Hello ladies just checking in and I am scared

went to the bathroom sorry if tmi but have been constipated anyways more brownish red tinted blood,I dont know what to do my friend said I should rush to the er but as I have explained before to her after several m/c a few chemicals and 2 tubals i know what they will say and that is nature will take it's course and if your going to m/c there is nothing we can do.So I am semi frantic,very emotional I screamed to DH who was mowing the grass he didnt hear me so i called him a few choice names NOT LIKE ME,I just get soooo frusterated yes he works 3rd shift and gets only a few hours sleep @ a time but I need some support here after all I didnt make this baby on my own and franky I have 2 children from my 1st marriage and he has none and has been the pne who has been wanting this for so long NOT that I dont,Sorry I am ranting.I need to know what should I do I am cramping,tired,bb's are NOT sore to touch just if I press on them and had more dizzy spells oh I hope it isnt a tubal.My dr will be back Monday.Should I wait or head to the hospital? Thanks for listening ladies.