*** The LATE CYCLE LADIES! *** 2 BFPs ~ 3 AF ***

[daisy74]

****** update I didnt test today but no spotting and feeling blah,Hope you all have a good weekend I am laying low hoping that I find out more by Monday
Hugs

 

[Sweet_Alida]

I'm glad the spotting stopped. Keep us updated! Been thinking about you! Stay on the couch this weekend you officially have it OFF!!!!! Good Luck Daisy! by the way I love the name Daisy! Love Love Love the flower too it's my fav's!!!

 

[Sweet_Alida]

oh mrsmmm god only knows lol

well....im a little annoyed right now, my bf is circumcised and he said if we have a boy he will be too my bf isnt jewish or muslim or anything like that and i dont see why our son should be, philip said its healthier but i just dont think its right, my brother or anybody else i know were not circumcised and they are fine, i mean it will be stressful for a baby to be born never mind snipping at his private parts!! i just dont agree with it.. xx

Honestly it's personal preference. they say circumcised little boys have less UTI's but as long as they keep the little man clean shouldn't be a problem! I know in the US it is more common for little boys to get "cut"! and they CLAIM that the little tikes feel little discomfortI'm not sure I believe that I've seen the little guys circumcised before they cry! Good Luck I hope when you do get pregnant that if it is a little boy ya can come to a decision you both feel comfortable with!

 

[tigger867]

****** update I didnt test today but no spotting and feeling blah,Hope you all have a good weekend I am laying low hoping that I find out more by Monday
Hugs

You take it easy hun, and remember lots of bed rest and no stress, otherwise i send my great aunt to your house, and she will SUPER GLUE you to the bed for 3months

Big hugs and kisses

 

[Sweet_Alida]

hmh how are you doing? Feeling anymore symptoms? Just checking on you haven't seen a post in awhile! good Luck!

 

[tigger867]

hmh how are you doing? Feeling anymore symptoms? Just checking on you haven't seen a post in awhile! good Luck!

Hey thats a point where is HMH!!!!

 

[tigger867]

Has anyone PM her lately, its really isnt like her not to be around, God i hope she's ok!!!

 

[sarah1726]

no i was wondering about her earlier, i hope she is ok too, usually she pops on or when she went to her SIL she let us know, i hope she is ok and nothing bad happened to her like i hope she didnt have to go to hospital or anything

HMH WHERE ARE YOU xx

 

[josy0710]

yeah I hope hmh is okay too!!

 

[daisy74]

I want to thank each and every one of you,I was laying in bed as I said I would and all of the sudden I got VERY hot and felt sick to my stomach I didnt dare get up as I was dizzy too,I called for DH he came in and said my face was white like a ghost
I called my dr office to see who was covering and asked said doctor to call me back,He told me to go to the emergency room.I did,Once I got there I felt warm and burning (below) and the white sheets were FULL of red blood,They didnt do an u/s,They took blood and said my level was less then 2 so I am not pregnant.I was given a bag of iv fluids and 800 mg of ibroprofen to take for the cramps that are killing me and sent home,I tryed ladies I was off my feet all i can say is I am sorry to you all and I am crying my eyes out DH cryed and he NEVER crys,Needless to say my daughters were @ their aunts for the night so they werent here and dont need to know,The doctor said we can try again after I am cleared by my obgyn BUT I am honesly unsure @ this point,I kinda blame myself for testing early but then again I would of known by now funny thing is I didnt test today IF I had then I wouldnt of probably gotten a BFP...But I did yesterday although was VERYYYY faint.I will NEVER test again early,THE ONLY thing that is good about any of this mess is atleast now after 3+ years of trying and turning 36 next week I know we can still get pregnant GETTING a sticky bean well that may be another story.I also heard from my friend yesterday that pre seed is being linked with people having a misscarriage I dont consider this a misscarriage I would rather just say chemical.I dont know I am rambling.I was semi dehydrated and had a BAD panic attack so they gave me ativan via my iv and I felt alittle better.I dont know if this bleeding is AF or ???? I still plan to go to the doctors on Monday if they can get me in and have a referal from the er to see my obgym within the next 3 days. WHY!??!?!?! I was so happy and feeling allittle better and thought that IF I was laying around I would be ok, I will forever hold my lil bean in my heart and as crazy as it sounds loved him or her already
I will still be on here,Maybe not as much but I need you ladies.I am glad I didnt announce this pregnancy to family.DH never calls into work but he did tonight as he was on for tonight for overtime his boss understands completely.I am going to heal mentally and physically and one of the hardest things I am going to have to do is what my status seeing how I am no longer expecting omg just thinking it and typing it is kiling me


******* Be honest ladies should I try anymore or give it a break?? My time may be running out I will be 36 on 8/5 Let me know your honest opinions and I will hand this over to GOD as it is to much for me @ this time
(((((((((hugs)))))))) and Thanks to you all who have been there for me,I feel as if I let you all down as well as myself and my husband
NEVER WILL I TEST BEFORE AF AGAIN AS A MATTER A FACT I WILL WAIT TILL I AM 3-5 DAYS LATE!!!

 

[leideebugz]

Oh Daisy! That is some very sad news!
Since you asked, I think you should take some serious "me time". The stress surely isn't helping anything, and from reading your posts, it sounds like you and you Dh need a breather. And no, I don't think you are "too old" to keep trying, if you want.
I know their are not many words that can comfort right now, but I wanted you to know I have been following you on the thread and have been in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[daisy74]

Oh Daisy! That is some very sad news!
Since you asked, I think you should take some serious "me time". The stress surely isn't helping anything, and from reading your posts, it sounds like you and you Dh need a breather. And no, I don't think you are "too old" to keep trying, if you want.
I know their are not many words that can comfort right now, but I wanted you to know I have been following you on the thread and have been in my thoughts and prayers.

Thanks so much ,,,I am sad for sure and I think your right I will continue to come on here because your all awesome but I am going on a break for ttc,It is to stressful and when and if the time is right I will concieve,and be able to carry the baby.I really appreciate you taking the time to send your kind words,It is people like you that make me feel like everything will be ok.Hugs & goodnight
Daisy

 

[leideebugz]

oh mrsmmm god only knows lol

well....im a little annoyed right now, my bf is circumcised and he said if we have a boy he will be too my bf isnt jewish or muslim or anything like that and i dont see why our son should be, philip said its healthier but i just dont think its right, my brother or anybody else i know were not circumcised and they are fine, i mean it will be stressful for a baby to be born never mind snipping at his private parts!! i just dont agree with it.. xx

Honestly it's personal preference. they say circumcised little boys have less UTI's but as long as they keep the little man clean shouldn't be a problem! I know in the US it is more common for little boys to get "cut"! and they CLAIM that the little tikes feel little discomfortI'm not sure I believe that I've seen the little guys circumcised before they cry! Good Luck I hope when you do get pregnant that if it is a little boy ya can come to a decision you both feel comfortable with!

I have to throw in my 2 cents. Sarah, DON'T DO IT! Tell your boyfriend this is not the stone age, and hygene has greatly improved. (Which is the main reason for circumcision.) And unless he plans on changing faiths... well, you get the idea. Now, on to why I feel this way. I do live in the U.S. and witnessed my best friend's son's circumcision. He SCREAMED. They used the equivalent of Novacane (topical) and that was it! For the next 2 weeks every time he peed, he cried and cried. The dr recommended using petrolium jelly on the incision site, to keep it from STICKING TO HIS DIAPER! You know how when you have a bad cut and you put a bandage on it, and it heals to the bandage. Same idea, but worse. Just say no!

 

[daisy74]

I changed my pic because I am mad @ myself,Is this normal or am I just going crazy?? I didnt want to look @ myself everytime I posted nor do I wish to look in the mirror!! what is wrong with me?? WHY CANT I CARRY A CHILD FOR MY DH????Will he hate me if it never happens OR trade me in of my eggs are bad...He has been a great husband and has fathered my kids even though he isnt their bio dad WHY CANT I just give him the one child he wants?????????????? My bday is 8/5 what a bday this will be I DONT want to celebrate it because I planned to NOT drink a drop thinking YEAH I am preggo not that I am a big drinker anyways now I wish to punish myself and I feel it is because if I would of taken it easier on the days the spotting STARTED maybe I could of carried that baby

 

[sarah1726]

awwww daisy, im sorry for all that you had to go through,i really think you should keep trying, whats to say the next one wont stick? you have 2 children so we know you can do it and you were pregnant so we know you can i think you should, like you said your 36, but no need to rush, my mam got pregnant when she was 41, we are here for you get well soon hun and again, im sorry to hear the sad news xxxx

 

[tigger867]

I want to thank each and every one of you,I was laying in bed as I said I would and all of the sudden I got VERY hot and felt sick to my stomach I didnt dare get up as I was dizzy too,I called for DH he came in and said my face was white like a ghost
I called my dr office to see who was covering and asked said doctor to call me back,He told me to go to the emergency room.I did,Once I got there I felt warm and burning (below) and the white sheets were FULL of red blood,They didnt do an u/s,They took blood and said my level was less then 2 so I am not pregnant.I was given a bag of iv fluids and 800 mg of ibroprofen to take for the cramps that are killing me and sent home,I tryed ladies I was off my feet all i can say is I am sorry to you all and I am crying my eyes out DH cryed and he NEVER crys,Needless to say my daughters were @ their aunts for the night so they werent here and dont need to know,The doctor said we can try again after I am cleared by my obgyn BUT I am honesly unsure @ this point,I kinda blame myself for testing early but then again I would of known by now funny thing is I didnt test today IF I had then I wouldnt of probably gotten a BFP...But I did yesterday although was VERYYYY faint.I will NEVER test again early,THE ONLY thing that is good about any of this mess is atleast now after 3+ years of trying and turning 36 next week I know we can still get pregnant GETTING a sticky bean well that may be another story.I also heard from my friend yesterday that pre seed is being linked with people having a misscarriage I dont consider this a misscarriage I would rather just say chemical.I dont know I am rambling.I was semi dehydrated and had a BAD panic attack so they gave me ativan via my iv and I felt alittle better.I dont know if this bleeding is AF or ???? I still plan to go to the doctors on Monday if they can get me in and have a referal from the er to see my obgym within the next 3 days. WHY!??!?!?! I was so happy and feeling allittle better and thought that IF I was laying around I would be ok, I will forever hold my lil bean in my heart and as crazy as it sounds loved him or her already
I will still be on here,Maybe not as much but I need you ladies.I am glad I didnt announce this pregnancy to family.DH never calls into work but he did tonight as he was on for tonight for overtime his boss understands completely.I am going to heal mentally and physically and one of the hardest things I am going to have to do is what my status seeing how I am no longer expecting omg just thinking it and typing it is kiling me


******* Be honest ladies should I try anymore or give it a break?? My time may be running out I will be 36 on 8/5 Let me know your honest opinions and I will hand this over to GOD as it is to much for me @ this time
(((((((((hugs)))))))) and Thanks to you all who have been there for me,I feel as if I let you all down as well as myself and my husband
NEVER WILL I TEST BEFORE AF AGAIN AS A MATTER A FACT I WILL WAIT TILL I AM 3-5 DAYS LATE!!!

Daisy i dont know what to say, i really feel for you, we all shared your ups and downs these past couple of weeks. Your a brave and inspiring women, that deserve all your dreams to come ture.
As a point of confidence, i like to tell you alittle about myself, i havnt mentioned much about myself on here but i think its time i shared some of my story.
Im also 36 years old, turning 37 in 2 weeks from now, i have 3 daughters all from a pervious marriage, there ages are 16, 14, and 5, the 5 year old is autisic, i have type 1 diabetes since the age of 10, its been 27 years now. I also have unactive thyroid gland, nerve damage (due to my diabetes), and kidney disease. I was told by my doctors that it wouldnt be safe for me to have anymore children, that was 7 years ago. But unexpectedly i conceived my youngest, and the whole 9 months was the easiest pregnancy i ever had. But god can be nasty after 2years we found out she was autisic, but that had nothing to do with my health so they told me. For months on end i blamed myself, thinking my health was the cause of her autism, i should have been more careful. All this stress ended my marriage to my daughters dad, he couldnt handle the fact that i went into such a depressed mode. This is the part of my life i want to forget, i even wished i miscarried my daughter, SUCH A HEARTLESS THING TO SAY AND THINK, thats how bad things got.

And then when i was at my worst, i met my present DH, he often chat to me about all my problems and my past, present and what i hoped for the future. And one thing that always stuck and made sense, you could wish for alot of things, but always be grateful for what you have, cos what you have is here now and it was here in the past, what the futrue brings is a dream, that is waiting to be unfolded. Live for the present, and the futrue will come forward in time.. Basicallly he was trying to make me see that i have three great girls, and a whole futrue with them, and i shouldnt waste any more time, on what i could have in the past, what ive lost, and what i wished for in the futrue. And you know what, those words stuck with me, and changed the way i live my life now, with positive vibes, and a heck of alot of smiles.

ALWAYS LIVE EACH DAY AS IF ITS YOUR LAST, ALWAYS BE PROUD OF WHAT YOU HAVE, AND LOOK FORWARD TO A BRIGHT FUTURE.

Lots of love and hugs

 

[mrsmmm]

Daisy, I couldnt' say my sad sorry to you any better than Tigger. I'll echo her sympathy. Don't give up. If you're meant to have a child, it will happen. I'm very sorry you lost your bean and think you're brave for even wanting to try again. that shows you have a big heart and love your DH very much. Hugs and feel better.

 

[mrsmmm]

BTW, now cd 9. begins every day or every other day today. This is going to be a fun month! I have really high hopes for August. I would love to give DH a BFP for his bday.

 

[sarah1726]

wow such brave woman on here to you all, well not much to share about me if im honest im 19 will be 20 in december, im with my boyfriend 4 years on the 12th of august, i have no children and my bf has 2, there is an age gap between us but to me age is only a number and he acts like a big child anyway were hoping to be pg with our first child even though my parents hate my bf, ( because of the age gap ) and its hard, she keeps saying she doesnt want me to have kids with him, but i love him and he loes me so thats all that matters, i have 2 dogs ( daisy and fifi ) and 2 cats (moo moo and sooty ) we live in a 3 bedroom house and my boyfriend is a chef..think thats about it really that is my life story lol

daisy your a brave woman and you should hold your head up high!! your beautiful, so put your pic back up hope all is ok and where on earth is hmh, im starting to worry over her now lol hope she is ok, and hello to everyone else xxxxx

 

[daisy74]

wow such brave woman on here to you all, well not much to share about me if im honest im 19 will be 20 in december, im with my boyfriend 4 years on the 12th of august, i have no children and my bf has 2, there is an age gap between us but to me age is only a number and he acts like a big child anyway were hoping to be pg with our first child even though my parents hate my bf, ( because of the age gap ) and its hard, she keeps saying she doesnt want me to have kids with him, but i love him and he loes me so thats all that matters, i have 2 dogs ( daisy and fifi ) and 2 cats (moo moo and sooty ) we live in a 3 bedroom house and my boyfriend is a chef..think thats about it really that is my life story lol

daisy your a brave woman and you should hold your head up high!! your beautiful, so put your pic back up hope all is ok and where on earth is hmh, im starting to worry over her now lol hope she is ok, and hello to everyone else xxxxx

Thank you so much!!! I am VERY blessed to have friends like you on here!! i am alittle better today and after reading what you have all said I feel like I will be ok thanks so much!!!!