There is hope after miscarriage

[shirlls]

I hope this post doesn't appear insensitive. My intention in writing it is to give you hope and inspiration that there is hope after miscarriage, or several miscarriages.

In my darkest days after my 2 mcs last year, I had moments where I doubted I would ever be a mum and have a successful pregnancy, and I felt terrified of trying again in case the same thing happened again, or worse, that I'd lose the baby further into the pregnancy next time.

I found out I was pregnant for the third time in December and after a very long, tentative and stressful 9 months, (and 2 previous miscarriages for which there has never been an explanation for 'just one of these things' the doctors said), I gave birth to my little boy on 26th August

Of course, I'll never forget the 2 babies that I lost, however I just wanted to share my story with you and show you that there IS hope after miscarriage and you can go on to have a successful pregnancy in the future.

x

 

[bazzb]

thank you! that gives me hope!
Congrats on the birth of your boy

 

[robinson380]

great story Thanks for sharing and congrats on your new baby boy

 

[bazzb]

congrats robinson on being pregnant again

I had a MMC as well so you just gave me hope also

 

[jubilee]

it gives me hope x

 

[OliveLove]

I love stories like these.. at which weeks did you lose your angels, if I may ask?

 

[bazzb]

for me the baby measured at 6 week 4 days with no HB and I was supposed to be 11 week 3 daYS

 

[bazzb]

AND a big congrats on your pregnancy

 

[OliveLove]

for me the baby measured at 6 week 4 days with no HB and I was supposed to be 11 week 3 daYS

OMG, thats almost EXACTLY like me! I went for a scan at 11.4 and the baby was measuring a little over 6 weeks.

And thank you so much for the congratulations I hope this one will stick. I'm getting my second beta test tomorrow, so I'm hoping the number doubles! It was only 139 at 15 DPO, so I'm praying it's going to be ok.

 

[bazzb]

I will keep you in my prayers
When I had my HCG taken at 6 weeks 2 days it was 34,000 so i dont really know what happened in my case

 

[bazzb]

I should also add that at 6 week 3 days I saw a baby and a HB of 120

 

[shirlls]

I love stories like these.. at which weeks did you lose your angels, if I may ask?

I lost both mine at just over 6 weeks both times.

x

 

[robinson380]

I love stories like these.. at which weeks did you lose your angels, if I may ask?

I found out 1 day before my 12 week appt that baby stopped growing at 9w4d.

 

[OliveLove]

I love stories like these.. at which weeks did you lose your angels, if I may ask?

I found out 1 day before my 12 week appt that baby stopped growing at 9w4d.

That's horrible.. you think you're safe because you almost hit the 12 week mark..and surprise! That's what happened to me and I don't wish a MMC on anyone. Or even normal miscarriage, of course. I'd rather not get pregnant at all!

 

[bazzb]

good luck with this pregnancy olive XX

 

[runnergrl]

I love stories like these.. at which weeks did you lose your angels, if I may ask?

I found out 1 day before my 12 week appt that baby stopped growing at 9w4d.

That's horrible.. you think you're safe because you almost hit the 12 week mark..and surprise! That's what happened to me and I don't wish a MMC on anyone. Or even normal miscarriage, of course. I'd rather not get pregnant at all!

I agree with you 100%! I would much rather still be TTC than to have lost my baby (in my case at 11+4) two days before my 12 week scan. at 8 weeks baby was measuring perfect and had a HB of 150....

 

[OliveLove]

I love stories like these.. at which weeks did you lose your angels, if I may ask?

I found out 1 day before my 12 week appt that baby stopped growing at 9w4d.

That's horrible.. you think you're safe because you almost hit the 12 week mark..and surprise! That's what happened to me and I don't wish a MMC on anyone. Or even normal miscarriage, of course. I'd rather not get pregnant at all!

I agree with you 100%! I would much rather still be TTC than to have lost my baby (in my case at 11+4) two days before my 12 week scan. at 8 weeks baby was measuring perfect and had a HB of 150....