Think I might be having a miscarriage

[Janesworld]

I'm having severe cramping, and just went to the bathroom and had bleeding- seemed chunky (sorry TMI). Geez, what a rollar coaster this cycle has been.

 

[tallybee]

Sorry hon hope things work out for you x

 

[Wildflower]

Yikes. Have you called your doctor?

 

[Tattoo]

Oh no! Whereabouts in your cycle are you?

 

[MommyV]

Sorry sweetie hopefully it's not true. How far along r u?

 

[Janesworld]

I'm only 15 dpo... so I don't even know if that technically counts, but it sure does to me! Called the doc, said I have to wait to have some blood work tomorrow. I can't believe it...

 

[MommyV]

If u were pg than it counts it doesn't matter how far along u r it's still a loss. Hopefullly your bloodwork will be good news.

 

[katemarie]

It definitely counts, I had an early miscarriage last month as I tested early 4/5 days before period. The cramping was a lot in my lower back and also in my stomach and felt very bloated. I did find the period was a lot heavier than normal, and very red. It also gushed out a lot during the night, when normally that is when I am at my lightest when I am lying down asleep. Not sure if that helps at all but really hope you're ok. It's gutting I know I went to doc and she didn't do a blood test as I was a few days into the bleeding and it was obvious it was a no go but it may help to have one done for your own peace of mind.

Also if it helps and I know this is a bit random, I was reading an article with Lily Allen and she said with her current pregnancy she bled for a week and a half at the beginning quite heavily, and she is doing well now and is four months preggas, so every one is different. Many women bleed around the time they are due and the cramping could be a good sign, but it's so hard to say for each individual. Take care xx

 

[loopylollipop]

take care, hope things are okay. It is possible for a pregnancy to continue with some bleeding, a relative of mine bled for 5 months -heavily too!! Fingers crossed, the bloodwork will clarify things
take care xxx

 

[Janesworld]

Thanks for all the support ladies. I don't discuss this with anyone but the people on here, so it's nice to have somewhere to come.

Bleeding isn't super heavy, but it's there. The cramping was awful, but that has slowed down too- but I also took tylenol, so I'm sure that has a lot to do with it.

Ugh... it just isn't fair. Last week, after my negative blood test, I was really upset. But after a couple days, I had accepted it and was geared up for my next cycle. Then I get a positive, was over the moon, now we're back to this.

Does anyone know if it would be worth my time to take another HPT? Would that tell me anything at this point?

I think I'm going to have a big, fat, fricken cigarette....

 

[Braven05]

Awww I'm so sorry to hear this....you must be so upset

 

[MommyV]

You might be able to tell from a test a darker positive may mean your hcg levels r going up a faint positive may mean they're going down. But I don't know how accurate that would really be. So sorry for the confusion hopefully u will know what is going on for sure very soon.

 

[croydongirl]

Another test might tell you something, if it's been a couple of days and you test at the same time you should get a darker line but that's not 100% and might make you worry more if its lighter. Thinking of you at this scary time. I have lost 2 pregnancies this year and am trying to be hopeful that we'll have one that sticks but every cramp feels so scary and familiar it is hard to think I will ever have a pregnancy stick.

 

[Janesworld]

Another test might tell you something, if it's been a couple of days and you test at the same time you should get a darker line but that's not 100% and might make you worry more if its lighter. Thinking of you at this scary time. I have lost 2 pregnancies this year and am trying to be hopeful that we'll have one that sticks but every cramp feels so scary and familiar it is hard to think I will ever have a pregnancy stick.

So sorry to hear that. How long have you been trying?


Took the test. Pretty much negative....

So I guess this puts me at CD1... Now I just wish I wouldn't have opened my big mouth to the few people I already told. I don't even want to talk about it....

 

[bunnie2]

i feel for you, i miscarried on Saturday evening and i know how hard it is

 

[croydongirl]

So sorry.
We got pregnant on accident in February that ended at 6w and then started trying last month when we got a BFP - we couldn't believe it happened so fast but then that ended at 5w, only a few days late for AF.
I never thought early pregnancy would be so scary and full of anxiety. I am trying to trust in God knwing there is nothing I can actually DO anyway but it's hard.

Give yourself some time to grieve and know that your OH may experience this loss differently from you. Our first m/c was tough for hubby and me because I was so very sad and he just didn't seem to get it. Our second one we were both so invested in we grieved together and it was such a different process. Try and have grace for each other. Thinking of you in this difficule time

 

[yumyum1979]

Big hugs to you ladies xx

 

[Janesworld]

Thanks ladies..

Bunnie- so sorry to hear of yours

Big and to all...