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The BFP Before The 'Would Of Been' Due Date Thread - Any Joiners?

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I totally pooped when I was pushing. Idk how you can't! I think if you don't poop you aren't pushing good enough :)
 
Been reading back a ways, I see there's been some bad and some good since I've been on. I want to give all of you hugs for both our joys and our sorrows.

I don't know if I peed or poo-ed, the epidural was so strong I never would have felt it, and my husband didn't notice if I did!

Becca has been great, and I've really been enjoying my time off work with her, though I only have a few more weeks. She's finally starting to take a bottle (of breastmilk) which she'll need to do once I'm back at work. I've been worried a bit about something happening to her (I worry about SIDS, etc) but I know that it's normal to worry a bit.

I've been missing the baby that we lost recently. I wonder what they would have been like, if they would have been like Becca or if they would have been different. I wonder what they would have grown up like. It's not really a saddness like it used to be, it's more just wondering. Especially when I see photos of my friend's babies who were born when they would have been born, I just wonder and think about them.

Also, one of my friends happened to randomly mention Molly Bears (mollybears.com) on Facebook today. They make teddy bears that are weighted to the weight of an infant that you've lost. There's a long wait list, but I wanted to let you guys know about it if anyone is interested. I think it's a really great idea to honor and remember our angels.
 
Oh, and Becca is a giant, she's already over 14 lbs and 24 inches before 8 weeks! Crazy! And all she's had is breastmilk.
 
LOL Sounds like how my daughter grew in her first 6 months. She was in the 90th percentile for everything. Glad to hear she is learning to take a bottle. I have been thinking about the baby that we lost too since the one year anniversary was less than 2 weeks ago. I went and visited our son Joshua's grave marker on Easter Sunday. We brought him an Easter Lily. It was good to go there again since I hadnt been since last July. He'd be such a big almost 3 year old boy now.
 
I had my ultrasound today and there was a heartbeat anymore. Baby never grew beyond 6 weeks 2 days and I should be 8 weeks 5 days. I should miscarry within the next week or so. :cry:
 
Aww blessed, big :hugs: your way. Did you ask about any testing or anything along those lines?

Kate, Iz grew like crazy when she always on bm too. It's just so good for them they suck up all the nutrients. She's finally starting to slow down on the weight now.
 
samj732 said:
Aww blessed, big :hugs: your way. Did you ask about any testing or anything along those lines?

Kate, Iz grew like crazy when she always on bm too. It's just so good for them they suck up all the nutrients. She's finally starting to slow down on the weight now.
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I'd rather miscarry naturally this time, I had a lot of swelling after my D&C last year and don't want to go through that again. I guess they can only do testing if they do a D&C. He said I may have to go for a biopsy to see if there is inflammation causing the miscarriages.
 
3xBlessed said:
I had my ultrasound today and there was a heartbeat anymore. Baby never grew beyond 6 weeks 2 days and I should be 8 weeks 5 days. I should miscarry within the next week or so. :cry:
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[/QUOTE]I'd rather miscarry naturally this time, I had a lot of swelling after my D&C last year and don't want to go through that again. I guess they can only do testing if they do a D&C. He said I may have to go for a biopsy to see if there is inflammation causing the miscarriages.[/QUOTE]

I have just MC naturally. I was concerned and worried about D&C so chose to go it by myself. Hope your ok x
 
Blessed I'm so sorry you're going through this again :hugs:

Lexi is BM only but she's gaining so slow. 3 weeks today and not up to birth weight yet. I have tons of milk just need her to stop throwing up so much.

I also have been thinking about Hannah a lot since Lexi was born makes me wonder what she would have been like and looked like and sad that my other two will never get to know her.
 
Kelly has Lexi got reflux, that's what it sounds like :( :hugs: hope she stops throwing her feeds up soon.

Less than 5 weeks till my DD and 2/3 weeks until induction for me :wacko: it's flying by!! X
 
That's what we're thinking missmummy she's been on Zantac for almost a week now and it's slowed down some which is nice. She's also gained 8 ounces in 4 days which is fab! So we'll keep up with the meds.
 
kategirl said:
Been reading back a ways, I see there's been some bad and some good since I've been on. I want to give all of you hugs for both our joys and our sorrows.

I don't know if I peed or poo-ed, the epidural was so strong I never would have felt it, and my husband didn't notice if I did!

Becca has been great, and I've really been enjoying my time off work with her, though I only have a few more weeks. She's finally starting to take a bottle (of breastmilk) which she'll need to do once I'm back at work. I've been worried a bit about something happening to her (I worry about SIDS, etc) but I know that it's normal to worry a bit.

I've been missing the baby that we lost recently. I wonder what they would have been like, if they would have been like Becca or if they would have been different. I wonder what they would have grown up like. It's not really a saddness like it used to be, it's more just wondering. Especially when I see photos of my friend's babies who were born when they would have been born, I just wonder and think about them.

Also, one of my friends happened to randomly mention Molly Bears (mollybears.com) on Facebook today. They make teddy bears that are weighted to the weight of an infant that you've lost. There's a long wait list, but I wanted to let you guys know about it if anyone is interested. I think it's a really great idea to honor and remember our angels.
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hey girl, glad to hear Becca has been great. Of course! :-) Oh i totally get ya on missing the one(s) you lost. I'm sure I'll feel the exact same way. The site sounds awesome. Wouldn't make sense for me to do it I guess since i have no clue what mine weighed inside me, i just know how far along they were.
 
3xBlessed said:
I had my ultrasound today and there was a heartbeat anymore. Baby never grew beyond 6 weeks 2 days and I should be 8 weeks 5 days. I should miscarry within the next week or so. :cry:
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Oh my gosh, Blessed, I'm so so sorry hun. I know exactly how it feels and it's horrible. You will be in my prayers and try to take care hun. Ugh.. :cry: :hugs:
 
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