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[NickyT75]

Girls, Sad news.

Poshie Pingu has had some bad news as a result of her scan. I think she will probably need our support and love right now

Oh no!!!!! my heart sank when i read this - im off to read her journo now to find out whats happened

thanks for the heads up Katie xx

 

[LittleMermaid]

So sorry and gutted to hear Poshie's news ... Ive posted in your journal hunni!

Another big furry for you xxxx

 

[Poshie]

Just a quickie to thank you my Pingu friends for thinking of me It's still raw of course, but I'm sure we'll get through this. I have my DH and I have you girls, thank you

 

[Cocobelle]

Poshie, I am really sorry to hear your sad news

 

[toby2]

thinking of you poshie((((((((())))))))))

 

[toby2]

hope you get some reassurance today hekate
xx

 

[hekate]

loads of hugs poshie! thinking of you!

 

[hekate]

thanks toby...will see the doctor in 15min....not sure how they would know anything so....lol....really got faith in the medical profession!

 

[Su11]

Hey Ladies.

Going crazy over here - think ive lost what lil i had left of my mind.
I need to go out.

Saw Poshies journal - gutted for her .

Hope all is ok Hekate.

Hope everyone else is good

& to all

 

[hekate]

so I went to the doctors! now I know again why I don't usually do that!

well I told her about the spotting and the pain....and she basically just said it's to early for anything and "what is going to happen is going to happen".....great thing to say!!!
she did not even book me with a midwife.....probably because she thinks I am gonna m/c....when I asked her about the midwife she said come back in two weeks....as it's too early.....she says I am only 2 days over....can't they even count????
no advise about what not to do when pregnant.....except to take folic acid.....
I could cry if I wasn't so angry!

 

[randomxx]

sorry to hear that dont let it get you down to much try and stay positive and rest loads!

i didnt have to book my midwifes appointment through the doctor just phone your doctors surgery and tell them you want to book an appointment with her!

you know what foods to avoid and everything dont you?

xxxx

 

[NickyT75]

Sorry the doctors are being so unhelpful hekate but that just typical of them im afraid

they arent really that interested until we reach about 8wks and even then... they seem to have this 'easy come - easy go' attitude which really stinks

just try to relax & take things easy (I know its easier said than done but unfortunately its just a waiting game at the moment)

Is the spotting any better? xx

 

[hekate]

thanks hun! in means a lot that you replied to this!
I was really upset....and then somebody recommended to go to the epu
but I think that would make me worse....so I went shopping instead!
feeling a bit better now....spotting still there so

 

[NickyT75]

Yeah the EPU wont do anything at this early stage hun (they wont scan anyone until at least 6+wks as there wouldnt be anything to see before this point)

Is it actual spotting? or just pink CM when you wipe? xx

 

[hekate]

pink cm when i wipe....

 

[hekate]

and she said "we see so many girls with bleeding".....I am f*ing 32 years old! and what
is that supposed to mean anyway!

 

[hope&faith09]

docs can be right idiots when it comes to early pregnancy, when i suspected i was she told me to go away and see what happens no support or anything - i have my fingers firmly crossed for you hun. Sticky bean sticky bean sticky bean

Well im expecting to ovulate on wednesday ... no other news! how is everyone

 

[hekate]

thanks so much hope! how is your foot doing now?

 

[NickyT75]

Pink cm is nothing to worry about babe - im sure of it xx

 

[Lyns]

Oh, Hekate....i'm so sorry you are going through this worry. I wish there was some reassurance you could get, but even a scan at this stage wouldn't see anything and would probably worry you more.

All I can say is I have read countless stories on here of women who bled and spotted, and had no problem for the rest of the 9 months, and then look at me.....no bleeding and I lost both my babies, so there really is no reason to presume the worst. You really have got to keep hope.

Sending you postive sticky vibes xxx