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The BFP Before The 'Would Of Been' Due Date Thread - Any Joiners?

So happy for you, blessed!! Will be stalking here Monday for updates! Twins!!! So exciting!!
 
I got some unexpected news on June 7th...I'm pregnant again! TOTALLY unexpected as we were NOT trying AT ALL in May...in fact, we only DTD 1x and I certainly didn't lay around for an hour with my hips propped up like I usually do! I've been for weekly bloodwork and ultrasounds...so far, so good...my progesterone was low so I've been put on Crinone and baby aspirin...yesterday when I went for my 7 week ultrasound the baby was measuring PERFECTLY 7 weeks 1 day...then the doctor directed the ultrasound tech to get a picture of another sac...he starts saying, "this one up here is measuring perfectly but we can't see into this sac here to get a clear picture so we'll have to see next week" I was like what? Another sac? As in two babies? He said yes, it could be...it could just be a fluid filled sac but since it's early and the angle was bad and one twin is usually smaller than the other it's possible that it is TWINS!!! I'm hysterically laughing b/c we really didn't try for another baby so soon after my 3rd miscarriage. Feeling super blessed and thankful that one of them is measuring perfectly and maybe we'll end up with two little blessings :)
:yipee: :wohoo: :dance: :headspin: :happydance: :dance:

CONGRATULATIONS! So happy for you! After so many loses myself
I understand the amazing excitement and hopefulness! Sounds line you're off to a GREAT start! I have a strong feeling you got yourself a sticky bean! Yea! Its been 2 1/2 months since I've seen a :bfp: post! I know like 7 people in real life that either just had their baby or are pregnant now! My manager is about to hit b3rd trimester, with a healthy girl, her first baby after several losses... Its baby making time lol! Omg idk how you were able to contain the excitement, although understand why. Do you plan on finding out thegender ??

Congrats again and lots of the super glue type of fresh, healthy :dust:
:D

Thanks so much AngelWings!!! We will definitely be finding out the gender...maybe do a gender reveal party to build the anticipation a bit more! I'm still super nervous...I don't have the same symptoms as when I was pregnant with my boys (maybe it's a girl or maybe I'm just older, lol)...boobs not really sore...that worries me the most...they were always such a good indicator that my pregnancy was doing well...loving my weekly scans right now for
reassurance!
I was half convinced I was having a girl cuz this pregnancy is very different...but nope another boy! I guess its my age, I'm 33, and was 21 and 26 with my others. This one even has a faster heart beat. My boobs were actually very sore from the 2ww up until a couple Wells ago, now they are a bit tender and my right nipple keeps itching:haha:

But with my.first 2 I only had sore boobs for like 2 weeks, around the 6 wk mark. I was worrying cuz I haven't had much sickness....I threw up 8dpo viciously, then once more at like 6
wks, and randomly I had a little spit up a couple weeks ago.....with my first I was ungodly sick, my second extremely nauseated, lost weight, but never threw up...this go around I've barely been nauseous unless a smell his me wrong. Maybe after ask the pregnancies we've had our bodies aren't as impressed with the new hormones, lol, been there done that kinda thing...I've had several scans as well, 3 at doc office, the NT at the hospital, and 2 private scans...but I'm finally over the constant need of reassurance. But it took getting into 2nd try for the nervousness to go away for me. I hope you get your peace soon. :)
 
I truly believe that this baby is a gift from God and all God's idea since we weren't trying...so I'm letting go and letting God lead me through this...helps when I start to get overwhelmed.
 
I truly believe that this baby is a gift from God and all God's idea since we weren't trying...so I'm letting go and letting God lead me through this...helps when I start to get overwhelmed.

I know what you mean. I feel the same about this pregnancy, my crazy chart, the weird second ovulation, the fact that I was getting Bfn's at 16dpo and something told me to pee on an opk, even getting that smiley I didn't really think it was right, we managed to dtd though and that same morning my son got rushed into emergency surgery, we weren't able to try again, but I kept trying the opk's and got smileys for a few days...I thought for sure I missed it, after months of "perfect timing" this odd ball time worked. Like its meant to be. Which of course I think it is! :D

Keeping you in my prayers :hug:
 
You know the other thing that we both had in common? Didn't have time to stress it since we were "sure" it didn't happen! Sorta like love, you find it when you're not looking...the bfp came the month I least expected, lol, every month before I was so sure we did it! Funny how fate works :)
 
I got some unexpected news on June 7th...I'm pregnant again! TOTALLY unexpected as we were NOT trying AT ALL in May...in fact, we only DTD 1x and I certainly didn't lay around for an hour with my hips propped up like I usually do! I've been for weekly bloodwork and ultrasounds...so far, so good...my progesterone was low so I've been put on Crinone and baby aspirin...yesterday when I went for my 7 week ultrasound the baby was measuring PERFECTLY 7 weeks 1 day...then the doctor directed the ultrasound tech to get a picture of another sac...he starts saying, "this one up here is measuring perfectly but we can't see into this sac here to get a clear picture so we'll have to see next week" I was like what? Another sac? As in two babies? He said yes, it could be...it could just be a fluid filled sac but since it's early and the angle was bad and one twin is usually smaller than the other it's possible that it is TWINS!!! I'm hysterically laughing b/c we really didn't try for another baby so soon after my 3rd miscarriage. Feeling super blessed and thankful that one of them is measuring perfectly and maybe we'll end up with two little blessings :)

Oh wow!!! How awesome! I'm tearing up for you. :hugs: That's amazing! Another example of "NOT TRYING" and it happens! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
That's great about his weight army!
So, I had a private scan today, mostly because my hospital where I did my NT scan doesn't offer dvd of the session....

The place I went to guarantees gender by 15 wks, but since I'm a little shy of that she said she couldn't say for absolute certain...but sounded pretty sure and quickly found the....boy bits!
Looks like I'm team :blue: ! No girls in this family! Lol! Even my cat is male....I'm so out numbered!

Here's the main shot that convinced her, though we thought we saw a pee pee a few other times, he moved around bunches, constantly flashing us :)
If anyone thinks this could still end up a girl let me know, I doubt it, but was kinda hoping. Obviously health is way more important!

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Congrats Angel! Team blue would be amazing. Either team would be so yay for you!!! Ha...funny...even your cat is male. :haha:
Yep its 100% officialnow! And he is healthy indeed! Sowwy strong hb at 154, dancing all around, measuringperfectly to the very day of conception! I'm still half in shock we finally did it and I'm 4 months! My NT scan and bloodwork came back awesome as well! less than 1 in 10 thousand chance of chromosome abnormality! its like I'm 22 again, Lol!
Since my youngest just turned 7, in a lot of ways I feel preggo for the first time!

Wow, that's just amazing. I'm so happy for you! So glad everything is perfect! You deserve it!!! :hugs:
 
I got some unexpected news on June 7th...I'm pregnant again! TOTALLY unexpected as we were NOT trying AT ALL in May...in fact, we only DTD 1x and I certainly didn't lay around for an hour with my hips propped up like I usually do! I've been for weekly bloodwork and ultrasounds...so far, so good...my progesterone was low so I've been put on Crinone and baby aspirin...yesterday when I went for my 7 week ultrasound the baby was measuring PERFECTLY 7 weeks 1 day...then the doctor directed the ultrasound tech to get a picture of another sac...he starts saying, "this one up here is measuring perfectly but we can't see into this sac here to get a clear picture so we'll have to see next week" I was like what? Another sac? As in two babies? He said yes, it could be...it could just be a fluid filled sac but since it's early and the angle was bad and one twin is usually smaller than the other it's possible that it is TWINS!!! I'm hysterically laughing b/c we really didn't try for another baby so soon after my 3rd miscarriage. Feeling super blessed and thankful that one of them is measuring perfectly and maybe we'll end up with two little blessings :)

Oh wow!!! How awesome! I'm tearing up for you. :hugs: That's amazing! Another example of "NOT TRYING" and it happens! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you!!! I'm stalking your chart lately...your temps look good this month! Did you do Clomid again?
 
Ttc when are you testing?

I'm hoping not thinking and worrying over ttc will surprise us and bring us a second miracle bfp so we don't have to go back to the clinic.
 
I got some unexpected news on June 7th...I'm pregnant again! TOTALLY unexpected as we were NOT trying AT ALL in May...in fact, we only DTD 1x and I certainly didn't lay around for an hour with my hips propped up like I usually do! I've been for weekly bloodwork and ultrasounds...so far, so good...my progesterone was low so I've been put on Crinone and baby aspirin...yesterday when I went for my 7 week ultrasound the baby was measuring PERFECTLY 7 weeks 1 day...then the doctor directed the ultrasound tech to get a picture of another sac...he starts saying, "this one up here is measuring perfectly but we can't see into this sac here to get a clear picture so we'll have to see next week" I was like what? Another sac? As in two babies? He said yes, it could be...it could just be a fluid filled sac but since it's early and the angle was bad and one twin is usually smaller than the other it's possible that it is TWINS!!! I'm hysterically laughing b/c we really didn't try for another baby so soon after my 3rd miscarriage. Feeling super blessed and thankful that one of them is measuring perfectly and maybe we'll end up with two little blessings :)

Oh wow!!! How awesome! I'm tearing up for you. :hugs: That's amazing! Another example of "NOT TRYING" and it happens! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you!!! I'm stalking your chart lately...your temps look good this month! Did you do Clomid again?

Thanks, i'm so hopeful! No clomid. Just prenatal and high dose folic acid. Here's to hoping! FX'd! :-) :hugs:
 
Ttc when are you testing?

I'm hoping not thinking and worrying over ttc will surprise us and bring us a second miracle bfp so we don't have to go back to the clinic.

tomorrow...i'll be 12 dpo...i won't give up hope though if negative since i got my last bfp at 14 dpo and not before.

Best of luck to you ttc again but not really trying. I hope it happens for you like that! :-)
 
I dont mean to offend anyone but I am seriously ready to throw my computer across the room due to all of my Facebook friends posting about their wonderful night. All my plans got cancelled including my backup plans and I am suffering from migraines. I get to the point that I almost yell at my daughter if she disobeys me. Anyone who knows me knows that I RARELY raise my voice at my children because I dont want to startle them. I dont believe raising my voice is the right way to teach them they are doing something wrong. Laundry and dishes are piling up and I cant convince myself to do any of it. End of my rant.
 
Ttc when are you testing?

I'm hoping not thinking and worrying over ttc will surprise us and bring us a second miracle bfp so we don't have to go back to the clinic.

tomorrow...i'll be 12 dpo...i won't give up hope though if negative since i got my last bfp at 14 dpo and not before.

Best of luck to you ttc again but not really trying. I hope it happens for you like that! :-)

Fx and good luck :thumbup:
:dust:
 
I dont mean to offend anyone but I am seriously ready to throw my computer across the room due to all of my Facebook friends posting about their wonderful night. All my plans got cancelled including my backup plans and I am suffering from migraines. I get to the point that I almost yell at my daughter if she disobeys me. Anyone who knows me knows that I RARELY raise my voice at my children because I dont want to startle them. I dont believe raising my voice is the right way to teach them they are doing something wrong. Laundry and dishes are piling up and I cant convince myself to do any of it. End of my rant.

:hugs:
I'm sure sleep deprivation and having to do everything yourself doesn't help. Don't go too hard on yourself. It's perfectly normal to rant. I went through a very similar stage (with lots of crying on my part) after my second was born. A little depression plus doing everything alone - though my now ex husband wasn't deployed, he just didn't lift a finger, he's a dead beat.

Sorry you're stressed :/
 
AFM - my little guy gave me his first kick last night! Totally startled me and I even yelped! I've been getting flutters, and sorta hardening sensations, which doc said is probably the head pushing towards my abdomen, but I figured I had about a week and a half till a kick...
No more since, but I know he's just getting started :)
 
Yay on feeling kicks. About to go lay down. I feel another migraine coming on.
 
Ttc when are you testing?

I'm hoping not thinking and worrying over ttc will surprise us and bring us a second miracle bfp so we don't have to go back to the clinic.

tomorrow...i'll be 12 dpo...i won't give up hope though if negative since i got my last bfp at 14 dpo and not before.

Best of luck to you ttc again but not really trying. I hope it happens for you like that! :-)

Fx and good luck :thumbup:
:dust:

Happy 17 weeks Angel!!!
 
Ugh, i hate this. Another BFN this morning. Not even a hint of another line. I'm 13 dpo. I would think i'm totally out if my temps didn't rise again today. WTH?! I still feel like crap. This is driving me batty. Anyone else get a bfp later than 13 dpo but not before???
 
Yikes! That's a scary thought. I can't be... I've still got 5 weeks!

p.s. Did I ever tell you I'm from Washington originally? I can't remember if we've had that discussion before... Anyway, my family's all in Redmond, Monroe, and Bellingham now. :)

No I don't think we have talked about that. We live in Spokane!!
 
Ugh, i hate this. Another BFN this morning. Not even a hint of another line. I'm 13 dpo. I would think i'm totally out if my temps didn't rise again today. WTH?! I still feel like crap. This is driving me batty. Anyone else get a bfp later than 13 dpo but not before???

So sorry you're going through this TTC! I didn't test until 14 dpo this time (first time ever waiting that long) but even then it was really a faint line...I have a feeling if I tested on 13 dpo I wouldn't have seen anything. Still have my fingers crossed for you!
 

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