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The BFP Before The 'Would Of Been' Due Date Thread - Any Joiners?

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My fingers are crossed to ttc. Any new developments in the testing department for your losses etc?
 
Kelly9 said:
My fingers are crossed to ttc. Any new developments in the testing department for your losses etc?
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I'M OUT... :cry:
My temp took a nosedive which means I'll get AF today. This stinks! I was truly feeling so positive and instinctly pregnant this time. I'm done listening to my "gut". Apparently mine's not right. I'm tired of all of this. I want to be done "trying". :nope::cry:
 
3xBlessed said:
ttcbabyisom said:
Ugh, i hate this. Another BFN this morning. Not even a hint of another line. I'm 13 dpo. I would think i'm totally out if my temps didn't rise again today. WTH?! I still feel like crap. This is driving me batty. Anyone else get a bfp later than 13 dpo but not before???
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So sorry you're going through this TTC! I didn't test until 14 dpo this time (first time ever waiting that long) but even then it was really a faint line...I have a feeling if I tested on 13 dpo I wouldn't have seen anything. Still have my fingers crossed for you!
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Thanks Blessed...I'm out though. :cry:
 
Boo TTC!!! Don't give up...we all know how crummy it is to get that BFN when you were so sure it would be a BFP...especially when your timing was perfect! You will get your rainbow, I'm sure!
 
ttcbabyisom said:
Kelly9 said:
My fingers are crossed to ttc. Any new developments in the testing department for your losses etc?
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I'M OUT... :cry:
My temp took a nosedive which means I'll get AF today. This stinks! I was truly feeling so positive and instinctly pregnant this time. I'm done listening to my "gut". Apparently mine's not right. I'm tired of all of this. I want to be done "trying". :nope::cry:
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:hugs:
I know how much that sucks, i had like 3 cycles (amongst many) that I was so sure the :spermy: met my egg! Positive opk's, ewcm, lots of perfectly timed :sex: , in the days leading up to and even after ovulation (for good measure), excellent temps, etc.... Then, Bfn's....
It WILL happen, but I'm sure we all know how bad the waiting sucks. Plus it sucks that you know for the next couple weeks it's near impossible to get preggo anyways!

On a brighter note, at least you KNOW you're ovulating, and you KNOW B that you are able to get pregnant....just repeating what my Ob/gyn told me back in January when I went to see him (and he was my new doc, had never met him, I ditched my old doc after my MC , not that it was his fault, but I didn't like how coldly things were handled, or his staff working for him), I had ovulated around day 13, then had minor spotting around 5 dpo, which got me even MORE excited, but then about 7dpo spotting turned into a full bleed that lasted about a week...that's never happened to me before and I had been so convinced it was my month, and I cried at the disappointment of it all....but the post O bleeding freaked me out about maybe not being able to get pregnant again...but he just said that the fact I'm ovulating on my own was great news as apparently that is one of the toughest obstacles to overcome...
Sorry about the mini novel here, and I hope I put it the right way...it was meant to cheer you up a little...

There's also a girl here that I speak to on the nut hut thread, and her temp nose dived at 12dpo, and she got so upset that she announced she was taking a break from both the site.AND ttc for awhile.( I had just gotten my bfp, and a second "regular" got a bfp as well) we were sad and asked her to stay, but understood that she wanted a break...the very next day she was back on and had gotten a bfp! I believe she was 13 dpo when she got it, and it was only a squinter of a positive, but she's sill here and doing great, she's right behind me and is currently 16 weeks! But I TOTALLY understand your frustration :hugs:

We have a somewhat similar history, if you ever want to send me a private message and talk, please feel free! :flower:
 
3xBlessed said:
Boo TTC!!! Don't give up...we all know how crummy it is to get that BFN when you were so sure it would be a BFP...especially when your timing was perfect! You will get your rainbow, I'm sure!
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How are you feeling these days? :)
 
Angel wings13 said:
3xBlessed said:
Boo TTC!!! Don't give up...we all know how crummy it is to get that BFN when you were so sure it would be a BFP...especially when your timing was perfect! You will get your rainbow, I'm sure!
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How are you feeling these days? :)
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I guess morning sickness might be kicking in...I'm starving and then when I eat something that I am craving I feel pretty crappy...lol...no throwing up yet so I'll take it! Counting down the hours until tomorrow morning! It will be my last ultrasound for a few weeks!
 
Well, there's only one in there! Measuring 2 days ahead right now and the heart rate was 170...such a BEAUTIFUL sound :happydance:

Feeling so happy and blessed right now...I've officially been released from my fertility specialist to my regular OB!
 
3xBlessed said:
Well, there's only one in there! Measuring 2 days ahead right now and the heart rate was 170...such a BEAUTIFUL sound :happydance:

Feeling so happy and blessed right now...I've officially been released from my fertility specialist to my regular OB!
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:dance: that's great to hear! Keeping you in my prayers!
 
Angel wings13 said:
ttcbabyisom said:
Kelly9 said:
My fingers are crossed to ttc. Any new developments in the testing department for your losses etc?
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I'M OUT... :cry:
My temp took a nosedive which means I'll get AF today. This stinks! I was truly feeling so positive and instinctly pregnant this time. I'm done listening to my "gut". Apparently mine's not right. I'm tired of all of this. I want to be done "trying". :nope::cry:
Click to expand...

:hugs:
I know how much that sucks, i had like 3 cycles (amongst many) that I was so sure the :spermy: met my egg! Positive opk's, ewcm, lots of perfectly timed :sex: , in the days leading up to and even after ovulation (for good measure), excellent temps, etc.... Then, Bfn's....
It WILL happen, but I'm sure we all know how bad the waiting sucks. Plus it sucks that you know for the next couple weeks it's near impossible to get preggo anyways!

On a brighter note, at least you KNOW you're ovulating, and you KNOW B that you are able to get pregnant....just repeating what my Ob/gyn told me back in January when I went to see him (and he was my new doc, had never met him, I ditched my old doc after my MC , not that it was his fault, but I didn't like how coldly things were handled, or his staff working for him), I had ovulated around day 13, then had minor spotting around 5 dpo, which got me even MORE excited, but then about 7dpo spotting turned into a full bleed that lasted about a week...that's never happened to me before and I had been so convinced it was my month, and I cried at the disappointment of it all....but the post O bleeding freaked me out about maybe not being able to get pregnant again...but he just said that the fact I'm ovulating on my own was great news as apparently that is one of the toughest obstacles to overcome...
Sorry about the mini novel here, and I hope I put it the right way...it was meant to cheer you up a little...

There's also a girl here that I speak to on the nut hut thread, and her temp nose dived at 12dpo, and she got so upset that she announced she was taking a break from both the site.AND ttc for awhile.( I had just gotten my bfp, and a second "regular" got a bfp as well) we were sad and asked her to stay, but understood that she wanted a break...the very next day she was back on and had gotten a bfp! I believe she was 13 dpo when she got it, and it was only a squinter of a positive, but she's sill here and doing great, she's right behind me and is currently 16 weeks! But I TOTALLY understand your frustration :hugs:

We have a somewhat similar history, if you ever want to send me a private message and talk, please feel free! :flower:
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Wow...amazing. I won't get that lucky this time no matter how much I thought we were. I started spotting yesterday and am spotting today too and temps still down and another BFN this morning at 15 dpo so just waiting on the full force...what an inspiring story though! :-) That's awesome for her. And that's awesome for you too that you were in deed ovulating. It's so awesome when our bodies do what they are meant to do. :-) I guess I can be thankful for that. My chart is proof my body did that perfectly on its own this cycle and better than ever actually.
 
3xBlessed said:
Well, there's only one in there! Measuring 2 days ahead right now and the heart rate was 170...such a BEAUTIFUL sound :happydance:

Feeling so happy and blessed right now...I've officially been released from my fertility specialist to my regular OB!
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Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :happydance::happydance:
 
Yay, Blessed! Such great news!



Aaaaannnnddd.... I'm 37 weeks today! Wheeee!!!
 
Thanks! I'd be REALLY excited except my body isn't showing any signs of labour. You know how most women are like, "I am SO done" by now? Well, my body seems to think it's still 2nd tri. I shouldn't complain; it's nice. But it'd be nice to know there's something happening in there to get ready. I have an appointment tomorrow, and I'm going to ask them to check my cervix. Fingers crossed it's getting ready (and maybe they'll even do a sweep!).
 
I know that feeling! My first was 13 days late! But then my second was 3 days early. Was your first early or late? Good luck at your appointment!
 
Ozzy was born at 40+6 and he was 9lb. 4oz.

My appointment went well. It took some convincing, but the doctor agreed to do a sweep (she said they don't usually do them until 38 weeks in case they are off on the due date, but I assured her I know exactly when I ovulated!). So she did a sweep, but I'm only 1cm dilated and not really effaced at all yet. We'll see! If it's going to work, then I'll be in labour sometime in the next 24 hours. Here's hoping! If not, we'll try again at next week's appointment. :)
 
Yay blessed!

Cant wait to see your baby Harley!

We took him to his 1 month appointment yesterday and I was afraid he wasn't gaining weight but its just the opposite. He has gained almost 2 lbs and 2 inches in a month! He is now 10 lbs 9 ounces and 21 1/4 inches.
 
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