scaredmum2be
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i miscarried on the 5th september i was always checking myself as people do with there first and as i got to the 3 months stage i was in agony for 3 days and sadly miscarried.
Now 2 months down the line im about 10 weeks now that ive worked out and totally crapping myself ( scuse my language) im checking myself constantly even though i get morning sickness which i never had with the first.
Im so scared i dont want to love this baby. I wanted the first baby so much we had it planned but with this one it was a shock and scared and thought it was to soon. I cannot however have an abortion because i dont believe in it.
will i learn to love this baby?
with the first baby i didnt get to have a scan at all but grew fond and loved my baby
with this one its totally different is this normal?
what if i dont ever love the baby will it all be different on the scan if i ever get to have one this time round?
you all sound like great people on this forum and i know you do well to support others.
maybe im over reacting when i say im scared but that must mean i feel something for this one? i sound well horrible dont i x
Now 2 months down the line im about 10 weeks now that ive worked out and totally crapping myself ( scuse my language) im checking myself constantly even though i get morning sickness which i never had with the first.
Im so scared i dont want to love this baby. I wanted the first baby so much we had it planned but with this one it was a shock and scared and thought it was to soon. I cannot however have an abortion because i dont believe in it.
will i learn to love this baby?
with the first baby i didnt get to have a scan at all but grew fond and loved my baby
with this one its totally different is this normal?
what if i dont ever love the baby will it all be different on the scan if i ever get to have one this time round?
you all sound like great people on this forum and i know you do well to support others.
maybe im over reacting when i say im scared but that must mean i feel something for this one? i sound well horrible dont i x