Justinel101
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Hi everyone!
I haven't posted on here in a long time but i'm in desperate need of advice before I lose my mind. I apologize for how long this is...
My son is now 14 months old and since he has been born and even before that my boyfriend, his fathers, family has caused countless problems. I came from a very family oriented family. We care about eachothers feelings and sit down and talk when there is a problem that needs to be adressed. They are far from perfect though. My grandmother can be a bit snobbish. My mom likes to hold alot of her thoughts in her head and not tell me what shes really thinking. But they support me no matter what and help me when I need it.
My boyfriends family on the other hand...since I became pregnant and his sister found out she messaged me over facebook. The short version of this "You better hope you aren't pregnant you little w****. It probably isn't even my brothers kid. I hope you fall down some stairs" etc. This continued just about up until I gave birth. Then I had him and in the hospital his mom shows up after i've been in labor, awake, for 28 hours and just pushed out an almost 9 pound baby, and bitches because she can't stay long. I was just about to FINALLY sleep when she walks in, without calling first to ask if it was ok. Then his sister calls swearing and yelling. Nothing changes. I am forced to move out of my boyfriends because his sister, 26, moves back in. She posts on facebook that me and my family are a bunch of c**** because i didn't wanna bring my 1 week old out in a snow storm to visit people. She has a kid to you'd think she'd understand.
Fast forward to now, his mom and sister made his first birthday be filled with drama and tears for me because they "hate" my family for who knows what reason and we had to have separate parties. My boyfriend and I had already broken up over the summer because his family pushed us so far apart and weve now moved to another town to try and make it work without them. They swear and yell around my son. Calling him a little sh** and other profanities. It makes me extremely uncomfortable so i dont like to go over there. Now i'm planning his baptism and its already started "why do you have to baptize him" "you think you're better than us because youre baptizing him" Dumb stuff like this. How do I even address this at this point? Its pushing my boyfriend and i apart again and I am completely lost on what to do.
I haven't posted on here in a long time but i'm in desperate need of advice before I lose my mind. I apologize for how long this is...
My son is now 14 months old and since he has been born and even before that my boyfriend, his fathers, family has caused countless problems. I came from a very family oriented family. We care about eachothers feelings and sit down and talk when there is a problem that needs to be adressed. They are far from perfect though. My grandmother can be a bit snobbish. My mom likes to hold alot of her thoughts in her head and not tell me what shes really thinking. But they support me no matter what and help me when I need it.
My boyfriends family on the other hand...since I became pregnant and his sister found out she messaged me over facebook. The short version of this "You better hope you aren't pregnant you little w****. It probably isn't even my brothers kid. I hope you fall down some stairs" etc. This continued just about up until I gave birth. Then I had him and in the hospital his mom shows up after i've been in labor, awake, for 28 hours and just pushed out an almost 9 pound baby, and bitches because she can't stay long. I was just about to FINALLY sleep when she walks in, without calling first to ask if it was ok. Then his sister calls swearing and yelling. Nothing changes. I am forced to move out of my boyfriends because his sister, 26, moves back in. She posts on facebook that me and my family are a bunch of c**** because i didn't wanna bring my 1 week old out in a snow storm to visit people. She has a kid to you'd think she'd understand.
Fast forward to now, his mom and sister made his first birthday be filled with drama and tears for me because they "hate" my family for who knows what reason and we had to have separate parties. My boyfriend and I had already broken up over the summer because his family pushed us so far apart and weve now moved to another town to try and make it work without them. They swear and yell around my son. Calling him a little sh** and other profanities. It makes me extremely uncomfortable so i dont like to go over there. Now i'm planning his baptism and its already started "why do you have to baptize him" "you think you're better than us because youre baptizing him" Dumb stuff like this. How do I even address this at this point? Its pushing my boyfriend and i apart again and I am completely lost on what to do.