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[Beautywithin]

Thanks ladies im feeling a lot better!!

Ah heidi, thats the bit im worried about, when P was born, i was getting no sleep, i just kept looking at her at night, i was scared she was gunna choke or something....lets hope sydnee feels better soon! xx

NP-eat some chocolate that will make your lil man move about and hopefully away from them ribs lol xx

Random- you feeling better ? Has your B come to realise, why you want the nursery finished lol xx

Claire- where are you?!! 37 WEEKS WOMAN.... we want cake to celebrate along with you

x

 

[randomxx]

glad sydnee is okay hun

i think PC has went back to sleep she was awake earlier but hasn't replied to my last txt

well hes relented a wee bit think bcz i broke down last night hes going to bring over all the wee ones stuff from his dads tonight so i can start washing his clothes and have at least his moses basket and stuff set up in our room! and hes going to try get his room finished by the end of the week!

 

[AimeeM]

Hi ladies, been out and about today, got some new towels and toothbrush etc for hospital bag.

BW I agree with NP men only see the here and now and try not to let him bother you.

Heidi hope you manage to get some rest today any Sydnee does too.

Happy 37 weeks PC!

Random i love your bump pic i don't think you look small. It is a nice neat boy bump and round about the same size as mine!

NP i have been feeling the same. I keep getting tummy pain and feeling right hot and uncomfortable. I really think he is going to come early. I don't think my body is going to hold out for much longer, i just feel like he is on his way anytime.
Watch i will have jinxed myself and he will be late now!

It felt good to be out today even if it was only to town. I have felt like a prisoner withthe snow cos i hardly been out cos i don't want to fall.

 

[twiggy56]

Happy Term Day Claire!!

wow, thats so exciting! Out you come now jimmy!!


BW- ur dad sounds a bit like my dad...he's a 'just get on with it kind of man' too. But if u need to vent you know we're all here for that stuff! Its what we do best...so take no notice of him brushing it off- and if u need to have a down day..we're all here to get u thru it (and probably enjoy having a moan along with you! lol)

NP- that sounds scary! Im getting a lot of wierd tummy feelings too, scares the hell outta me!

aimee, im feeling like a bit of a prisoner right now...it is good to get myself out but im scared to go in the car again after the accident, scared to catch something coz everyone is coughing everywhere, and scared il slip and fall on a slushy/icy pavement!!

Heidi im glad syndee's ok, but bless- u must be shattered. I think worrying alone takes it out of you, its like mental exhaustion as well as physical...maybe just catch a nap when you can. Although id be watching her like a hawk as well so i know it must be hard...

I had a rubbish night last night i didnt sleep hardly any coz jamie's got a cold and is snoring to rival an plane landing!! I had to take the sofa cushions and sleep on the floor with a blanket in the nursery!! think he felt really guilty when he came thru in the morning and there was me asleep on the floor, he hadnt realized id gone thru!

 

[nervouspains]

Thank you ladies

I just had a KFC and he seemed to like that and has now moved lol

Thanks 3girlies- will keep an eye just incase I have another funny turn.
I hope both you, Paul & Sydnee have a better night tonight

random- that made me laugh lol I should get one of those t-shirts lol

Aimee- Have you anymore scans? How much did Nathan weigh at his last scan? Maybe our boys will come early? Wishful thinking lol. I need my friend to ask me if I have gone in to labor yet, because everytime I speak to her and she asks me a question like 'Have you seen him move across your belly yet?' it seems to happen that night! Everything she asks whcih hasnt happend, happens! lol
Another friend had a big baby all throughout her pregnancy and she ended up having him on her exact due date lol.

My mum said to me yesterday 'Your bump is all front... Isnt that how you carry a girl??'
I said oh, please dont scare me mum, I have brought nearly everything boyish lol.

 

[twiggy56]

ha! Callie im still worried about getting told wrong gender...even though its been checked like 4 times!! I said to jamie the other night when i was packing baby's hospital bag stuff...do you think i should include one white baby gro? Just incase...? lol

he looked at me and told me i was being daft and that there's no chance shes coming out with bits!! lol

AWW WHAT- u had a kfc?! Iv been craving one since i saw an advert last night for the little boxes of 'chicken and chips'!!!!

 

[3 girlies]

my SIL & niece have said that they dont like the name Sydnee & that it doesnt go with Reese & Roxie they told one of my friends daughters. Its really pissed me off . they reckon its not a carabott name, eeer it clearly says carabott on the birth certificate!!! I swear i've had enough of peoples opinions this week!!

 

[nervouspains]

3girlies- Do they know how this has made you feel?
My mum said her best friend called her son 'Dylan' and my mum didnt liek it and used to call him Dilly as, well, a pi**take I guess, but she told my mum it really upset her & my mum felt terrible! She didnt mean to upset her in anyway!
Just like when she always used to say 'Eugh no I dont like Max, its a dogs names'
...Well get used to it, its your grandsons!
Ignore them, or tell them to pi** of! Shes YOUR daughter, and can call her whatever you want!

Is anyone else going to anti natal classes? I missed my first class last Thurs because of the scan taking ages, and then the weather and traffic.
I should go to the one this Thurs, but then il prob miss next thurs as I have a scan 15min before the class starts!
im wondering if there is any point in going and if I did/didnt go, is there much more I could learn, then I already know now?

Also, has anyone got a birthing ball?
Im thinking of buying one tonight, mainly to help him engage? As he is still lying- Head down- bum to the left and legfs to the right! & he hasnt moved from this position since last Tuesday... Well he has moved his feet to my ribs lol, but then he moves to just under the ribs and kicks me there... and with feeling sick in my chest every night, il try anything to engage him jsut to ahve a bit more breathing space!

xxx

 

[twiggy56]

OMG! Heidi....

screw them!! Sydnee is a lovely name! And i think exactly the opposite, i think it really fits in well with Reese and Roxie!

I hate how people think its ok to shit all over your name choice!! Sorry for the swearing but it really gets on my wick!! There is no one universal name that EVERYONE is going to like so you will always come across people who dont like your chosen name...they most polite thing to do is to think to yourself its not your choice but be polite and say how nice it is for the other person's baby!!!!

grrrr!!!

 

[pinkclaire]

Hello Everyone! Sorry I fell back asleep this morning, then got up and was in a rush to get to the midwifes at 10.45, then went to meet my friends for lunch and just got back.

Thank you for everyones congratulations, cant believe we're all here, although it is all dragging. Everyone got their cake ready? lol.

At my midwife appointment everything seemed ok and we did my birth plan. Well I had a different midwife and she didnt even introduce herself to me, it felt really awkward talking about my birth plan to a complete stranger who hadnt even told me her name!

Heidi- so glad Sydnee is ok dont worry about names, people have opinions on everything! My friend told me Im weird for even wanting to try breast feeding a couple of days ago! Just let it be water off a ducks back, they will learn to love the name. xx

 

[3 girlies]

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[twiggy56]

idiots heidi, IDIOTS!

how can it not be a certain families 'name'....take no notice of these plums!

claire- that was a bit unprofessional of the midwife?! To not even introduce herself! I would have felt awkward too!

 

[pinkclaire]

Whats that meant to mean anyway heidi, doesnt make sense at all! They need to get their priorities right, they should be greatful that everything was ok with Sydnee considering her dramatic entrance not worried about a silly thing like a name!

 

[3 girlies]

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[pinkclaire]

Haha, Im trying to get hubby to agree to the snip, we need to swap! I have no idea what to do about it, I think I am going to try the coil but not 100% sure! With my Hubbys super sperm I'll probably end up pregnant again after the first time we DTD so better have something quite reliable!

I am sooooo stressed! M has decided he wants to quit his training, he says hes serious and is putting in his notice tomorrow. (ive managed to convince him to wait until after the weekend). He is really struggling with being away, plus his training isnt going to good, his shoulder has never fully repaired and now he is on a two week notice of discharge, Ie if he doesnt do this certain thing in two weeks he is out. He says he may as well quit now as hes wasting his time.

He has been in the army since he was 18 then transfered to this, he doesnt really know anything else and I have no idea what we would do for money as I am now on Stat maternity pay!

On top of this my sister just decides to tell us that shes got some bloody competition with work shes entered herself into in two weeks (shes known about it for ages) and she wants to fly from scotland to bristol, my mum pic her up, borrow either mine or my mums car and then drive to the new forest where its being held. I was like no I dont think so, she said well you dont need your car as your hardly going to drive yourself if your in labour (not really the point I need my car when matt isnt here seeing as I have eally bad SPD I cant walk anywhere!) and I said well M will need it to meet me at the hospital. So she said fine I'll borrow Mums and I said no because my mum is going to be the one on standby to take me to hospital until M can get back. I felt so stressed about M not being here, I've only just felt relaxed about the situation as it is. She said well I know Im not having a baby but this competition is just as important (WTF!!) and you cant have dibs on two cars thats not fair. I just cant believe how selfish that attitude is, I could understand if M was here, but I need to know my mum can get to me if needs be, thats all thats keeping me going?

 

[twiggy56]

Morning girls!

happy 35 weeks to callie and me!

Claire that sounds a bit bratty of your sister, you've got good reason for needing the cars...as for the 'this competition is as important as having a baby' comment- LOL! She obviously doesnt have kids?!

Iv got my second antenatal tonight, its labour & birth, im actually looking forward to it!

 

[nervouspains]

Morning ladies!!

OMG more snow!!!!!!!!!! Noooooooooooooo!
My 10min journey took 1 hr 40 min to get in!! OH drove me though and walked me to the door Awww & he is the birthday boy today too!

PC- Im loving the photos of your wedding on FB!!
& What the hell with your sister! Omg 'its just as important' im sorry but I did have to Lol @ that comment! lol

Twigs- WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
HAPPY 35 WEEKS HUN!!!!
I remember when we were 30 weeks & I said 'I cant wait until I am 35 weeks, then it almost seems to final!' lol YAY!

My 2nd class (I didnt attend the first one lol because of the weather!) Well, we will have to see if I can get to tomorrows safely or not!
Twigs- do you think they are worth going too? My work is making me feel its a hassel

xxxxx

 

[twiggy56]

I know 35 weeks makes it soooo real!! I think at 37 weeks il have a proper freak out! Just think...heidi had sydnee at 35+2!! eeek!

ooh claire, u got wedding fotos up?! Im well going to nosey now!

About the classes hun...i do think they're worthwhile. Not because i learnt anything 'new' as such (learnt it all from BnB!!) but because it was good to find out how my hospital works, their proceedures, available facilities, how they do things, visiting hours, what pain relief they offer etc....as every hospital is different. So although i knew the types of pain relief, it was good to know exactly what standard proceedure is at my specific hospital!

Plus it was another excuse to talk about baby things with other couples that are just as excited!!

 

[twiggy56]

ooh, and apparently im a BnB Addict now.....!!

obviously! lol

 

[AimeeM]

Happy 35 weeks girls!! Wow so close

We are going to brave it to go swimming...

Twiggs, YEY for being a b&b addict!!