Lexi_jaine
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I've come over from the Teen pregnancy section (suggested by a member there)
i'm 17 and currently seriously considering giving my baby up for adoption.
I have already made an appointment at a youth health centre to talk about my options and get as much info as i can get.
I really don't think i am ready to be a mum, my other half really does want this baby, and after the initial shock of finding out i was pregnant i put on a happy face for him and pretended to him and his family that i was happy too.
I find that i can't pretend anymore, i had so many life goals and they didn't include a baby just yet.
Financially my partner and i CAN afford a baby, but emotionally, i am far from ready.
I've considered having the baby and leaving it with him and disappearing, but can't stomach the idea of leaving OH. but at the same time i don't want to break his heart by giving the baby up for adoption without his blessing either (although im not sure i legally could anyway)
I have spoken to him about my feelings, and was shocked that although he was upset he remained calm and rational about it all, but made his feelings on wanting this baby extremely clear
i know that although i can provide anything my baby will need materially, i honestly don't think i can emotionally at this time and know that there are a lot of older couples out there desperate for a baby and i may be able to give them their only chance of becoming the parents they want to be.
Adoption in Australia is a pretty rare thing these days, so theres not many people i know of who i can turn to who have made the decision to give their baby up.
sorry for rambling, just rather confused right now
i'm 17 and currently seriously considering giving my baby up for adoption.
I have already made an appointment at a youth health centre to talk about my options and get as much info as i can get.
I really don't think i am ready to be a mum, my other half really does want this baby, and after the initial shock of finding out i was pregnant i put on a happy face for him and pretended to him and his family that i was happy too.
I find that i can't pretend anymore, i had so many life goals and they didn't include a baby just yet.
Financially my partner and i CAN afford a baby, but emotionally, i am far from ready.
I've considered having the baby and leaving it with him and disappearing, but can't stomach the idea of leaving OH. but at the same time i don't want to break his heart by giving the baby up for adoption without his blessing either (although im not sure i legally could anyway)
I have spoken to him about my feelings, and was shocked that although he was upset he remained calm and rational about it all, but made his feelings on wanting this baby extremely clear
i know that although i can provide anything my baby will need materially, i honestly don't think i can emotionally at this time and know that there are a lot of older couples out there desperate for a baby and i may be able to give them their only chance of becoming the parents they want to be.
Adoption in Australia is a pretty rare thing these days, so theres not many people i know of who i can turn to who have made the decision to give their baby up.
sorry for rambling, just rather confused right now