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I am champion when it comes to whinging about my ex and I know a lot of you will agree you also like to do a bit of moaning so thought I'd start a thread especially for that. So, rant away!
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I'll start 
My ex is the worst person I've ever met. Period. He honestly is the biggest worthless piece of shit walking the fact of this earth.
Not only is he completely mean, loves to play mind games, insanely jealous, takes over your entire life, makes you feel guilty, makes you feel like crap for trying to leave him, completely controlling, can't clean up after himself, can't respect anyone, pathalogical liar, made up a completely different life, was a drug addict and hid it from me for a year, uses people for his own benefit and ditches them when they are no good to him anymore, can't keep a job, lies to employers about what qualifications he has, money obsessed, selfish spoiled brat...
he COMPLETELY tried to talk me into having a baby, I didn't want to because I was in school which he completely disregarded, ended up pregnant anyway, tried to convince me to get an abortion, when I reminded him he told me for close to a year that he wanted a baby he goes "people say things they don't mean", completely mentally abused me when I was pregnant, accused me of cheating on him WHEN I was pregnant, expected me to do everything for him when I was puking my guts up, accused me of trying to be "too" pregnant, told me I wasn't really sick when I was in first tri because I was only gagging instead of actually throwing up, told me I was going to be a whale...so I finally leave him. He HAS NOT been in contact with me or answered any phone calls SINCE HE FOUND OUT SHE WAS A GIRL. How friggen pathetic is that?! Since JULY I have not heard from him. I e-mailed him, left him voicemails when she was born and he DID NOT RESPOND.
WHO THE FUCK DOES THAT?!?!?!
Rant over.
My ex is the worst person I've ever met. Period. He honestly is the biggest worthless piece of shit walking the fact of this earth.
Not only is he completely mean, loves to play mind games, insanely jealous, takes over your entire life, makes you feel guilty, makes you feel like crap for trying to leave him, completely controlling, can't clean up after himself, can't respect anyone, pathalogical liar, made up a completely different life, was a drug addict and hid it from me for a year, uses people for his own benefit and ditches them when they are no good to him anymore, can't keep a job, lies to employers about what qualifications he has, money obsessed, selfish spoiled brat...
he COMPLETELY tried to talk me into having a baby, I didn't want to because I was in school which he completely disregarded, ended up pregnant anyway, tried to convince me to get an abortion, when I reminded him he told me for close to a year that he wanted a baby he goes "people say things they don't mean", completely mentally abused me when I was pregnant, accused me of cheating on him WHEN I was pregnant, expected me to do everything for him when I was puking my guts up, accused me of trying to be "too" pregnant, told me I wasn't really sick when I was in first tri because I was only gagging instead of actually throwing up, told me I was going to be a whale...so I finally leave him. He HAS NOT been in contact with me or answered any phone calls SINCE HE FOUND OUT SHE WAS A GIRL. How friggen pathetic is that?! Since JULY I have not heard from him. I e-mailed him, left him voicemails when she was born and he DID NOT RESPOND.
WHO THE FUCK DOES THAT?!?!?!
Rant over.
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What a great idea! I could go on allday about the waste of space Mr. I cant keep my d*** in my trousers but im in a good mood 
and i wont let him ruin it!
and i wont let him ruin it!
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Well I'll have a rant although you probably know all about him by now!
So my ex was a lovely when I met him and was always going on how he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and have kids. Then I got pregnant and he played the whole, oh I'll be there for you both forever bullshit. And I, blinded by love (ha!) believed him. Then he started to change. I had Grace after a few months of him being iffy with me. And it all went downhill from there. He would call me nasty names, be sarcastic whenever I said anything, he wouldn't sleep with me, wouldn't show me any kind of affection. He NEVER ONCE did a night feed or get up when she was waking up 6/7 times a night and I was getting 3 hours broken sleep, one time I went out with my friends for a break and when I came home he moved her crib to my side of the bed and went to sleep. He never bathed her or fed her when she started weaning and rarely bottle fed her or changed her. Then in about November I had enough and kept telling me to stop treating me like shit. He said he would. He didn't. So we split up in december. And he's been a dick ever since. He has taken loads of her things because 'he bought them' things like her clothes, toys and high chair. He never calls to see how she is in the week, he is planning on going back to uni when he can't even afford things now with a £24,000 a year job. And to top it all off, those gay 'experiences' he had when he was younger apparently never went away and he has always known he was gay and neglected to tell me this until he had a baby with me and gave her his surname and then he buggered off to have his own little life that he wanted to have before I had Grace but gets to see her when HE wants at weekends so gets the best of both worlds and still has the CHEEK to tell me things like 'But I work really hard.' and 'don't forget to bath her every night.'
PRICK
So my ex was a lovely when I met him and was always going on how he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and have kids. Then I got pregnant and he played the whole, oh I'll be there for you both forever bullshit. And I, blinded by love (ha!) believed him. Then he started to change. I had Grace after a few months of him being iffy with me. And it all went downhill from there. He would call me nasty names, be sarcastic whenever I said anything, he wouldn't sleep with me, wouldn't show me any kind of affection. He NEVER ONCE did a night feed or get up when she was waking up 6/7 times a night and I was getting 3 hours broken sleep, one time I went out with my friends for a break and when I came home he moved her crib to my side of the bed and went to sleep. He never bathed her or fed her when she started weaning and rarely bottle fed her or changed her. Then in about November I had enough and kept telling me to stop treating me like shit. He said he would. He didn't. So we split up in december. And he's been a dick ever since. He has taken loads of her things because 'he bought them' things like her clothes, toys and high chair. He never calls to see how she is in the week, he is planning on going back to uni when he can't even afford things now with a £24,000 a year job. And to top it all off, those gay 'experiences' he had when he was younger apparently never went away and he has always known he was gay and neglected to tell me this until he had a baby with me and gave her his surname and then he buggered off to have his own little life that he wanted to have before I had Grace but gets to see her when HE wants at weekends so gets the best of both worlds and still has the CHEEK to tell me things like 'But I work really hard.' and 'don't forget to bath her every night.'
PRICK
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OMG what a great thread, thanks bexy hun 
My ex is VERY confusing. And thats the hurtful thing really. Hes all nice to me one day etc, then doesnt talk to me much the next. He was up last night for dinner etc, we got on great, felt good. Then normally i'll get up about 9, log on computer and we'll speak etc, but this morning i felt as if i deserved a long lie, so about half 10, i heard my mobile ring and it was him, first thing he said was "YOU OK" he siad he thought there was something wrong as i hadnt been on, he hasnt phoned me in morning in such a long time so this morning was a nice surprise. So i eventually got my ass online and he said he was going to take a engine out a car and he'd talk to me later which was kool, i spoke to him briefly at 2oclock, then ever since then we've not spoke, hes offline on his msn (which is un-usual) as his computer is on 24/7, i then tried to phone him, got no answer, so i have blocked him on the computer and im not going to phone him or text him!!
I just want the man i met back, the man who would do anything for me, who would fight for me, now he doesnt care, hes prob shacked up in bed with his ex girlfriend (TART) Sorry for the long rant, just feeling REALLY low today. x
My ex is VERY confusing. And thats the hurtful thing really. Hes all nice to me one day etc, then doesnt talk to me much the next. He was up last night for dinner etc, we got on great, felt good. Then normally i'll get up about 9, log on computer and we'll speak etc, but this morning i felt as if i deserved a long lie, so about half 10, i heard my mobile ring and it was him, first thing he said was "YOU OK" he siad he thought there was something wrong as i hadnt been on, he hasnt phoned me in morning in such a long time so this morning was a nice surprise. So i eventually got my ass online and he said he was going to take a engine out a car and he'd talk to me later which was kool, i spoke to him briefly at 2oclock, then ever since then we've not spoke, hes offline on his msn (which is un-usual) as his computer is on 24/7, i then tried to phone him, got no answer, so i have blocked him on the computer and im not going to phone him or text him!!
I just want the man i met back, the man who would do anything for me, who would fight for me, now he doesnt care, hes prob shacked up in bed with his ex girlfriend (TART) Sorry for the long rant, just feeling REALLY low today. x
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My ex and I were best friends for 6 years before we eloped in Nov '07. I got pregnant on our honeymoon, but m/c in January due to an accident at work (I fell off a 4-wheeler while loading it onto the back of a pickup truck when the loading ramp broke in half) we were both devestated and talked about trying for another one. We waited until I'd gone treeplanting for a couple months to get healthy again, then got pregnant again in July. Our marraige wasn't all roses, but we're both argumentative people so we expected that.
He'd stopped drinking until about August this past summer, when I started finding bottles hidden behind the couch and in the computer desk drawer. He also started taking caffeine pills, drinking 3-4 energy drinks and several coffees a day. He got a second job "to save for the baby" but it was really to sleep with his coworker. Then I find out that he gets drunk at my father's 50th birthday party and tells a bunch of my brother's friends that he's probably going to leave me (I heard about this after he left).
Then one day, he comes home and tells me - without a speck of emotion - that he's just not interested in being a father or husband anymore and packs his bags. He signed an agreement that he would never contact us again if I never claimed child support with a sigh of relief, the *******. And he wonders why I threw a candleholder at his head. I'm actually more upset that I broke that candle holder.. it was my favourite one!
Just when I thought he couldn't ruin my life any more, I find out at my last appointment that he's given me HPV as well. No doubt it was passed along from his new girlfriend. Well, I'm lucky that's all he gave me and not something that could hurt the baby (like aids or herpes or something) At least I've got a treatable version of it. It's like every time I turn around, he's done something else to slow me down or stop me.
I'll just keep my fingers crossed that he gets hit by a bus.
He'd stopped drinking until about August this past summer, when I started finding bottles hidden behind the couch and in the computer desk drawer. He also started taking caffeine pills, drinking 3-4 energy drinks and several coffees a day. He got a second job "to save for the baby" but it was really to sleep with his coworker. Then I find out that he gets drunk at my father's 50th birthday party and tells a bunch of my brother's friends that he's probably going to leave me (I heard about this after he left).
Then one day, he comes home and tells me - without a speck of emotion - that he's just not interested in being a father or husband anymore and packs his bags. He signed an agreement that he would never contact us again if I never claimed child support with a sigh of relief, the *******. And he wonders why I threw a candleholder at his head. I'm actually more upset that I broke that candle holder.. it was my favourite one!
Just when I thought he couldn't ruin my life any more, I find out at my last appointment that he's given me HPV as well. No doubt it was passed along from his new girlfriend. Well, I'm lucky that's all he gave me and not something that could hurt the baby (like aids or herpes or something) At least I've got a treatable version of it. It's like every time I turn around, he's done something else to slow me down or stop me.
I'll just keep my fingers crossed that he gets hit by a bus.
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LOL love this thread 
My Ex, wow he is really just a very silly, very pathetic little man. His sperm is the thing im greatful for in our entire relationship, and everynight i was gagging and cringing feeling him breathing down my neck and humping my legs is completly worth just one second of being around our beautiful daughter
The Second best thing he's done for us is keep himself and his crazy-ass family away from her and give her the oppurtunity to thrive and not be exposed to his negative influences.
So its not so much a rant as im actually really pleased he's stayed away, especially seeing the young girl he's humping now!
My Ex, wow he is really just a very silly, very pathetic little man. His sperm is the thing im greatful for in our entire relationship, and everynight i was gagging and cringing feeling him breathing down my neck and humping my legs is completly worth just one second of being around our beautiful daughter
The Second best thing he's done for us is keep himself and his crazy-ass family away from her and give her the oppurtunity to thrive and not be exposed to his negative influences.
So its not so much a rant as im actually really pleased he's stayed away, especially seeing the young girl he's humping now!
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Oh Donna its great stress relief
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loving this thread! well my ex is a stupid ass as youd expect in this thread lol. ive known him for 6 years but got together almost 3 years ago. i was pregnant once before my lo now and as we had only just got together was convinced the right thing to do was have an abortion, i was very upset for a long time and he didnt really get over that as he complained i was miserable for a whole year (ass) but he promised me it wouldnt happen again. obviously it did and he said we can do this and everything was fine until i was 3 months where he started shouting at me to et rid of the baby. i left him because of the verbal abuse. anyway he then decided it was all my fault and he didnt want to be a father, got himself a fiance and has never looked back. no contact since june last year, absolutely nothing apart from a few threatening texts emails after his family found out as he wasnt planning on telling them. his loss! x
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Oh i'm loving this thread, think some people know my situation i wasn't acually with the father we were on off for a year then it comes out his beenw ith his ex who his got a baby with already the whole time even though he says everytime we were together he wasnt with her, yeah right and now he doesnt wanna no i havent seen him since that night, his with her, i dont wanna be with him and i think he cant understand that!!
But i am in quite a good mood so i cant rand too much either, but loving this!!! xxx
But i am in quite a good mood so i cant rand too much either, but loving this!!! xxx
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LOL love this thread
My Ex, wow he is really just a very silly, very pathetic little man. His sperm is the thing im greatful for in our entire relationship, and everynight i was gagging and cringing feeling him breathing down my neck and humping my legs is completly worth just one second of being around our beautiful daughter
The Second best thing he's done for us is keep himself and his crazy-ass family away from her and give her the oppurtunity to thrive and not be exposed to his negative influences.
So its not so much a rant as im actually really pleased he's stayed away, especially seeing the young girl he's humping now!
Yeah, chatting today with my cousin (who's ex kidnapped her son once already) I started to appreciate my situation even more. I'm looking forward to raising a little person by myself, extra work aside. I don't have to consult anyone on how to raise her. What I say goes, lol. It's kind of a comforting feeling. Money I can get anywhere - I just want him GONE. (but as I've said before, I wouldn't be opposed to him falling under a bus too
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Don't take this the wrong way, as im not laughing at your situations - some of them sound really bad, but this thread has had me giggling so much because of the words you use - "twat, pathetic little man" etc.
Great idea for a thread lol
Great idea for a thread lol
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LOL love this thread
My Ex, wow he is really just a very silly, very pathetic little man. His sperm is the thing im greatful for in our entire relationship, and everynight i was gagging and cringing feeling him breathing down my neck and humping my legs is completly worth just one second of being around our beautiful daughter
The Second best thing he's done for us is keep himself and his crazy-ass family away from her and give her the oppurtunity to thrive and not be exposed to his negative influences.
So its not so much a rant as im actually really pleased he's stayed away, especially seeing the young girl he's humping now!
Yeah, chatting today with my cousin (who's ex kidnapped her son once already) I started to appreciate my situation even more. I'm looking forward to raising a little person by myself, extra work aside. I don't have to consult anyone on how to raise her. What I say goes, lol. It's kind of a comforting feeling. Money I can get anywhere - I just want him GONE. (but as I've said before, I wouldn't be opposed to him falling under a bus too
It is isnt it, when i think of all the cr*p he and his other ex put his 5yr old daughter through, it makes me so glad he's staying away from Emily.
She's so clever and so advanced for her age, talking scholarship clever by the sounds of what our health visitor has said. The last thing she needs is her donar messing it all up...
Well over my dead body anyway, I'll move back to Kent if he tries to get access to her.
I wouldnt want myex to go under a bus, i'd feel awful for the poor bus driver! although if he wants to set himself on fire again... lol
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ooo, its good to finally have somewhere to rant about these perthetic excuses of men. 
Well this is my story... I was 18 when i met my ex, a silly alcohol minded, free spirited 18 yr old. We were really only sex buddies if im honest, i then found out he was married 
but tbh that didnt bother me at the time.
well until i fell in love with him
well although it wasnt an ideal relationship, i was fickle and settled for it. But even with this situation, he was lovely, the best boyfriend this whole world could ask for, he always included me, i knew his family and friends (i guess his wife was the only one who didnt know)(well i think she did).
i saw him every evening with out fail and even spent time with his children
but after a year or so, it turned nasty, we'd argue, fight and make up.. that became the norm!
well after 2 yrs of being together i fell pregnant, unitentionally but i cant say i wasnt happy. And so was he. But once i was pregnant all feelings i had for him just disappeared, i made any excuse not to see him, i just couldnt bare to be in his company..
i also new that our situation was no situation to bring up a baby. So i ended our relationship, and told him there was no reason to talk through the pregnancy and i contct him when i had lexi or if i needed to b4 then.
He agreed...
but then started getting nasty.. when i ignored him, he started with the threats, saying hed have me beaten up so there would be no baby
among others.
i contacted him once id had lexi and he came to the hospital to visit, which was very awkward...
he visited 2 when i returned home, the second he was pissed as a fart and acting a complete and utter twat face so i told him politely to "fuck off and come back when he can be arsed with his child"...
weve not seen him since.. and Lexi is nearly 18 months old.
he says hello now n again on msn but it always ends up in a slanging match.
his best one is his recent message, asking if i have a new boyfriend...
i said "what has it to do with you"
his reply..... "i have a right to know whos in my daughters life"
wtf.... what a nob head!!!!
well thats my story in short....
Well this is my story... I was 18 when i met my ex, a silly alcohol minded, free spirited 18 yr old
. We were really only sex buddies if im honest, i then found out he was married but tbh that didnt bother me at the time.well until i fell in love with him
well although it wasnt an ideal relationship, i was fickle and settled for it. But even with this situation, he was lovely, the best boyfriend this whole world could ask for, he always included me, i knew his family and friends (i guess his wife was the only one who didnt know)(well i think she did).
i saw him every evening with out fail and even spent time with his children
but after a year or so, it turned nasty, we'd argue, fight and make up.. that became the norm!
well after 2 yrs of being together i fell pregnant, unitentionally but i cant say i wasnt happy. And so was he. But once i was pregnant all feelings i had for him just disappeared, i made any excuse not to see him, i just couldnt bare to be in his company..
i also new that our situation was no situation to bring up a baby. So i ended our relationship, and told him there was no reason to talk through the pregnancy and i contct him when i had lexi or if i needed to b4 then.
He agreed...
but then started getting nasty.. when i ignored him, he started with the threats, saying hed have me beaten up so there would be no baby
among others.
i contacted him once id had lexi and he came to the hospital to visit, which was very awkward...
he visited 2 when i returned home, the second he was pissed as a fart and acting a complete and utter twat face so i told him politely to "fuck off and come back when he can be arsed with his child"...
weve not seen him since.. and Lexi is nearly 18 months old.
he says hello now n again on msn but it always ends up in a slanging match.
his best one is his recent message, asking if i have a new boyfriend...
i said "what has it to do with you"
his reply..... "i have a right to know whos in my daughters life"
wtf.... what a nob head!!!!
well thats my story in short....
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WTF is wrong with these guys brains!? What a bunch of winners
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wow Lexi's mummy! that's a story and a half lol
My ex just uses the "i hate you so much that i couldnt be around you so i cant see her" line...
His loss at the end of the day, his family must be so proud of him lol!! although to be fair, his big sister seems to be the only one with remotley any sense!
I have his new girlfriend as a friend on facebook, but havent spoken to her, or my ex really.
He made me PMSL once, when i tried to get in touch with him asking if we can sort out child support, "you only ever contact me when you want money" LOL No sh*t sherlock, you dont want to see your daughter so im not going to invite you round for a tea party am i!?!?!?!
My ex just uses the "i hate you so much that i couldnt be around you so i cant see her" line...
His loss at the end of the day, his family must be so proud of him lol!! although to be fair, his big sister seems to be the only one with remotley any sense!
I have his new girlfriend as a friend on facebook, but havent spoken to her, or my ex really.
He made me PMSL once, when i tried to get in touch with him asking if we can sort out child support, "you only ever contact me when you want money" LOL No sh*t sherlock, you dont want to see your daughter so im not going to invite you round for a tea party am i!?!?!?!
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Wow there are so many of them out there, i think they should all be shopped and sent to an island of there own to think of there actions but never let off of it!! xxx
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