The Chatterboxes

[twiggy56]

Happy 34 weeks Aims!!

Random- just ignore peoples opinions on your bump, they aren't experts but love to sound like they are and tell u its 'small' when they are no medical expert and dont think before they say these things and how it would make u worry. Just ignore them hun

yay for sydnee gaining weight! clever little bean being good for mummy and feeding like a pro! I still cant believe shes here lol...think im still in shock for you! Happy 1 week sydnee!!

BW- hugs for you hun u do seem to be getting a pretty shitty deal with things, we'l help u get thru the rest...you're getting so close now luv- im betting you or claire next!

Well me and jamie went to see Avatar in 3D today- my greatest achievement of sitting on my ass for a total of 3 HOURS!!! I took a pillow to wedge in my back and got an isle seat...total of 2 toilet breaks- not too shabby i thought!! Oh yeah and film was good too...

 

[pinkclaire]

I'm really glad you said that about bonding Heidi, I'm really worried about not bonding with my baby, it does amaze me when baby moves, but I can't quite link that to a person? Although I'd be devestated if anythin went wrong now, oh not sure what my point is but hopefully one of you get what I mean! And don't worry about pauls brother, his loss he doesn't know, you've got more important things to worry about just let them get on with it, doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things!

Random- men know all the right things to say don't they! Xxx

 

[AimeeM]

I am having a lot of problems getting on b&b lately it wont let me on and keeps saying there is a connection problem.

Random everyone says my bump is small too which pisses me off but i have a long body so that is why xx

 

[Beautywithin]

Morning!

Random - some men are just like that, they have no idea how to be around there pregnant partner.. my ex was the same he spoilt my pregnancy with Paris

i think we all go thru a stage of feeling as you do.... as much as i try, i cant imagine Adam here, which is strange, because 3 or maybe ( 5 weeks max ) a new person will be added to our family, and im so excited, i try and imagine what the birth will be like, what he will look like, but get nothing, right now it just feels im going to be pregnant forever more

i was the same with paris, and soon as they put her in my arms, words cant explain the love i felt.... iv always said, i never really new just how much i could love someone till i had her!

B and Paris have lost interest in my bump now, P is getting frustrated and keeps saying when he coming out, and when i say to B look ( my bump is going wild ) he looks for a min then goes back to watch telly, so it seems im the only one who could sit and watch my belly move allday, x



Twigster- well done, i wouldnt dream of going cinema at the moment, i cant get comfy sitting on my sofa, and my belly constantly itches, so all i would want to do is left my top up lol

Aimee- i have had trouble loggin on last couple of days, as if the site is down or something?! seems to be ok today tho ( touch wood )

x

 

[pinkclaire]

Morning BW- how are you today?

Twiggy- sorry didn't see your last post last night for some reason! I went to see that on Boxing day it's a brilliant film isn't it! Me and M love going to the cinema, that is one thing I will really miss, we'll have to get everything on DVD instead!

Happy 31 weeks today Random xxx

 

[Beautywithin]

im still feeling crap-trying not to moan tho, im sure most of it is down to having low iron levels, feels like its more then that tho, i really had to drag myself out of bed this morn to take P to school x


claire 37weeks tomoz,,,,,, party time me thinks........ lol xx

 

[nervouspains]

Morning ladies!

BW- Im sorry your feeling like this, but soon enough he will be here! lets face it, at the most you probably have 3-4 weeks to go!! Which is nothing!
Its going to be lovely, I cant wait to see who pops with a boy first! lol

I feel the same, sometimes I cant believe that im going to have a baby- yes even now lol.
I feel guilty for feeling the feelings such as 'omg its never going to me just me and OH again' 'I wont be able to do anything I want alone again' etc, yet if anything were to happen, id be deverstated... and well, this is what I said I always wanted...
I hate telling people these feelings because I know when I was ttc, and I read things like that I thought to myself 'well how selfish, I would do anything to be pregnant' and now here I am in the position and can understand why some women feel this way...

But then on the other hand, when I am washing his clothes I get so excited thinking im really having a baby, MY own baby, something OH and I made together through our love, and I get so scared something is going to happen because, surely I cant be lucky enough to have a child of my own? sorry if I sound

I get scared about bonding as well, what if I dont get that bond straight away, what if I have PND? But then I think, well if I do get that bond, I will feel angry with myself for ever doubting that I wouldnt I just cant win lol


I had my blood test this morning- negative again for diabeties, so he is just a big boy!
I have a scan next thurs so im looking forward to seeing how much he has grown, and what may happen next... xxx

 

[twiggy56]

BW your post was lovely! Everyone says about the instant unconditional love u feel when u hold your baby in your arms 4 the 1st time, i cant wait 2 experience it...coz im a bit like aimee at the moment...i can feel her movements and kicks but cant quite connect it to a little face/person?

Yeah claire the film was pretty amazing...the colours in the night times were beautiful! The 3D really made it pretty special! I was also just so pleased with myself that i sat through it lol.

Im up for this '37 week party' tomorrow, its such a big deal- claire you're TERM! Start doing everything to get that buba outta there!!

 

[pinkclaire]

All your thoughts sound normal to me NP! I had a breakdown about 10 times over the weekend cos of all the same thoughts! Having a baby is a huge deal, and the fact we're worried shows we're going to be good mums xx

37 week party, wahoo, think I might by some chocolate cake ready to eat on my own lol.

 

[randomxx]

hi ladies thanks for all your nice words last night think i was just having a bad day and i cant tell OH coz he doesn't understand lol

31weeks today

claire- you should know by now that you have to share chocolate cake with us all!!!

NP- great news about the test

i want to see this film now but not sure i could hack 3hours in the cinema

bring on the babies

 

[twiggy56]

Happy 31 weeks random luv!

claire i will eat chocolate cake in unison with you tomorrow!! U know me...wouldnt say no to any occasion that requires me to eat chocolate cake!!

:wave: Hi callie hun! Good news about the bloods...think Max is just guna come out a gorgeous wee chubby cheeked baby! Im actually really looking forward to seeing everyones babies, and what they look like! We have been talking about these wee people for how many months now...and soon we will all see who we have been reffering to as 'Adam', 'Jimmy', 'Max'...etc etc!

will be so amazing really!

 

[nervouspains]

Yay thanks twigs I cant wait either

Happy 31 weeks random! Oooh 31 weeks not long now!!

The only thing I am worried about, is the doctor said they may ahve trouble delivering him as his shoulders may get stuck... then they bring the ventose in... im scared!! I dont want a delivery like that... thats why I could possibly see a c-section being performed xxx

 

[twiggy56]

Callie would u be ok with a c-section? If you're honest with yourself does it bother you or would u actually prefer it....?!

Maybe ask at your next MW app if they would consider a c-section if you are really worried about the shoulders in a natural birth? Although i do remember you saying that they originally said no to c-section because of the shoulders...and natural birth was still fine?

but if it worries you..?

 

[nervouspains]

Thanks twigs, I will have a word with her, maybe they will tell me more or express any concerns at next weeks scan?

I wouldnt mind I supppose as my hoohaa wouldnt change lol, but I did want to avoid a c-section because of the not being able to drive/ excercise etc and I really wanted to try and get back in to my old kind of routine- I would hate to be house bound! xx

 

[3 girlies]

twiggy you mention that instant unconditional love, well i had such a hard time when Reese was born, she was taken away for oxygen straight after she was born so i didnt get to see her, it took a while for that bond to form for us. I know its not unusual but i felt so guilty coz i didnt feel what they say you should It took a few weeks to really believe she was mine. I think its normal to worry, i worry all the time, just coz i want to be the best mum i can be, the pressure is huge but its sooooo worth it.


I have been a bit uncomfy today, my tummy feels really tender. I made a doctors appointment but i couldnt handle taking all 3 girls with me so i cancelled it. Its prob just my body going back to pre pregnancy or something!!


i had my haircut today, its lovely, i feel quite pampered for a change lol

 

[nervouspains]

Lol ooh I cant wait until my materinty leave starts, then im going to have a pedicure and hair cut lol.

The sides of my mouth are terrible today, they have really flammed up

Random- loving the fb pics hun

3girlies- anymore piccys for us? lol xxx

 

[twiggy56]

yeah NP the recovery afterwards of a c-section is pretty off-putting when u compare it to a natural birth...and my mum was saying, an episiotomy or a tear actually heal extremely quickly...so if u dont like the idea of the c-section just go with the natural birth, if the shoulders are difficult and u need a cut then the recovery time will be much more minimal than from a c-section!

Heidi- i can imagine feeling the guilt if the bond isnt made straight away, however its not your fault in circumstances like yours was with Reese. You make me feel so excited to be a mummy, i think ur a fab mum to your girls...

I agree with callie, more piccies?! Want to see that gorgeous wee girlie of yours putting on the pounds!!

 

[nervouspains]

I feel so awful, well, I have since about 2 this morning, iv been feeling really sick on and off all day, and keep getting upset belly pains its not good- oh and I keep getting hot too! xx

 

[twiggy56]

I dont feel so great today either callie, OH was snoring BAD last night coz he's getting a cold- so i couldnt sleep even though i was exhausted and now i'l prob get this cold he's brought home from work now too...urgh!!!

my belly pains have been bad too, im starting to wonder whether it maybe is braxtons?!

Is BW ok? She hasnt posted since she was saying she didnt feel right on our thread at half 11 this morning? Hope shes alright...

 

[nervouspains]

I know I was wondering about her and where PC was ?? MS is pi**ed because her internet is still not up yet!

God im so tired! hurry up 5.30!

I wonder what BH feel like, because sometimes im wondering if I have had one, or not I dont know what to compare it too? lol xx