Id just like to add, i mean no offence to you with the internet boyfriend thing Eliese. I disliked this bloke before she even met him, lol. He used to speak to her kids on the net all the time as well as her and hes just plain creepy. SHes got twin girls who are 12 and a son who is 8, and i just dont understand how she could move a complete stranger into their house, knowing nothing about him.
No problem with people meeting and falling in love however they do it, but when you have children i think its your responsibility to put them first...thats what im trying to say i think, lol.