Good morning all! :wave: Always fun to hear updates!
One week left until I break up so just continuing preparations; decorating, gardening, general nesting!!
In the ideal world, I'd like to be finished with everything by the end of July - saving August for nothing but relaxation... Fingers crossed that this is achieveable and that I'm not being too naive!!
Ooohh so exciting...can't believe you are so close to maternity leave!!
I've bought quite a few of my bigger baby bits now (Mothercare had a very good deal on!) so have ordered my
Car seat
Isofix base
Cot
Matress
Need to get a dresser/changing unit and the pram now! Very exciting.
That IS exciting!
We just ordered our travel system (car seat/base/stroller), which was our first big baby purchase. Still need a million more things, but, other than diapers, nothing I think we absolutely couldn't live without if baby were to come soon.
My friends wanted to throw a baby shower for me and asked what else i still needed so I said baby bath, changing mat and top n tail bowl. I felt cheeky asking for things but i know it's easier for them, also as we're team yellow they can't buy lots of outfits so these are practical things they can get us!
I think that's perfectly fine, especially since they asked you what you needed -- it's not as if you went up to them and asked out of nowhere. Here in the US it's very common to have a registry if you're having a shower, so people know what you want and what you already have...which is basically the same as telling people what you still need!
CONGRATS ON 30 WEEKS by the way!!!
Well I just got back from the beach. We had a blast! And of course the whole time I was thinking about what it will be like next year when little man is with us! Starting to stress a little though because the nursery is NO WHERE NEAR done, but he will be sleeping in a bassinet in our room for the first few months anyway so I guess it will be ok if it isn't finished right when he comes home. That doesn't mean I will be happy about it though
I'm glad you guys had a good time at the beach
Our nursery is nowhere near done either. I'm actually enjoying putting it together slowly...I think I would be dying of impatience if it were all done by now! Somehow the fact that the nursery needs some more time before it's ready helps to remind me that the baby does too. I wish it were September and both of them were ready NOW, but there's a good reason for him to still be in there!
I guess, though, I'm not that worried about it not getting done in time. We're not doing anything fancy with it (not painting it or anything) so I think we could probably get it finished in a weekend if we had everything together in one place.
I had kind of a weird day yesterday...had a few hours of what I'm pretty sure were contractions! They were kind of painful, but not regular or increasingly intense so I didn't really think it was real PTL. Called the doctor after a couple hours of them and she said to hydrate and rest and see if they went away, and they did. I'll start getting worried if it happens again, but to have it happen just that once was kind of exciting in a strange way.
Bought some more baby clothes last week...now that I'm allowing myself to buy things, it's all I want to do ever
trying to accumulate things slowly and spread out the fun! I'm not feeling too big or uncomfortable just yet (knock on wood) so I think I have some more time before it gets hard to do things.
Do you all have a lot of doctor/midwife appointments coming up? Mine are every two weeks now and will start being every week at 36 weeks. I also have another growth scan in a couple of weeks because I'm high risk. What's the schedule in the UK?
Planning to talk to my doctor next time about labor and birth plan things...I'm looking forward to it. Also planning to ask him when he would like to induce, since it occurred to me that I probably won't be allowed to go past my due date due to being high risk. I'd much rather not be induced, but I can understand that there might be good reasons for it. Also, it sounds like some doctors prefer inducing at 39 weeks for women with chronic hypertension, even if it's perfectly under control, and if the baby's definitely going to be here early, I'd like to know that now so I can plan accordingly!
Hope everyone is feeling well today!