DillyDaffodil
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How did you approach this? I have a couple of concerns/questions.
I'd like to tell my parents soonish - I am 5 weeks now. I will need their support if something goes wrong so I don't mind telling them early. I'd also like to do something sweet, but not corny. Everything I google is about telling them at Christmas or Mothers Day, which obviously won't work for our timing. Do you have any creative ideas that won't make people's eyes roll?
Second concern: I'd rather not tell my husbands parents right away. I don't get along the best with them. They have behaved really badly throughout our wedding and early marriage and have spoiled the relationship. I still try my best to be nice, but they aren't my favorite people in the world. My husband's father has been "hinting" that he wants a grandchild for a while now. This behavior makes me angry - I personally believe its none of anyone's business if you are going to have a child, and asking these questions can be really hurtful if you ARE trying and haven't been successful, or if one or both partners just doesn't want children. Anyway, I feel like if I tell them too early, he will ... I don't know ... how to put it? ... I just don't feel like telling them early is the right move. I also do not trust them to keep it a secret. Have any of you told the sets of parents at different times?
Thank you ladies! xo
I'd like to tell my parents soonish - I am 5 weeks now. I will need their support if something goes wrong so I don't mind telling them early. I'd also like to do something sweet, but not corny. Everything I google is about telling them at Christmas or Mothers Day, which obviously won't work for our timing. Do you have any creative ideas that won't make people's eyes roll?
Second concern: I'd rather not tell my husbands parents right away. I don't get along the best with them. They have behaved really badly throughout our wedding and early marriage and have spoiled the relationship. I still try my best to be nice, but they aren't my favorite people in the world. My husband's father has been "hinting" that he wants a grandchild for a while now. This behavior makes me angry - I personally believe its none of anyone's business if you are going to have a child, and asking these questions can be really hurtful if you ARE trying and haven't been successful, or if one or both partners just doesn't want children. Anyway, I feel like if I tell them too early, he will ... I don't know ... how to put it? ... I just don't feel like telling them early is the right move. I also do not trust them to keep it a secret. Have any of you told the sets of parents at different times?
Thank you ladies! xo