The BFP Before The 'Would Of Been' Due Date Thread - Any Joiners?

[Angel wings13]

Thanks! I usually stick to the Nut Hut thread - we've gotten 5 bfp's since November, but its a small group - some great ladies over there! I tried popping I'm on the April may bfp thread, and went totally ignored !

I see a lot of you ladies are pretty far along. Congrats! To anyone still waiting- look at my chart below for this wacky cycle! Who would have thought? I was going to call my ob for an appt to start running tests!
My September loss was devastating, as I'm sure you all understand. I had my first hcg draw yesterday and progesterone. Now I'm waiting. I go back tomorrow for a second draw. The lab guy yesterday said I may not have my first results till Tuesday! That seems so long away!

20 days till scan- praying for that heart beat!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

My doctor mentioned the possibility of a biopsy as well to find possible cause for three miscarriages in a row after two healthy children. He said I might have inflammation and if so a simple round of antibiotics could clear it up. We'll see...still just waiting to start miscarrying...he said he would give me the pill if it doesn't start in a week. Just hope I'm not at work when it starts.

well i think they should do that for you to find out what's going on! I'm so sorry hun you're STILL waiting to miscarry. Ugh...how awful. Can't you take the medicine to move it along? If you do end up taking the pill, you WON'T want to be at work for that. Mine kicked in 4 hours later. They told me to take mine before bed. Thinking of you...

Thankfully (I think) I finally started to miscarry on my own this morning, today was the day I was going to call for the medicine. Glad I'm through the waiting. Now for the next phase.

Hang in there sweetie. I hope it's not too bad for you.

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Hi ladies, new to this thread, I saw the title and had to stop in!

My MC in September had me due 4/20, but I was going to have a c section, (date undecided at time if MC) and just realized yesterday that I got my bfp 2 weeks EXACTLY from my previous due date! Considering I was going to have a c section, I may have even gotten my positive on what would have been the date!

How bizarre that happens so much! Makes it seem meant to be in a way !

Wow, that's too cool. A big congrats to you!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Thanks! I usually stick to the Nut Hut thread - we've gotten 5 bfp's since November, but its a small group - some great ladies over there! I tried popping I'm on the April may bfp thread, and went totally ignored !

I see a lot of you ladies are pretty far along. Congrats! To anyone still waiting- look at my chart below for this wacky cycle! Who would have thought? I was going to call my ob for an appt to start running tests!
My September loss was devastating, as I'm sure you all understand. I had my first hcg draw yesterday and progesterone. Now I'm waiting. I go back tomorrow for a second draw. The lab guy yesterday said I may not have my first results till Tuesday! That seems so long away!

20 days till scan- praying for that heart beat!

I'm praying with you!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Ok, so good news, my HCG is going down faster than the first time around. Yay. Last week's was 221, this week's was 86! We're getting there. Not much longer for the next step. My doc's office already has the order ready to go when I do hit 0 or negative for the next blood panels - known as Thrombotic (sp?) panel. Once they are drawn, it will take a week or two to get results. It's 9 vials so they told me to bring a banana and juice. He, he...

Next...the chromosome testing finally came back...results are:

Products of conception showed a normal male karyotype
Had 46 chromosomes
It was x y
It was a boy ​

My hubby would have loved a boy. They said the other sac did not show any results because it might have been due to passing half on my own and half during the endometrial biopsy.

GOOD NEWS - all was normal with both!

She said it was hard to tell but both may have been boys, but both were normal. So you know what...i'm going to, in my mind, know i was having twin boys and take it from there. Man...that would have been awesome!

 

[3xBlessed]

Welcome AngelWings...fingers crossed for a happy, healthy, and uneventful 9 months for you!!! You sound like me with 2 boys and then a serious of losses. How old are your boys?
TTC, massive hugs sweetie! Glad your HCG is going down faster this time and you can move on to the next step soon. I feel like crossing off steps is somewhat cathartic. Not sure if I had the same tests as you are going to go far but they took a serious amount of vials! The nurse wouldn't let me leave until I had two glasses of water and waited 10 minutes!

 

[Angel wings13]

Ok, so good news, my HCG is going down faster than the first time around. Yay. Last week's was 221, this week's was 86! We're getting there. Not much longer for the next step. My doc's office already has the order ready to go when I do hit 0 or negative for the next blood panels - known as Thrombotic (sp?) panel. Once they are drawn, it will take a week or two to get results. It's 9 vials so they told me to bring a banana and juice. He, he...

Next...the chromosome testing finally came back...results are:

Products of conception showed a normal male karyotype
Had 46 chromosomes
It was x y
It was a boy ​

My hubby would have loved a boy. They said the other sac did not show any results because it might have been due to passing half on my own and half during the endometrial biopsy.

GOOD NEWS - all was normal with both!

She said it was hard to tell but both may have been boys, but both were normal. So you know what...i'm going to, in my mind, know i was having twin boys and take it from there. Man...that would have been awesome!

Aw, I feel for you.
When I lost my twin (while in the ER for hemorrhaging, it was a surprise, no one saw the second one on my scans.

I didn't have any testing, my insurance didn't cover it. It was my first actual MC, where I had seen the baby - the others were so early I never made it to 5 wks.

So if the chromosomes were normal, what next? My manager kept mis-carrying, and turned out she had fibroids. She got them removed and fell pregnant the next month
Now she is 20 weeks and is doing great!

and Fx for your rainbow baby

 

[Angel wings13]

3xblessed- my boys are 12 and 6! Perfect pregnancies! Fx this us my sticky bean, because I can't go thru anymore losses.

 

[3xBlessed]

3xblessed- my boys are 12 and 6! Perfect pregnancies! Fx this us my sticky bean, because I can't go thru anymore losses.

Mine are 6 and 3...I keep saying the same thing...I can't go through anymore losses! Did they ever find a reason for your losses? My hubby just had a ton of blood work done (mine was done previously and fine) and they might do a biopsy on me to check for inflammation...if no quick fix is found in either of those, I am really hesitant to try again...and I always wondered why my mother didn't try until she got number 3...now I know why!!!

 

[Hippielove]

November 18, 2013 for me

 

[B&LsMom]

So sorry Hippie : (

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Ok, so good news, my HCG is going down faster than the first time around. Yay. Last week's was 221, this week's was 86! We're getting there. Not much longer for the next step. My doc's office already has the order ready to go when I do hit 0 or negative for the next blood panels - known as Thrombotic (sp?) panel. Once they are drawn, it will take a week or two to get results. It's 9 vials so they told me to bring a banana and juice. He, he...

Next...the chromosome testing finally came back...results are:

Products of conception showed a normal male karyotype
Had 46 chromosomes
It was x y
It was a boy ​

My hubby would have loved a boy. They said the other sac did not show any results because it might have been due to passing half on my own and half during the endometrial biopsy.

GOOD NEWS - all was normal with both!

She said it was hard to tell but both may have been boys, but both were normal. So you know what...i'm going to, in my mind, know i was having twin boys and take it from there. Man...that would have been awesome!

Aw, I feel for you.
When I lost my twin (while in the ER for hemorrhaging, it was a surprise, no one saw the second one on my scans.

I didn't have any testing, my insurance didn't cover it. It was my first actual MC, where I had seen the baby - the others were so early I never made it to 5 wks.

So if the chromosomes were normal, what next? My manager kept mis-carrying, and turned out she had fibroids. She got them removed and fell pregnant the next month
Now she is 20 weeks and is doing great!

and Fx for your rainbow baby

Thank you Angel. Wow that's crazy you didn't even know there was a twin in there. How sad. I'm sorry.
Well, what's next is the blood panels so hopefully that shows something so we know how to treat and move on and get PREGNANT again! My docs are checking for everything. I would think they would have found fibroids by now with all that i've had done...don't you think?

 

[girlinyork]

welcome hippielove

 

[MissMummyMoo]

Welcome Hippie x

 

[Angel wings13]

3xblessed- my boys are 12 and 6! Perfect pregnancies! Fx this us my sticky bean, because I can't go thru anymore losses.

Mine are 6 and 3...I keep saying the same thing...I can't go through anymore losses! Did they ever find a reason for your losses? My hubby just had a ton of blood work done (mine was done previously and fine) and they might do a biopsy on me to check for inflammation...if no quick fix is found in either of those, I am really hesitant to try again...and I always wondered why my mother didn't try until she got number 3...now I know why!!!

No - but 2 of my 3 chemical pregnancies were before I was diagnosed as being extremely hyper thyroid, turns out I have graves disease. It causes spontaneous abortion. The 3 Rd was the 2 month break I had taken off BC pills.
so maybe I had screwy hormones.

My last mmc, I had an sch, as well as an enlarged yolk sac, it was 11 mm, they want it 5mm. Apparently that's a big time marker for chromosome abnormality. They think my loses of twins was "just one if those things", so I'm praying that now that my thyroid us gone and my levels are stable, this will be smooth sailing

 

[Angel wings13]

Ok, so good news, my HCG is going down faster than the first time around. Yay. Last week's was 221, this week's was 86! We're getting there. Not much longer for the next step. My doc's office already has the order ready to go when I do hit 0 or negative for the next blood panels - known as Thrombotic (sp?) panel. Once they are drawn, it will take a week or two to get results. It's 9 vials so they told me to bring a banana and juice. He, he...

Next...the chromosome testing finally came back...results are:

Products of conception showed a normal male karyotype
Had 46 chromosomes
It was x y
It was a boy ​

My hubby would have loved a boy. They said the other sac did not show any results because it might have been due to passing half on my own and half during the endometrial biopsy.

GOOD NEWS - all was normal with both!

She said it was hard to tell but both may have been boys, but both were normal. So you know what...i'm going to, in my mind, know i was having twin boys and take it from there. Man...that would have been awesome!

Aw, I feel for you.
When I lost my twin (while in the ER for hemorrhaging, it was a surprise, no one saw the second one on my scans.

I didn't have any testing, my insurance didn't cover it. It was my first actual MC, where I had seen the baby - the others were so early I never made it to 5 wks.

So if the chromosomes were normal, what next? My manager kept mis-carrying, and turned out she had fibroids. She got them removed and fell pregnant the next month
Now she is 20 weeks and is doing great!

and Fx for your rainbow baby

Thank you Angel. Wow that's crazy you didn't even know there was a twin in there. How sad. I'm sorry.
Well, what's next is the blood panels so hopefully that shows something so we know how to treat and move on and get PREGNANT again! My docs are checking for everything. I would think they would have found fibroids by now with all that i've had done...don't you think?

You have a very good attitude about it, I'm sure that's a bonus

A for the fibroids, idk. Hers were found in an hsg. Idk if they can be picked up in u/s. Maybe it depends where and how big they are. :shrugs:

I was going to start testing myself at the end of this month. I had seen my doc in January, he said give it 3 more months, and that the 2 biggest things I already accomplished: ovulating (albeit somewhat irregular), and carrying 2 to term.

He said secondary infertility is very rare. Also said that he would be more surprised to see me come in for testing than for my prenatal check up! How crazy! He was psychic,lol!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Ok, so good news, my HCG is going down faster than the first time around. Yay. Last week's was 221, this week's was 86! We're getting there. Not much longer for the next step. My doc's office already has the order ready to go when I do hit 0 or negative for the next blood panels - known as Thrombotic (sp?) panel. Once they are drawn, it will take a week or two to get results. It's 9 vials so they told me to bring a banana and juice. He, he...

Next...the chromosome testing finally came back...results are:

Products of conception showed a normal male karyotype
Had 46 chromosomes
It was x y
It was a boy ​

My hubby would have loved a boy. They said the other sac did not show any results because it might have been due to passing half on my own and half during the endometrial biopsy.

GOOD NEWS - all was normal with both!

She said it was hard to tell but both may have been boys, but both were normal. So you know what...i'm going to, in my mind, know i was having twin boys and take it from there. Man...that would have been awesome!

Aw, I feel for you.
When I lost my twin (while in the ER for hemorrhaging, it was a surprise, no one saw the second one on my scans.

I didn't have any testing, my insurance didn't cover it. It was my first actual MC, where I had seen the baby - the others were so early I never made it to 5 wks.

So if the chromosomes were normal, what next? My manager kept mis-carrying, and turned out she had fibroids. She got them removed and fell pregnant the next month
Now she is 20 weeks and is doing great!

and Fx for your rainbow baby

Thank you Angel. Wow that's crazy you didn't even know there was a twin in there. How sad. I'm sorry.
Well, what's next is the blood panels so hopefully that shows something so we know how to treat and move on and get PREGNANT again! My docs are checking for everything. I would think they would have found fibroids by now with all that i've had done...don't you think?

You have a very good attitude about it, I'm sure that's a bonus

A for the fibroids, idk. Hers were found in an hsg. Idk if they can be picked up in u/s. Maybe it depends where and how big they are. :shrugs:

I was going to start testing myself at the end of this month. I had seen my doc in January, he said give it 3 more months, and that the 2 biggest things I already accomplished: ovulating (albeit somewhat irregular), and carrying 2 to term.

He said secondary infertility is very rare. Also said that he would be more surprised to see me come in for testing than for my prenatal check up! How crazy! He was psychic,lol!

Ha, he is psychic! That's crazy!

 

[Hippielove]

Thank you for the welcome ladies.

 

[Kelly9]

ttc I'm sorry about your boys It's good you're getting some results now. Hopefully the reason for your losses will be discovered and it won't be anything difficult to correct.

 

[MissMummyMoo]

Almost 3/4 days until my inducion, it still hasn't sunk in yet x