Think i fall into this cat???

[Jo79]

Hi everyone not sure if im in right place as not really sure i want anymore children!!!

I have 2 aged 9 and 4, this may sound selfish but i have always longed for a little boy and i have 2 girls, i cant decide wether to go for it one more time or to just stop now?

My oh isnt dad to my eldest (altho he treats her the same) and hes said he would like 2 biological kids but hes not ready and im worried as im 30 next yr (i know not that old) and my eldest will be 10 so its a big gap

Sorry for waffle but thats me! xx

 

[Drazic<3]

Welcome to the forum.
Most of the girls here are just waiting for the right time to try, so i guess right now you fit in that category.
Hope you decide what you really want as soon as you can x

 

[Caroline]

Hi hun & welcome.

My eldest is 7 & youngest is 21 months & he loves doing the big brother bit.

I was wooried when we decided ttc for no 2 as I was nearly 30, but feel pg 1st time.

I was older again when I conceived our 2nd lil girl & we hope to ttc this yr when I'll be older again may not happen quite so easy but if it doesn't then so be it.

I don't think the age gap is too much of a problem. We will have 8/9 yrs betwn our eldest & youngest. Sometimes I think its easier as they understand a bit better that you still love them the same but you can't just drop everything to play, plus they quite often like to help out which is a bonus.

|Goodluck in whatever you decide to do.