secret from them for two years.
But since the inlaws and I don't get along too well, they didn't need to be kept in the loop about what was happening. They seem to be getting somewhat excited now that we told them it is a boy but I doubt I will get any closer to them.

 

[jmandrews]

We told the rest of our family and friends Christmas night everyone was so so excited!!! But this morning my DH's uncle said "aren't ur boobs supposed to get bigger when ur pregnant?" I was WTF!!! I was so embarrassed and didn't know what to say. DH didn't stick up for me and went on by joking about it. I was so mad!

 

[rosabelle]

I am so sorry EMS, i cant imagine being in your shoes at the moment.
thinking of you xx

 

[likeaustralia]

Ugh. I just have to vent. Because I get really nervous at the doctors, my blood pressure ALWAYS goes up there. As a result, I had to do a 24 hour urine test and a follow up blood test last week Thursday and Friday to look for signs of pre-eclampsia. I hadn't heard from them, so I figured it was a good sign because they said they'd only call if there was an issue. Well, today, I get a call and they leave a message. I call back, worried. It turns out they FORGOT TO SEND MY F*CKING SAMPLE TO THE LAB. So, NOW, I have to redo the 24 hour urine test AND get my blood drawn again. For someone who gets anxiety about the doctors, this is making it 100x worse. I can't handle this. I really, really, REALLY hate dealing with doctors.

 

[wantanerd]

Ugh. I just have to vent. Because I get really nervous at the doctors, my blood pressure ALWAYS goes up there. As a result, I had to do a 24 hour urine test and a follow up blood test last week Thursday and Friday to look for signs of pre-eclampsia. I hadn't heard from them, so I figured it was a good sign because they said they'd only call if there was an issue. Well, today, I get a call and they leave a message. I call back, worried. It turns out they FORGOT TO SEND MY F*CKING SAMPLE TO THE LAB. So, NOW, I have to redo the 24 hour urine test AND get my blood drawn again. For someone who gets anxiety about the doctors, this is making it 100x worse. I can't handle this. I really, really, REALLY hate dealing with doctors.

I have your same problem. My blood pressure/ pulse is always up there when I go to doctors especially new ones and the moment they mention needles, I freak out. But for blood work they prescribe me Emla cream. put it on an hour before the blood draw and you feel nothing. It was a real life saver during my recent 3 hour glucose test where they draw your blood 4 times.