*** The LATE CYCLE LADIES! *** 2 BFPs ~ 3 AF ***

[sarah1726]

daisy it was no problem, i just didnt want you worrying ! its not good for you or bubs and i really want this to work out for you...relax, put your feet up, have a nice cuppa tea and watch tv and again RELAX have a nice bath,clean pjs and an early night is 5.30am here and im still awake, best be off to bed and try get some sleep, i was reading up on how long you bleed after having a baby and i am not looking forward tp that if i ever get pg or giving birth they are they 2 things im afraid of most xxx

 

[hmh33]

Hey, everyone Was gone all day to the ocean currently in the process of looking back over posts....

Didn't test today - had an unexpected trip.

Will test tomorrow

 

[daisy74]

I KNEW something was wrong so i said to myself ok you have loads of tests left,Yes I am addicted to testing forgot the term I am to upset anyways just took a test like 15 minutes ago and yeah there is a line there and it was there before 10 minute mark came up around 5 minutes BUT it looks greyish,I have taken 3 now YES 3 and all are doing the same thing,I know my body and with the spotting I had for says I just know AF is just around the corner for me,If and when she comes I will no longer be trying for a bit but will still be an active member as your all sweet ladies and I know if I ever had a ? there was always someone to help me out or make me feel better and I would like to do the same.I am NOT going to use pre seed for a few months I wont prevent nor try I wont be tempting or checking cervix nothing but I really hope all of you wonderful ladies who want you BFP are blessed with it and all who are pregnant have a h&h 9 months,This isnt goodbye I am just taking a break,Who knows I could be back tomarrow but I am unsure @ this point,I am mentally and physically drained. *** Here are a few of the pics from tonight,My line was darker from 7/24/2010 I will include that pic first and then the ones from tonight for those who may not had seen my BFP,I know if I am not anymore I was pregnant I just dont know what to say is this a chemical or m/c,Either way I feel so empty and sad.
******* The first 2 are from 7/24/2010 just 4 days ago,,,,The last 3 are from tonight 7/28/2010 it is 1:14am here.I have taken all 3 tests within the last hour.IF af isnt here in a week I will retest with the digi hubby is suuposed to be bringing home,I dont have the heart to tell him @ work that I know my body and this bean isnt sticking,Like I said in real life the line looks not as thick as 7/24 test and I see NO pink it is grayish Thanks to all you remarkable ladies.I wont change my signature until af comes and when and if she shows I will be sure to update and follow and lurk around and wish you all the best but my mind needs a break like I said we werent trying when this happened so maybe if I focus back to my weight loss and keeping busy when the time is right,I will have another child and I am @ the point to where if it isnt meant to be then I have to accept that too

 

[pink_bow]

Hun could the tests be lighter because your wee wasn't diluted enough?
Im keeping everything crossed for you xx

 

[sarah1726]

oh daisy please do not do anymore tests, your only stressing yourself out and only you really know your body and IF something was to happen it will happen please dont stress over it worse by doing tests,every woman is different, and so is every pregnancy and pink bow was right, maybe your wee was diluted, unfortynatly this is naure and she can be cruel and whatever happens is going to happen, please do not take any more tests, maybe make a doc app and find out whats going on were all here for you hun xxxxxxxx

 

[tigger867]

Daisy daisy daisy!!!!! what r u like sweety, like we all been saying, its not over until the witch show her ugly face in full force. Your still pg, and the line is still there even thou its lighter than b4. The other member, (sorry i didnt catch her name), advise maybe was right your wee might not be diluted enough. Please hun dont do anymore test, you really need to relax, and not stress to much. I give you abit advise, Im from a indian orgin, but born in the UK. And women never have medical help as we do in indian villages, so if a women was having some sort of bleeding, and many miscarriages b4. They were ordered complete bed rest, for at least 3months, and i mean bed rest.
Its been said that the womb becomes weak, after so many miscarriages, im not sure its ture, but thats what they believe. And the baby needs to really stick hard and strong, with less movement from mum in the first three months. If im honest this does sometime work, as few of my families that are still in India had the same problems, miscarriages, lightbleeding in the early stages, worrying etc, my great aunt, made them stick to there beds like super glue, for 3months, and now they all have healthy bunny babies.
I know its not practical, in our life style, but do rest alot and mean alot, it might help, also no stress

Good luck hun we are all here for you

 

[hmh33]

LMAO. You make me laugh. I think you're fine. You sound as prepared for TTC as you do for the first day of school. I have an app on my phone where I track my notes, symptoms, and BDing. I have 30 opks. I cannot temp. I am too OCD. I am hoping so badly for Aug bfp.

Is your OH excited?

I use that app too!

 

[sarah1726]

and not everybody gets a dark line on tests some women never get a dark line but a line is a line and every pregnancy is different please realx and just make a doc app xxxx

 

[hmh33]

I KNEW something was wrong so i said to myself ok you have loads of tests left,Yes I am addicted to testing forgot the term I am to upset anyways just took a test like 15 minutes ago and yeah there is a line there and it was there before 10 minute mark came up around 5 minutes BUT it looks greyish,I have taken 3 now YES 3 and all are doing the same thing,I know my body and with the spotting I had for says I just know AF is just around the corner for me,If and when she comes I will no longer be trying for a bit but will still be an active member as your all sweet ladies and I know if I ever had a ? there was always someone to help me out or make me feel better and I would like to do the same.I am NOT going to use pre seed for a few months I wont prevent nor try I wont be tempting or checking cervix nothing but I really hope all of you wonderful ladies who want you BFP are blessed with it and all who are pregnant have a h&h 9 months,This isnt goodbye I am just taking a break,Who knows I could be back tomarrow but I am unsure @ this point,I am mentally and physically drained. *** Here are a few of the pics from tonight,My line was darker from 7/24/2010 I will include that pic first and then the ones from tonight for those who may not had seen my BFP,I know if I am not anymore I was pregnant I just dont know what to say is this a chemical or m/c,Either way I feel so empty and sad.
******* The first 2 are from 7/24/2010 just 4 days ago,,,,The last 3 are from tonight 7/28/2010 it is 1:14am here.I have taken all 3 tests within the last hour.IF af isnt here in a week I will retest with the digi hubby is suuposed to be bringing home,I dont have the heart to tell him @ work that I know my body and this bean isnt sticking,Like I said in real life the line looks not as thick as 7/24 test and I see NO pink it is grayish Thanks to all you remarkable ladies.I wont change my signature until af comes and when and if she shows I will be sure to update and follow and lurk around and wish you all the best but my mind needs a break like I said we werent trying when this happened so maybe if I focus back to my weight loss and keeping busy when the time is right,I will have another child and I am @ the point to where if it isnt meant to be then I have to accept that too

I'm so sorry honey, I hope everything works out for you... I know how stressed you are, and I'm so sorry for that. You are in my prayers.

 

[hmh33]

Daisy daisy daisy!!!!! what r u like sweety, like we all been saying, its not over until the witch show her ugly face in full force. Your still pg, and the line is still there even thou its lighter than b4. The other member, (sorry i didnt catch her name), advise maybe was right your wee might not be diluted enough. Please hun dont do anymore test, you really need to relax, and not stress to much. I give you abit advise, Im from a indian orgin, but born in the UK. And women never have medical help as we do in indian villages, so if a women was having some sort of bleeding, and many miscarriages b4. They were ordered complete bed rest, for at least 3months, and i mean bed rest.
Its been said that the womb becomes weak, after so many miscarriages, im not sure its ture, but thats what they believe. And the baby needs to really stick hard and strong, with less movement from mum in the first three months. If im honest this does sometime work, as few of my families that are still in India had the same problems, miscarriages, lightbleeding in the early stages, worrying etc, my great aunt, made them stick to there beds like super glue, for 3months, and now they all have healthy bunny babies.
I know its not practical, in our life style, but do rest alot and mean alot, it might help, also no stress

Good luck hun we are all here for you

That's really interesting! I love hearing about the customs of other cultures.

 

[hmh33]

So, I still haven't tested again, because DH told me I should wait a few more days so we can really allow time - if I'm pregnant - for the hCG to buildup in my body.
Which frustrates me, but, he's got a point.

I have NO symptoms whatsoever besides mild tiredness and the twinges of pain/cramping in my uterus. It's like all the symptoms have gone away. But still no AF.

Which makes me wonder if I just skipped a month (which I NEVER do, but I'm sure it's possible)...

I'm now 10 days late, 24 DPO, haven't tested since 19 DPO, 5 days late.
And believe me, it's killing me.

I don't know what I think anymore. I've been trying to keep my mind off it.

But I can't ignore the feelings in my uterus.

I'm having ovary pains as well, which worries me... I'm hoping I don't have cysts or anything like that.

Well, off to the doctor tomorrow...

 

[josy0710]

Daisy you are in my prayers also... And i know the othet girls already said this but don't stress yourself its not good for you, try to relax like Sarah said put your feet up watch some tv, try to keep your mind occupied with other things we all know thats easier said than done but its the best thing you can do to help your little bean

 

[hmh33]

daisy it was no problem, i just didnt want you worrying ! its not good for you or bubs and i really want this to work out for you...relax, put your feet up, have a nice cuppa tea and watch tv and again RELAX have a nice bath,clean pjs and an early night is 5.30am here and im still awake, best be off to bed and try get some sleep, i was reading up on how long you bleed after having a baby and i am not looking forward tp that if i ever get pg or giving birth they are they 2 things im afraid of most xxx

I'm afraid of giving birth too... I'm not necessarily afraid of the pain, but I'll be terrified that something's going to go wrong.

 

[mrsmmm]

LMAO. You make me laugh. I think you're fine. You sound as prepared for TTC as you do for the first day of school. I have an app on my phone where I track my notes, symptoms, and BDing. I have 30 opks. I cannot temp. I am too OCD. I am hoping so badly for Aug bfp.

Is your OH excited?

I use that app too!

Smartphones are the best! The stupid thing will even send me a reminder that I'm getting close to OV'ing. I'm thrilled to have something keeping track of my cervix for me. Easier to get hopefully.

 

[sarah1726]

So, I still haven't tested again, because DH told me I should wait a few more days so we can really allow time - if I'm pregnant - for the hCG to buildup in my body.
Which frustrates me, but, he's got a point.

I have NO symptoms whatsoever besides mild tiredness and the twinges of pain/cramping in my uterus. It's like all the symptoms have gone away. But still no AF.

Which makes me wonder if I just skipped a month (which I NEVER do, but I'm sure it's possible)...

I'm now 10 days late, 24 DPO, haven't tested since 19 DPO, 5 days late.
And believe me, it's killing me.

I don't know what I think anymore. I've been trying to keep my mind off it.

But I can't ignore the feelings in my uterus.

I'm having ovary pains as well, which worries me... I'm hoping I don't have cysts or anything like that.

Well, off to the doctor tomorrow...

have you seen this? most symptoms subside after a certain amount of dpo, but they do tend to come back obvisiously

https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/earlypregnancysymptoms/chart_dpo.php?dpo=0

you can click on different dpo xx

 

[sarah1726]

i hope there is a happy ending to your storry since i got af xxx

 

[hmh33]

LMAO. You make me laugh. I think you're fine. You sound as prepared for TTC as you do for the first day of school. I have an app on my phone where I track my notes, symptoms, and BDing. I have 30 opks. I cannot temp. I am too OCD. I am hoping so badly for Aug bfp.

Is your OH excited?

I use that app too!

Smartphones are the best! The stupid thing will even send me a reminder that I'm getting close to OV'ing. I'm thrilled to have something keeping track of my cervix for me. Easier to get hopefully.

I know! Me too! It's great...

 

[sarah1726]

yeah i was reading up on how much you bleed after having a baby and that is scary also just giving birth in general or a scan to be told there is no heart beat my heart breaks to read stories like that from woman on here and tbh im more scared after coming onto BnB than what i was before , ive read the stories on here and i used to think '' that would never happen to me '' but now im bricking it was telling my bf, like he understands lol he was sayin its just a few hours of labour once ya have the baby you wont care about the bleeding....i bloody will !! especially if there is alot ! xx

 

[hmh33]

i hope there is a happy ending to your storry since i got af xxx

Thank you so much! I'm going to check it out now...

I really hope so too. But I'm not so sure anymore... But thank you for the support

 

[hmh33]

Well that's interesting, so symptoms seem to subside...
HMMM...



Now you've got my brain going crazy again.