*** The LATE CYCLE LADIES! *** 2 BFPs ~ 3 AF ***

[daisy74]

Opps lol he wanted to BD and I said NOPE not until I feel outta the woods so he went and took a nap LMAO!! Hugs ladies

 

[daisy74]

I love James for a boy (DH name and my little brothers name)
And Bella for a girl
Bella & James are the names I have picked out,Just thought I would share.
(((((((hugs)))))))

 

[mrsmmm]

Glad you're feeling better. I love times with my girlfriends. It's great! I think it's cute how we've all picked out names. james and Bella are excellent choices.

 

[sarah1726]

wow alot of chatting yes i love spending time with my friends too but i live in cavan Ireland and they all live in Dublin,Ireland where im originally from...my bf lived in sacramento,california for a few years but he is originally from ireland, he has 2 children over there, and a ex wife called suzie AKA fluzy suzy he has always fancied samantha from bewitched and asked if we had a girl could samantha be her first or second name men, they are such jokers xxx

 

[josy0710]

I'd like to try natural birth...I am afraid of the epidural I think I rather put up with the pain for those hours than the epidural I've spoken to alot of women who after years still get back pains so I'm not sure its worth it...I would like a water birth but we'll see :]

 

[daisy74]

I tryed the water birth but kept getting in and out couldnt lay still and never had an epidural and never could,I hate needles but my friend had one and her left leg has went numb on and off for months since sometimes she falls out of the blue so I dont suggest then to anyone she NEVER had this problem before this and she knows it was the epidural because her legs were numb for 2 days after her baby was born.Just wanted to comment,Hugs

 

[josy0710]

I tryed the water birth but kept getting in and out couldnt lay still and never had an epidural and never could,I hate needles but my friend had one and her left leg has went numb on and off for months since sometimes she falls out of the blue so I dont suggest then to anyone she NEVER had this problem before this and she knows it was the epidural because her legs were numb for 2 days after her baby was born.Just wanted to comment,Hugs

oh wow yeah for sure avoiding the epidural now....im just afraid that i say that now and then I can't deal with the pain and when I finally ask for it itll be too late

 

[sarah1726]

I tryed the water birth but kept getting in and out couldnt lay still and never had an epidural and never could,I hate needles but my friend had one and her left leg has went numb on and off for months since sometimes she falls out of the blue so I dont suggest then to anyone she NEVER had this problem before this and she knows it was the epidural because her legs were numb for 2 days after her baby was born.Just wanted to comment,Hugs

oh wow yeah for sure avoiding the epidural now....im just afraid that i say that now and then I can't deal with the pain and when I finally ask for it itll be too late

that would be the same as me, id be afraid incase it would be too late for one , my SIL has 3 girls and is 12 wks pg again, her youngest is 8 months old and when she had all her girls, she only took gas and air, she said it was much better and quicker, you know when to push and you dont have to stay in bed for hours after the birth waiting on the epidural to wear off xx

 

[josy0710]

yeah after reading all this I think I am more determined now to not use the epidural...im so scared and im not even pregnant yet lol.

 

[sarah1726]

yeah after reading all this I think I am more determined now to not use the epidural...im so scared and im not even pregnant yet lol.

me too lol i was just reading what to pack in your bags for labour and every one was saying food maternity mats? maternity pads and clothes etc but now i dont feel as afraid for the labor, now i just need to get pregnant first xx

 

[daisy74]

Ok so PLEASE ladies dont be mad @ me as I know I have driven everyone and myself wacko by now
Hubby got paid today and naturally I wanted to see in writing pregnant/not pregnant so I went to the store got one held my wee for 2 hours I WAS busting and it says NO PREGNANT
AllI can think of is I tested early and it was a chemical,I took a $ store test and BFP BUT sooooo faint it was hardly there,Called a friend of mine who is a nurse assistant and she said that until AF starts it isnt over,I kinda knew that myself but thanked her for her time.
So I went to google and checked and the clearblue digital and the $$ store tests are both the SAME sensitivity!! I know I know I am crazy
At this point this is how I feel,I am angry and yes of course cryed my eyes out and am in a miserable mood.My temp this am was 89.4 and my cervix is HIGH HIGH almost cant reach it but it is dry no creamy cm nothing just very dry and feels different then it did last week and yes I check it the same time in the day when I do check it,I dont like to prode around up there to much as well didnt want to disturb lil bean but seriously ladies no sore bb's...I am not as tired as I was to be honest with you IF this is a chemical I just want the witch to show her face get it done and then I am going back to NTNP
I will still be on daily as all of you are great but I seriously feel crazy and will NEVER tests early again! I am so determined NOT to test early again that I am going to donate ALL the pregnancy tests I have (like 6 left) to a local place that tests ladies for free and NOT buy one until I am atleast 3 days late.It will be hard but DH and I have decided that if and when the time is right it will happen,We also talked and as long as I am ok with it DH would like me to temp and use the pre seed we have left,I had a small reading ( normally dont get into this stuff) from a lady named Cheri she said she seen November and she said she wasnt sure if it was a birth month or concieve date or the month I would find out in,I would be ok with November if it was THIS November,I am going to purchase a reading off her tomarrow as I am very curious,$15.00..I figure it is the cost of a good test so why not.It isnt like any harm can be done and I know it is for entertainment but I seen ALOT of ladies get their BFP when she predicted,She also said I will have 3 kids total and I have 2 girls now so we will see.I will let you know more when I get my reading back,Have any of you had a reading from Cheri and if so was she close or accurate with you?
Hugs and have a nice day ladies,I am in a sad mood but also know there is NOTHING I can say or do to prevent what will be.......

 

[helen581]

Hi girls, im new to this forum and have been reading this thread, congrats to all that have BFP!! Im not very up to date with all the abbreviations so i hope you'll bare with me! lol. I normally have a 25 day cycle (have done for last 2 months) been TTC since May. i was due on 27th but no period as yet!! did a clear blue hpt this morning which was BFN and then 2 hours later i decided (like the inquisative child i am) to take it apart, there was a v feint line but after reading this thread that sounds quite common with clear blue. did a tesco HPT about 1 hour ago which was a BFN.........??? whats going on?? im normally so regular. keeping my fingers crossed though.

Could it still be a little early to get a positive test??

 

[Sweet_Alida]

Hi girls, im new to this forum and have been reading this thread, congrats to all that have BFP!! Im not very up to date with all the abbreviations so i hope you'll bare with me! lol. I normally have a 25 day cycle (have done for last 2 months) been TTC since May. i was due on 27th but no period as yet!! did a clear blue hpt this morning which was BFN and then 2 hours later i decided (like the inquisative child i am) to take it apart, there was a v feint line but after reading this thread that sounds quite common with clear blue. did a tesco HPT about 1 hour ago which was a BFN.........??? whats going on?? im normally so regular. keeping my fingers crossed though.

Could it still be a little early to get a positive test??

Your not out as the hasn't shown up. It could well be stress related to why you are late OR you could be pregnant. Some ladies don't get a until 14-19dpo. It all depends on when the little bean decides to travel down the tube and snuggle into your unterus(implant!). Good Luck I hope this is it for you. Keep testing with FMU(first morning urine)! Keep us posted and Welcome

 

[Sweet_Alida]

Ok so PLEASE ladies dont be mad @ me as I know I have driven everyone and myself wacko by now
Hubby got paid today and naturally I wanted to see in writing pregnant/not pregnant so I went to the store got one held my wee for 2 hours I WAS busting and it says NO PREGNANT
AllI can think of is I tested early and it was a chemical,I took a $ store test and BFP BUT sooooo faint it was hardly there,Called a friend of mine who is a nurse assistant and she said that until AF starts it isnt over,I kinda knew that myself but thanked her for her time.
So I went to google and checked and the clearblue digital and the $$ store tests are both the SAME sensitivity!! I know I know I am crazy
At this point this is how I feel,I am angry and yes of course cryed my eyes out and am in a miserable mood.My temp this am was 89.4 and my cervix is HIGH HIGH almost cant reach it but it is dry no creamy cm nothing just very dry and feels different then it did last week and yes I check it the same time in the day when I do check it,I dont like to prode around up there to much as well didnt want to disturb lil bean but seriously ladies no sore bb's...I am not as tired as I was to be honest with you IF this is a chemical I just want the witch to show her face get it done and then I am going back to NTNP
I will still be on daily as all of you are great but I seriously feel crazy and will NEVER tests early again! I am so determined NOT to test early again that I am going to donate ALL the pregnancy tests I have (like 6 left) to a local place that tests ladies for free and NOT buy one until I am atleast 3 days late.It will be hard but DH and I have decided that if and when the time is right it will happen,We also talked and as long as I am ok with it DH would like me to temp and use the pre seed we have left,I had a small reading ( normally dont get into this stuff) from a lady named Cheri she said she seen November and she said she wasnt sure if it was a birth month or concieve date or the month I would find out in,I would be ok with November if it was THIS November,I am going to purchase a reading off her tomarrow as I am very curious,$15.00..I figure it is the cost of a good test so why not.It isnt like any harm can be done and I know it is for entertainment but I seen ALOT of ladies get their BFP when she predicted,She also said I will have 3 kids total and I have 2 girls now so we will see.I will let you know more when I get my reading back,Have any of you had a reading from Cheri and if so was she close or accurate with you?
Hugs and have a nice day ladies,I am in a sad mood but also know there is NOTHING I can say or do to prevent what will be.......

I really hope this is not the end for you. Keep testing maybe your wee was just a little dilute and the test was unable to pick up the hormone? Keep testing and let us know! I hope your little bean sticks!

 

[helen581]

Thanks, I will def keep you updated, think ill leave it until the weekend to do another test thats if the witch hasnt arrived!!! good luck to all others too! x

 

[Sweet_Alida]

I tryed the water birth but kept getting in and out couldnt lay still and never had an epidural and never could,I hate needles but my friend had one and her left leg has went numb on and off for months since sometimes she falls out of the blue so I dont suggest then to anyone she NEVER had this problem before this and she knows it was the epidural because her legs were numb for 2 days after her baby was born.Just wanted to comment,Hugs

oh wow yeah for sure avoiding the epidural now....im just afraid that i say that now and then I can't deal with the pain and when I finally ask for it itll be too late

that would be the same as me, id be afraid incase it would be too late for one , my SIL has 3 girls and is 12 wks pg again, her youngest is 8 months old and when she had all her girls, she only took gas and air, she said it was much better and quicker, you know when to push and you dont have to stay in bed for hours after the birth waiting on the epidural to wear off xx

Wow her youngest is 8 months and she is preggo again??? That is just not fair tell her to pass some our way! LOL!!!
I live in the US and have never heard of "gas" being used for delivery before. What kind of gas? Does it affect the baby at all? I think with epidurals it all depends on the anesteologist doing the procedure if they are good then the percent of complications are very very low(except for the rare spinal headache). Maybe it's because we use spinals/epidurals a lot here in the US that we hear of less problems. I had a spinal with my daughter had to have an emergency c-section. Didn't really have a choice, but I didn't have an ounce of problem with mine and my friend got an epidural with her preg and by the time it was time to push she said she could feel when she needed too it just took the edge off. If I wasn't such a chicken I'd go natural but I'm scared of pain. Besides since I already had one c-seciton I'll have to have another so I guess it's not even up for discussion for me! good Luck ladies I hope we all get our bfp's!!!!

 

[sarah1726]

oh daisy , i really dont know what to say maybe it was a chemical i hope not but like you said, ig it was, i wish af would just show up for you, i hope your ok and from now on, do not test until af is late because this has caused you so much heart ache where as you would never have known you were if you had not of tested hope af stays away for you and i hope your ok xxxxxx

 

[daisy74]

Thanks Sarah,I am so so I mean if it was a chemical then I guess there is nothing I can do about it,I feel like the witch is coming one day and then the other I dont feel cramp @ all,I am VERYYYY crampy this evening,I have my laptop on my lap and am resting with my feey up.Having sandwiches for dinner my daughter is making.They DONT know I had any pos pregnancy tests I just said I wasnt feeling well which I am not.I feel like I could throw up anytime,But I will keep you updated and no I will NEVER test before AF is due again because your right I would of NEVER known,I am now late for AF well I think I am my cycles are crazy but I just wish either AF would come and I could feel better or I could be BFP and feel like crap,Atleast with a BFP I dont mind feeling like this.Hugs and thanks so much for always caring to reply to me
ALL you ladies are wonderful
I am going to relax maybe I will jump back on here later

 

[Sweet_Alida]

Hang in there Daisy! Please test again in the morning and let us know what happens. FX'd this is your time!!

 

[daisy74]

Hang in there Daisy! Please test again in the morning and let us know what happens. FX'd this is your time!!

Thanks I hope so too if not I am all cryed out and will go back to NTNP and work on losing some weight like I said I will temp and use pre seed but not base my life around it,Maybe then I will get a sticky bean but to be 10% honest I am hoping that I am BIG FAT PREGGO NOW and that it sticks Have a nice night and remember one thing,WE ALL HAVE EACHOTHER