superfrizbee
Love my princess & prince
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Hi everyone. I'm nearly 22 weeks and had my 20 scan yesterday (our hospital does them a bit later). I have a DD who is nearly 5 and a DS who is 2.5. My DD really wants this baby to be a little girl. I have explained to her already that we don't get to choose, but yesterday at the scan I thought I saw a flash of boy bits before the sonographer told us to look away. I'm not sure. We were looking from above down at the abdoman and it could have been the pelvis or pubic bone. It seemed big for boy parts, but who knows! Anyway. I'm a tad worried about not being able to "prepare" my dd if it is a boy and I'd be sad if she were disappointed when "he" arrived. At the same time I want to stay team yellow, as this is my last planned baby and I have never had the surprise before. She does sometimes referred to baby as a she, and sometimes as a he. Does anyone have any experience of gender disappointment in siblings?