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I agree with mush we are emotionally attached to u and we are all for babies lol.

Let us know what you decide though Hun.

My word is plob,it's s mixture of plonker and nob :rofl:

My Tuesday was ok, glad to be home. Just about to do a big pile of washing up booooo xx
 
morning everyone, need some advice

the woman who I bought the sofas off also sold me some bunk beds, they were almost new and she only wanted £30 for them plus £10 delivery. So I did a bank transfer of the £40 just like I did the money for the sofa. I sent it to exactly the same account and everything.
This was on Monday. It's now Wednesday and she swears it hasn't gone in to her account yet. It only takes 2 hours for the money to transfer and I have proof that it left my account on it's way to hers. When I told her yesterday I was going to contact my bank she instantly replied saying that she had already contacted her and they said the payment would be in by mid day (this was yesterday), she said she would contact me at mid day to let me know either way.
Well I ended up messaging her at 9pm last night as she hadn't let me know and she still says it isn't in.
I don't know what to do. It's my word against hers that I paid the money out. I'm going to contact the bank when they open but I'm pretty sure all they will be able to do is tell me that the money went out of my account. I don't think they will be able to tell me if it's reached her or not.

tbh, I think she's having me on, I think delivery of the sofas cost her more than she was expecting so she made up the bunk beds thing to get some of her money back and now she's saying that she hasn't got it.

what do you think I should do?
 
Ooo that's a tough one hun...Bank transfers are pretty reliable, if the money has left your account it has to have gone somewhere it can't just be floating around the ether! I'd give your bank a call and if they won't tell you where the money has gone kick up a fuss cause you're now £40 short!

If that lady is lying she's got some nerve as well! Once you've spoke to your bank (providing they tell you where the money is) call her back and demand to see a bank statement or something to prove the money isn't there?

Sorry i wasn't much help! :hugs:
 
fuffyburra said:
Awww Becca does he know how upset it's making you? Like with the complications you might face, etc? Maybe if you just talk to him about it and show him how upset and/or scared you are about it, he'll agree to start a little earlier? Sorry I'm no use :( Any big things you need to sort out before December? Obviously there's the house, and you'll need to start taking folic acid and doing stuff like that before long. A lot of people want to lose weight or accomplish something at work before they start TTC, if you know what I mean? After I had my MC I set myself a loooaaaad of goals to achieve, because I honestly didn't know how else I'd get through the waiting :(

And 'til then, we'll be here for hugs and laughs, and Mush will always be around to call you a knobber :P :hugs: xx
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Well I'm already losing my weight but not to bothered about doing it before I am preggers.

I am already taking folic acid and have been doing for about 3 months? Lol.

I've told him and I've got upset and he doesnt like me getting upset and it makes him a bit angry if that makes sense? It wont make any difference. I have done well getting him to agree about decemeber... he suggested december and there is no changing it.

I know that he is just excited as me about it as he was going on about how he wants to find out the sex on sunday morning in bed and how he wants one of those 3d scan things and they are only £90... i dont even know how much they are but he seemed to!! Lol.

Im just frustrated at the moment.

I dont want to have a go at him for it and he decides he wants to put the date back?

Thanks for listening to me moan...

Just seems like an age since I was last pregnant and I just really want to be again. Its like a part of me has been missing for the last 2 years which is a feeling I know you probably totally understand?

Essay over!! Lol.

xxx
 
i would contact your bank ley - they should be able to tell if the payment has reached the destination and also confirm the bank account you sent it to etc. I cant understand why she would be doing this!! I would contact your bank and then contact her to tell her what you have done. She will probably confirm that the money has hit her bank as soon as you mention your bank!!! sum people grrrr!! I hope you get it sorted hun.

:hugs: mags - i dont know what to say. December is only around the corner although im sure you feel like its a lifetime away yet. It will be here in no time at all.

xxxxxxx
 
I agree with LH (as always) give your bank a call, and if you have internet banking, maybe even send the woman a screen shot showing her it left yours, to hers (blurring out EVERYTHING else) and let her know... does sound rather odd if she got your sofa payment nice and easily....

Mags :hugs: December really isnt too far away, but I know every month is too long. I can only tell you what I did and that was write it all down in a letter and let him read it. we didnt discuss it after that... but here we are...
 
I called the bank, they said it should have entered her account at 2:47pm on Monday afternoon. So they are going to investigate it and contact her bank etc and get back to me by the end of the day.
I've sent her a message telling her all of this so we will see if the money miraculously appears in her account.

prob won't be on much today as I have loads to do and have a hospital appointment to get my 7 day heart trace fitted this afternoon.

Hope everyone is ok xxx

big :hugs: mags xxx
 
It 4 more cycles after this one... which I know isnt that long but I know I am going to be hoping I am preg every cycle and I am not going to be. Its like I love torturing myself. I would go on the pill till december if I knew I didnt hate it so much and it wouldnt mess my cycles up and there is no chance of him using condoms so I'm just gonna have to carry on like I am.

xxx
 
hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

look what I just got

Tracey Louise Dean 21 July at 09:32 Report
hi had a look this morning it is there so bunk beds r bein sent with sofa
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Glad things are sorted Ley - good for you for standing your ground and not letting her get one over on you!

Fuff, time isn't everything as far as relationships go. Yes it is true that some couples will be more stable and in a better "family" position if they have been together for a while, but as you know from what happened with Samuel, this is not always the case - sometimes long term relationships can fall apart, while the as yet shorter ones prove to last the distance. I hope that makes sense. What I am trying to say is that no one can really tell you what you need to do - whatever you chose to do will be the right decision for you, as you obviously have your head screwed on :hugs:

Mags - sorry you are feeling naffed off with the waiting. I can't begin to understand what it must be like having to wait after almost having had it before with your previous pregnancy. I get the emptiness too - at the moment I feel like I'm not quite complete, but I guess it must be tenfold for you :hugs:

While I am at it, hugs all round nobbers!! :hugs: xx
 
Just seen your signature...

Can I be miss EDD september in LLGP's calendar?

xxx
 
I was actually hoping you'd have a little accident end of next month and be Miss May :winkwink: xx
 
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