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Heidi
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Hey girls........
I'm typing this with out knowing what to actually write lol
So i got this new job and thought things couldn't get any better mainly because things have been so crap before now, well this month was our NTNP month because of the wedding and stuff so we only bd'd three times in almost 50 days which was twice at the beginning of the cycle and then randomly around day 30 odd. Being that my cycles are still irregular i didnt think to much in to the face AF wasn't here yet because i've has AF like pains for three days well....
I only went and did a test today and got a BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It hasn't sunk in yet and i'm not going to believe it till i go to the doctors, I'm really happy but at the same time anxious and worried about the face i got a new job and if bub sticks i'll be due a week before my wedding day, how will i cope!!!!
I really would like some advice girls as to what to do next, i feel totally sick and confussed
I'm typing this with out knowing what to actually write lol
So i got this new job and thought things couldn't get any better mainly because things have been so crap before now, well this month was our NTNP month because of the wedding and stuff so we only bd'd three times in almost 50 days which was twice at the beginning of the cycle and then randomly around day 30 odd. Being that my cycles are still irregular i didnt think to much in to the face AF wasn't here yet because i've has AF like pains for three days well....
I only went and did a test today and got a BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It hasn't sunk in yet and i'm not going to believe it till i go to the doctors, I'm really happy but at the same time anxious and worried about the face i got a new job and if bub sticks i'll be due a week before my wedding day, how will i cope!!!!
I really would like some advice girls as to what to do next, i feel totally sick and confussed
chele
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Oh my goooooooooooooooooooooood
I knew it. I bloody knew it!!!!!!!! I knew it!
Well firstly, CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Secondly, the pains are normal. I cramped the day I got my BFP and have cramped every day since. Apparently it's normal and only worry when it becomes real pain.
Ok so the wedding. Well, just carry on with the plans. You can get some beautiful wedding gowns, nice grecian style ones I like for nice big bumps. You do the run the risk though that the baby might be a bit early and will ruin the plans. Is there any chance you can move the date by a couple of months - either before or after. People combine marriage with a baby all the time. That's the easy one really. I say of course, but can understand that its messing your plans. Can you discuss this with your OH and your family? How set it stone are the plans?
As for the job, well just go for it. Even with a new pregnancy you have rights. OK so you need to work for a company for 9 months to get maternity leave, but am sure you can come to some agreement when they find out. You want the job, so just take it and carry on. Just play along for a few months. They can't sack you for this at all!
At the end of the day, yes your world has been turned upside down, but also it's one of the most magical moments of your life
Honey despite your ups and downs you must be feeling now I am so well chuffed for you. And a 49 day cycle too - we've done so well from this group!
PM me any time xxxxxxx
I knew it. I bloody knew it!!!!!!!! I knew it!
Well firstly, CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Secondly, the pains are normal. I cramped the day I got my BFP and have cramped every day since. Apparently it's normal and only worry when it becomes real pain.
Ok so the wedding. Well, just carry on with the plans. You can get some beautiful wedding gowns, nice grecian style ones I like for nice big bumps. You do the run the risk though that the baby might be a bit early and will ruin the plans. Is there any chance you can move the date by a couple of months - either before or after. People combine marriage with a baby all the time. That's the easy one really. I say of course, but can understand that its messing your plans. Can you discuss this with your OH and your family? How set it stone are the plans?
As for the job, well just go for it. Even with a new pregnancy you have rights. OK so you need to work for a company for 9 months to get maternity leave, but am sure you can come to some agreement when they find out. You want the job, so just take it and carry on. Just play along for a few months. They can't sack you for this at all!
At the end of the day, yes your world has been turned upside down, but also it's one of the most magical moments of your life
Honey despite your ups and downs you must be feeling now I am so well chuffed for you. And a 49 day cycle too - we've done so well from this group!
PM me any time xxxxxxx
Heidi
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The last couple of days FF gave me a free trial and says my EDD will be 30th April which is 8 days before the wedding, theres not really anyway we can move it because everything is arranged and booked.i'm going to go tomorrow to doctors tomorrow and do another test in the morning, we've been TTC for almost 11 months and the ONE month we dont try BOOM!! i've BD'd loads around O before and nothing, i even got up straight after and went to the loo to get rid of it all, its just crazy! I've not tested before now because i didnt have any and wasn't really obsessing over it like previous months.
I'm over the moon to see those two lines on that test i've NEVER seen two lines not even a sniff of a bfp before today, its my 1st ever.
It's just typical that two good things come along at once.
When do you find out your due date hun? Thank you for the advice and kind word's i've been waiting for you to come online since i found out! I will post a piccie of the test in a bit
I'm over the moon to see those two lines on that test i've NEVER seen two lines not even a sniff of a bfp before today, its my 1st ever.
It's just typical that two good things come along at once.
When do you find out your due date hun? Thank you for the advice and kind word's i've been waiting for you to come online since i found out! I will post a piccie of the test in a bit
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congrat heidi on the job and bfp,
drakey we dont need more team members we just need to get ourselves a bfp too and quick sharp!!!!!
do you ever feel like its never gonna happen? i do,thats why i stop away from bnb sometimes.....
drakey we dont need more team members we just need to get ourselves a bfp too and quick sharp!!!!!
do you ever feel like its never gonna happen? i do,thats why i stop away from bnb sometimes.....
Heidi
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I had the feeling as if it would never be me for over 10 months and it happened when i least expected it. This is one bloody lucky group, we've all come from long horrible cycles, which makes things harder to plan but it can still happen
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that is one nice looking test honey.
Congratulations again
See all these people who "try to keep the soup in the bowl" - if it's going to happen it will happen. it was just meant to be. See even some people give birth in the morning and get married in the afternoon -
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Well I calculated my due date based on when I ovulated, so you're not that far behind me! I have decided to get a private scan done and am just going to book that in a minute as I can't wait another 5 weeks- I need to know now. I had a horrible cramp Friday night at 4am that worried me but all seems to be ok still. I just want a scan to know everything is ok.
What does your OH say you should do?
Congratulations again
See all these people who "try to keep the soup in the bowl" - if it's going to happen it will happen. it was just meant to be. See even some people give birth in the morning and get married in the afternoon -
!!Well I calculated my due date based on when I ovulated, so you're not that far behind me! I have decided to get a private scan done and am just going to book that in a minute as I can't wait another 5 weeks- I need to know now. I had a horrible cramp Friday night at 4am that worried me but all seems to be ok still. I just want a scan to know everything is ok.
What does your OH say you should do?
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gypsy - yeh i do feel like its never going to happen... and sometimes when i see people close who get their bfp i feel nothing but jelousy, how callous is that?? its funny how ttc can make us soo rapped up in ourselfs sometimes and hw it can change us as a person.
hopefully we wont be too far behind chele and heidi.... xx
hopefully we wont be too far behind chele and heidi.... xx
Heidi
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that is one nice looking test honey.
Congratulations again
See all these people who "try to keep the soup in the bowl" - if it's going to happen it will happen. it was just meant to be. See even some people give birth in the morning and get married in the afternoon -
Well I calculated my due date based on when I ovulated, so you're not that far behind me! I have decided to get a private scan done and am just going to book that in a minute as I can't wait another 5 weeks- I need to know now. I had a horrible cramp Friday night at 4am that worried me but all seems to be ok still. I just want a scan to know everything is ok.
What does your OH say you should do?
He thinks it will be silly to move the wedding, we're just going to play it by ear for now, we're both still taking it in atm
, i was going to tell my mum today but realised i dont have any answers for all the questions they are going to ask me i.e wedding related so i chickened out.
I had stronger period like cramps today than yesterdays but it's nothing i've not had before so am not too worried. When do you start having test etc, i'm totally clueless about all of this!
When are you booking the scan for? you should update your journal i'm stalking but not seeing these updates in there lol
xDrakey,Gypsy sending you all the
in the whole world, how are the appointments going?
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Hey everyone!
Im back from Holidays. A huge congratulations Heidi! Well done you
How is everyone else doing? I have my appointment with the hospital tomorrow which I will be on cd3. So am hoping that I might have clomid or get closer to getting it anyway.
Anyone else know what they do at the first hospital appointment? Getting nervous now. I have had a scan which confirms PCOS at the same hospital that I will have my appointment tomorrow, so not sure what else they will need to do, and as the witch is here not sure if they will do a repeat scan or not. Is there a point in them taking my bloods, as I have had these back already showing everything else is fine appart from th PCOS?
I will keep you all up to date anyway.
Speak to you all soon!
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Im back from Holidays. A huge congratulations Heidi! Well done you
How is everyone else doing? I have my appointment with the hospital tomorrow which I will be on cd3. So am hoping that I might have clomid or get closer to getting it anyway.
Anyone else know what they do at the first hospital appointment? Getting nervous now. I have had a scan which confirms PCOS at the same hospital that I will have my appointment tomorrow, so not sure what else they will need to do, and as the witch is here not sure if they will do a repeat scan or not. Is there a point in them taking my bloods, as I have had these back already showing everything else is fine appart from th PCOS?
I will keep you all up to date anyway.
Speak to you all soon!
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Hey Everyone 
Here is my update after todays hospital appointment. Sit tight, it could be a long one!
Well I arrived at my appointment early, managed to park and find where I needed to go in the hospital. I waited for about 5 mins before being called in to see the specialist.
She was lovely. Went through my history, my periods, my problems since comming off the pill. Hubby was called out on a work emergency so couldnt make it to the appointment.
But the specialist went through my details and said she would look at hubbys next time 
So after I told her my life history, she said that they would need to run some bloods themselves to make sure it is actually PCOS, and apparantly a scan means nothing???? It's all down to blood results.
So a little confused I went along with what she said anyway. So lucky for me I was on cd3 today. Ideal time for them to take my bloods. I was also given a blood test appointment for cd21 bloods too, so this is looking good so far, the timming couldnt be better. As hubby wasn't there, they gave me an appointment for him to drop off a semen sample next week. This way at my next appointment she will have all our information infront of her, ready for the next step She said she would take further information and notes from hubby also at the next appointment.
So just as I thought things were going great, I was told to book in my next appointment at reception - ask for next available appointment was what I was told to do. And there it was a huge slap in the face - Will January 28th be ok???????????
Whaaaaaattttttttt????? That's the next available appointment!!!!!!
Im so glad that things seem to be moving in the right directions, but January until my next appointment??
I accepted the appointment and smiled as I was told to keep trying, and you may even be phoning us to ask to cancell as you could still get pregnant were mentioned to me!
I think I will phone the department every couple of weeks after I have my cd21 bloods done, to see if they have received any cancellations that I could slot into. They will know me by my voice by January at this rate!
Sorry again for the long post, but just thought I would keep you all up to date.
How is everyone else doing?
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Here is my update after todays hospital appointment. Sit tight, it could be a long one!
Well I arrived at my appointment early, managed to park and find where I needed to go in the hospital. I waited for about 5 mins before being called in to see the specialist.
She was lovely. Went through my history, my periods, my problems since comming off the pill. Hubby was called out on a work emergency so couldnt make it to the appointment.
But the specialist went through my details and said she would look at hubbys next time So after I told her my life history, she said that they would need to run some bloods themselves to make sure it is actually PCOS, and apparantly a scan means nothing???? It's all down to blood results.
So a little confused I went along with what she said anyway. So lucky for me I was on cd3 today. Ideal time for them to take my bloods. I was also given a blood test appointment for cd21 bloods too, so this is looking good so far, the timming couldnt be better. As hubby wasn't there, they gave me an appointment for him to drop off a semen sample next week. This way at my next appointment she will have all our information infront of her, ready for the next step
She said she would take further information and notes from hubby also at the next appointment.So just as I thought things were going great, I was told to book in my next appointment at reception - ask for next available appointment was what I was told to do. And there it was a huge slap in the face - Will January 28th be ok???????????
Whaaaaaattttttttt????? That's the next available appointment!!!!!!
Im so glad that things seem to be moving in the right directions, but January until my next appointment??
I accepted the appointment and smiled as I was told to keep trying, and you may even be phoning us to ask to cancell as you could still get pregnant were mentioned to me!
I think I will phone the department every couple of weeks after I have my cd21 bloods done, to see if they have received any cancellations that I could slot into. They will know me by my voice by January at this rate!
Sorry again for the long post, but just thought I would keep you all up to date.
How is everyone else doing?
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bloody january,i bet your right p**sed off, because i am for you!!!
how long you been trying nnn?
well im waiting for af,im 11dpo ish i think but im past caring now to be honest!!! im on a bit of a downer and pig sick of it all.everyone round where i live seems to be getting pregnant i im sick of people saying "itll happen when you least expect it to" well no it wont,i never expect it to happen now and it hasnt yet so thats a load of rubbish!!!!!!! rant over
everyone else ok,drakey you ok?
how you pregnant ladies getting on?
how long you been trying nnn?
well im waiting for af,im 11dpo ish i think but im past caring now to be honest!!! im on a bit of a downer and pig sick of it all.everyone round where i live seems to be getting pregnant i im sick of people saying "itll happen when you least expect it to" well no it wont,i never expect it to happen now and it hasnt yet so thats a load of rubbish!!!!!!! rant over
everyone else ok,drakey you ok?
how you pregnant ladies getting on?
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Hi Gypsy,
Yeah majorly peed off!!!!!
I stopped taking the pill 22nd September 2008 so getting close to the year mark now. Although I am only on cycle 5 in this time.
I have decided though to call the hospital weekly after I ve had all the tests done, to see if I can get a cancelled appointmant instead.
How are things with you? What stage are you at now?
Drakey what about you? How are you keeping hun?
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Yeah majorly peed off!!!!!
I stopped taking the pill 22nd September 2008 so getting close to the year mark now. Although I am only on cycle 5 in this time.
I have decided though to call the hospital weekly after I ve had all the tests done, to see if I can get a cancelled appointmant instead.
How are things with you? What stage are you at now?
Drakey what about you? How are you keeping hun?
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woah nnn that's so long away. Still at least things went well and fingers crossed you get an appointment in October or something.
It's great you can drop off DH semen sample
Did I mention we got our letter through 2 weeks ago regarding my DHs semen sample and it's for the end of October!!!!!!! Just to do a bloody semen sample. So that would mean we would have had to wait another 3 months for our referral to the hospital. I was so angry when it came through. We haven't cancelled it yet, just in case something god forbid happens to beanie.
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It's great you can drop off DH semen sample
Did I mention we got our letter through 2 weeks ago regarding my DHs semen sample and it's for the end of October!!!!!!! Just to do a bloody semen sample. So that would mean we would have had to wait another 3 months for our referral to the hospital. I was so angry when it came through. We haven't cancelled it yet, just in case something god forbid happens to beanie.
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