Telling my mother..

[Daisy06]

I'm trying to find the right time to tell my mother.. haven't decided on what i'm doing yet, but i still need to tell her! Any ideas? x

 

[mark N nikki]

if ur close to ur mum then jst say u really need to talk to her bout sumin important!
ul need to tell her asap hun the sooner the better the longer u leave it the harderit will be to tell her!

if ur worried then see if a sis (if u have an old 1) or a frend can sit in with u when u do for moral support!
good luck xxx

 

[Daisy06]

Thanks! We are quite close..but i'm too scared to tell her!
I've been waiting for my dad to go to bed, cos i dont want him around! My auntie knows, im thinking of asking her to phone my mam 2nite + tell her.. not sure if thats a good idea though? i really think i should tell her myself, but im going to keep putting it off! x

 

[dreams]

I waited 7 weeks to tell my mother. I definitely don't recommend it! After the shock she calmed down and she's such a support to me now.

Putting it off only makes it worse x

 

[princessttc]

I told my mum straight away and after the inital shock she was actually really happy

 

[Abblebubba]

Dont let her be the last to know, i told my mum about a week after i found out and she appreiciated that a lot more.

Hugs

 

[starryeye31]

I know its scary hun but after you tell her you will feel 100 times better like a big weight has been lifted from your shoulders .

 

[LilMama2be]

Don't have your aunt tell her, she'll probably find you're trying to be mature by telling her yourself.

 

[Jemma_x]

Id recommend telling her as soon as possible, my mum wasnt to happy at first but she came round to the idea and has been a big support

 

[tasha41]

Tell your mom as soon as possible, it's scary, but it feels great to get rid of that stress & have it "out in the open".. I waited until I was 10 weeks to tell my parents.

I told my mom one night when we were home alone together.. things were rough with me and my dad for a bit, but my mom has been fantastic all along & everything is going well for us, they're helping me soo much! Even if they weren't going to help me out, I think it's better to know what sort of support you can expect so that you can get on with planning/saving/buying/appointments etc.

 

[nikky0907]

I drove several hours just to be able to tell my mom in person and as soon as I saw both of my parents I ust ripped off the band aid
I immidietely blurted it out... it may not have ended well bit I felt such a big relieve, it was a huge weight of my shoulders.

 

[Daisy06]

Thanks everyone! I actually told her last night, felt much better. Although she told my dad tonight + they don't want me to keep it as i'm no longer with my boyfriend. I know they're trying to do whats best for me, but i'm hating the thought of having an abortion, i've never wanted to do that. But i don't seem to have a choice :\ i don't want to upset my mam by keeping it.. i feel like such a horrible person x

 

[FierceAngel]

oh sweetie well done for telling you mum..

give it a lil time make sure she knows how you feel...

NOONE can make you feel you have to have an abortion.. just like deciding to have a child is an important descion aborting a child is just as big...

xxxx

 

[TTCw/PCOS]

I would tell her as soon as you can