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Ta faye... feels like I'm never gonna get pregnant...

Having a rubbish day at work too.

Would be much better if I had something to smile about inside.

xxxx
 
Sorry Neill had to go back to the office so had to give me a lift home lol. Well I'm CD12, which is the day I ovulate. I actually had ovulation pains this morning and was complaining about them, so he knew :rofl: he already has a 15 years old son, so he fully understands the consequences of his actions. I do too, and in terms of our relationship it'd be fine. We'd be stronger and I'd love him even more than I already do if that's possible! This has just been the most incredible few months and I can't even begin describe how I feel about him. It's like I've been with him for years, that's how committed we are. It reminds me of Twilight in a way hahahaha that's so sad :P But you get what I mean, it's so intense and I've never been so sure about anything in my whole life.

But as I said, wrong time kinda. But when's the right time? He said he's happy to leave it, he WANTS to. So it's up to me, I'll have to decide tonight!! Just wanted some opinions I suppose? I'm very aware that I might be making a very stoopid decision, even though I REALLY want to leave it. I really do.
 
Your chances of conception even if you dtd on the right day is 25%. so there is not an 100% chance that you would be if you left it (lol like you already know)

i dont know hunn - it sounds like you just want to let it be and what happens happens - let fate decide. You say you will be ok if you had a baby now and that the realtionship would work so if thats the case then leave it be. See what happens......the decision is really yours hun....i dont know what id do if i were in your shoes either - sorry im not much help lol

xxxxxxx
 
:hugs: LH I'd feel gutted if I took it too, even if it was the 'right choice' because it was badly timed.

But then I feel like, I KNOW I'm not just some idiot you see on Jeremy Kyle, I understand what I'm doing and want to be doing it. I'd be doing it for the right reasons, because I love him, and because we've already talked about kids (he didn't want any more until he met me, which is so cuuuute haha) and have even picked out names. He tells me about all the stuff he's thought about during his day at work, like me coming to meet him at the airport after he's been on a work trip, with our little ginger haired girl and a big pregnant belly. Just silly things like that. I think about things like this all the time too. It's perfect, but it's not! I'm so confused lol xx
 
Thankyou LH :) I know, it's tough to put yourself in someone elses shoes! I really didn't want you guys to hate me :/ I was so scared :(
 
Haha I REALLY love you guys, I don't want you to judge or hate me :P Pleeeeaaaase tell me you don't! At least, please tell me you don't hate me, even if you do judge me lol xx
 
Awwwwwe fluffymuff you knobber! I don't hate you!!!

I also don't envy you chick, it's a tricky situation and I think it'll take a lot of talking/thinking between the two of you to figure it out. MAP have 72hrs don't they?

Either way chick... We love you! Knobber! Lol
 
mushmouth said:
Awwwwwe fluffymuff you knobber! I don't hate you!!!

I also don't envy you chick, it's a tricky situation and I think it'll take a lot of talking/thinking between the two of you to figure it out. MAP have 72hrs don't they?

Either way chick... We love you! Knobber! Lol
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LOL! :rofl: Knobber XD You crack me up Mush hahahahahahaha!! Well thankyou :hugs: means an awful lot to me that you guys are supportive. My 'real-life-friends', as it were, are all a bit narrowminded, and I trust your judgement better than theirs lol. In the end, I'll make my mind up myself, but it's nice to know you have someone to talk to about it ^_^ You guys rule!! You bunch of knobbers :rofl: xx
 
Awww I dont hate you!!! Just a bit green eyed!! Lol. But thats natural isnt it???

xxx
 
ahh fuffy - of corse we dont hate you - how could we!!

Yeah you have 72 hours for the MAP but my friend took it after 2 days and she was still pg (although i dont believe she ever took is!!! but thats another story)

To be honest it sound like you have already made you mind up hun - the only reason i took it was because adam really wasnt ready. If he would have said that he didnt mind either way i would not have taken it and let fate decide itself!!!

I think like mush said - have another chat with neill - see what he thinks after hes had some head space and sleep on it maybe?

xxxxxxxxx
 
Yeah sleeping on it seems like a good idea, and I also suggested he went and did some work at the office so we could both decide what we want. So... Here we are! Time will tell I suppose.

I feel really bad, you guys have been waiting for ages and ages, like years, and I just swan in with someone I've only just started seeing, who's half way through a divorce, we fall madly in love with each other and then just DTD without using anything. And neither of us really want to use anything. If you know what I mean? Just feels like life is a bit unfair sometimes :(
 
That's what we're here for dudette :hugs:

Sometimes people close to a situation habe too much of an emotional attachment, and aren't able to step back and see the big picture - we're totally emotionally attached to you, but yanno what I mean!

Have a deep, real chat.., and don't think romantically... Go for reality... And between you both, the right thing will happen... Whatever that may be!

Xxxxx

Knobber
 
Knobber is now my new favourite term of endearment.

Guys... To me.... You're ALL knobbers. And don't you ever forget that!
 
How is everyone else's Toosday by the way? Working hard and what not? Any scary hairy symptoms??
 
Awwww Becca that suuuuucks :( I didn't realise you had AF :( Really hope you can kick her ass with some painkillers and get yourself up the duff next month ;) Are you and Phil officially NTNP now?
 
I really need to get on here more :( I hate not knowing what's going on haha xx
 
He's still pulling out, but not taking any notice of the persona so sort of.

Still got to wait till december... seems like ages away. Sometimes I feel dead positive about it and then I feel like this... Pfft.

Getting fed up of waiting and it will probably take me ages when I am allowed to try because of my stupid messed up body with its buggered tubes.

*cry*

Sorry girls just feeling sorry for myself!

xxx
 
Awww Becca does he know how upset it's making you? Like with the complications you might face, etc? Maybe if you just talk to him about it and show him how upset and/or scared you are about it, he'll agree to start a little earlier? Sorry I'm no use :( Any big things you need to sort out before December? Obviously there's the house, and you'll need to start taking folic acid and doing stuff like that before long. A lot of people want to lose weight or accomplish something at work before they start TTC, if you know what I mean? After I had my MC I set myself a loooaaaad of goals to achieve, because I honestly didn't know how else I'd get through the waiting :(

And 'til then, we'll be here for hugs and laughs, and Mush will always be around to call you a knobber :P :hugs: xx
 
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