The Lovely Looney Great Pretenders

[KerryGold]

Hello all!

I've been stalking a bunch of you but I don't get to post much as I am trying rilly hard not to be on BnB at work (as I'm still on my probation!) and hubs doesn't know about it yet. (I suspect he knows I'm up to something but chooses to ignore!)

However, this is my second day at home - I stayed in bed all day yesterday - I'm supposed to be working today but it's just not happening!

Hope the duffers are doing okay and am interested to know that by withdrawing I could consider myself NTNP! Shhhh don't tell hubs! LOL - he acknowledged on Monday that we had been taking a bit of a risk!

Trying to ignore lack of AF (and running to the loo all the time to see what's going on) and focus now on getting ready for October. Please give me info about vitamins and OPKs (and what IC stands for!) What yous are taking/using and where you get them from and how you do it! (not obviously - the OPKs!)

I hope I'm looney enough - R calls me a Space Cadet if that helps!

Kx

 

[pink23]

hi all just popping in. just going to get caleb weighed make sure hes doing ok.
I have good news oh has decided we can ttc next aug even if the flat isnt sold. If we have a boy we can stay here but i really would love to sell and get a house. so at least i have a countdown now so need a new ticker. im sure the time will fly. I think i will try and do overtime at work when i can to get extra money to do the flat up. oh just said it out of the blue yey.
Ley im glad the woman got back to you, silly woman trying to get one over on you.
so im a late ttc but you guys are here so thats ok xx back soon x

 

[mushmouth]

Awww that is good news Faye! Hope his weigh in goes well!

Welcome Kerry G! Ic= Internet cheapies, I.e. Cheap strip preggo tests or ov tests from eBay.

I use ic opks, from cycle day 15 each day until the test line is darker than the control line, which confirms you're about to ovulate. I ov'd on Cd 19 last time.

Vitamins - the obvious folic acid for you, and my hub took zinc...

 

[lovehearts]

You got kam to take zinc??? i didnt knwo that. I never asked adam to take anything...maybe i should have done. oh well - cant change it now.

Welcome kerry

i got my OPK's from asda - but i was using a persona as well which is like the clear blue fertility monitor so i only had to use 2 OPKs to catch my ovulation.

As for the pg tests - i havnt been impressed with the IC's. Iv only taken 2 and the lines are barly visible when its clear on a FRER. you have to have good eyes for them!! lol.

im blah this afternoon - so blah as leah would say FML

 

[mushmouth]

ooh LH yeah - I told him they'd boost his immune system lol, you OBVIOUSLY didnt need them tho!

 

[fuffyburra]

Awww Becca does he know how upset it's making you? Like with the complications you might face, etc? Maybe if you just talk to him about it and show him how upset and/or scared you are about it, he'll agree to start a little earlier? Sorry I'm no use Any big things you need to sort out before December? Obviously there's the house, and you'll need to start taking folic acid and doing stuff like that before long. A lot of people want to lose weight or accomplish something at work before they start TTC, if you know what I mean? After I had my MC I set myself a loooaaaad of goals to achieve, because I honestly didn't know how else I'd get through the waiting

And 'til then, we'll be here for hugs and laughs, and Mush will always be around to call you a knobber xx

Well I'm already losing my weight but not to bothered about doing it before I am preggers.

I am already taking folic acid and have been doing for about 3 months? Lol.

I've told him and I've got upset and he doesnt like me getting upset and it makes him a bit angry if that makes sense? It wont make any difference. I have done well getting him to agree about decemeber... he suggested december and there is no changing it.

I know that he is just excited as me about it as he was going on about how he wants to find out the sex on sunday morning in bed and how he wants one of those 3d scan things and they are only £90... i dont even know how much they are but he seemed to!! Lol.

Im just frustrated at the moment.

I dont want to have a go at him for it and he decides he wants to put the date back?

Thanks for listening to me moan...

Just seems like an age since I was last pregnant and I just really want to be again. Its like a part of me has been missing for the last 2 years which is a feeling I know you probably totally understand?

Essay over!! Lol.

xxx

I do know the feeling, and I know that the gap won't be filled until you're pregnant again. 4 more cycles and we'll all be excited for you and following your crazy symptom spotting! Don't worry about the moaning, we all do it, and that's what we're all here for

Fuff, time isn't everything as far as relationships go. Yes it is true that some couples will be more stable and in a better "family" position if they have been together for a while, but as you know from what happened with Samuel, this is not always the case - sometimes long term relationships can fall apart, while the as yet shorter ones prove to last the distance. I hope that makes sense. What I am trying to say is that no one can really tell you what you need to do - whatever you chose to do will be the right decision for you, as you obviously have your head screwed on

Leah that's the sweetest thing ever Big hug for you, you knobber!! Thankyou so much ^_^

Go Ley, not letting her rip you off! What a cheeky little wotsit!

xx

 

[fuffyburra]

Ps. Welcome Kerrygold, and congratulations Faye!! That's fabulous news

 

[fuffyburra]

Oooohhhh nooooo what's up LH, you filthy little knobber??

 

[fuffyburra]

Oh yeah I forgot to say, I decided last night to just leave it. I told Neill and he was like "YES!!" and got all excited hahahaha So if I'm not this month, then we're going to start being more careful and wait for a better time, and if I am then we won't need to be careful So either way there were elements of right and wrong, if that makes sense? No matter what happens it'll all be fie ^_^ Thanks for all your support xx

 

[Ley]

evening all, just got back from hossy, strapped to my little monitor thingy. It's quite cute actually, it's only a fraction of the size of the last one and I get to take it off every day to have a shower and give my skin a rest.
Hoping this one won't be too bad then.

How is everyone else??

 

[Ley]

and has anyone heard from danielle??
I'm getting a bit worried about her now.

 

[lovehearts]

She said she wud put picson facebook but nothing yet,i hope everything ok,probably waiting until she is home.I hope she's ok xx

 

[mushmouth]

Girls I've updated her journal xxx

 

[lovehearts]

Thank you mush x

 

[KerryGold]

Bah! As of last night my boobs started hurting too. I can't bear this. I know the odds are it's all in my head but I need some brain space for work!

Planning to take the other test tomorrow morning if still no AF. Have started wondering if the weird pain a week ago could just have been a late ov?

 

[4magpies]

Morning girls....

Such bad AF pains this month doped up on painkillers...

Had an awful night last night... phillip decided to "test" me by starting an argument and then trying to tell me I wasnt ready to get pregnant... which entailed into me bursting into tears and being heartbroken and him going "im sorry I was only testing you to see if you really were ready". What an eejit. Was nearly sick I was that upset!!

Bloody fool.

Then went on to tell me how he always tells all the lads at work how much of a good mum I will be.

Blagging my head or what?!

xxx

 

[mushmouth]

Oooh what a meanie!!!! Men are arses sometimes I swear! They really don't realise how their little games affect us! What a meanie! I think he's getting closer mags!


Fx KG! How late are you?

 

[Smile181c]

What is wrong with men?! There is literally no logic in what he did! How was he testing you? lol

Bloody fool indeed

Kerry, your symptoms are sounding good! xx

 

[Ley]

mags

sorry you seem to be having a rough time lately. That was a pretty nasty thing for him to do.
Bob used to do horrible thingss like agree to start ttc if I gave him some sort of sexual favour, then after I had done it he would change his mind. He also set dates all the time and when they approached he would push the goalposts away.
In the end I explained to him that everytime he did something like this it got my hopes up and smashed them all over again and I couldn't deal with it because I wanted it so much. He stopped doing it after that.

Can you maybe talk to him about how it makes you feel when he does and says things like this?
really hope you are ok hunnie xxx



In other news, 6 years ago today I got a text message from a 17 year old Bobby asking me to be his girlfriend lol.
How time flies.

 

[4magpies]

I guess he just wanted to see if I was that bothered about it and I obviously am!!

I told him those exact things and how it made me feel. I think he understands a bit more now.

I think he realised how much it does actually mean to me last night.

I feel like he is more on board so it was worth it in a way?

xxx