Thinking of ex moving on, how do you feel?

[gracexxx]

grace the same thing happend to me i found out about his new girlfriend on facebook and he kept posting pics of them up looking happy together and even had the cheek to then add me as a friend claiming he wanted to see pics of our daughter but all his statuses were about waking up to her face each morning i was so hurt i couldnt take it anymore i blocked him and havent looked back since. if he wants to see pics of our daughter he can ask to see them via picture messaging. block them both you cant let them keep hurting you through the internet xx ridiculous really isnt it? pics mean nothing btw i have many pics of me and my ex looking happy but i wasnt really....if your relationship is that great you'll want to share it with eachother, not the whole world xx

Your right I know what you mean pictures can mean nothing just because their smiling on the outside doesn't mean their smiling on the inside, since I saw the pictures I haven't really stopped crying, it just makes me feel really low. Its the first time I've seen a pic of them together since blocking him. I just seem to have got myself into such a rut where I think everyones laughing at me, and I feel such a mug. But yeah I'm gonna take your advice and block his we gf as well and any friends that I have on fb just Incase I happen to come across another picture of him/them thanks x

 

[Danie1stbaby]

amazing to see how many of us women are experiencing the same thing.WOW! I am so sorry that you beautiful ladies are going through this.It really is disturbing and sad that there are so many deadbeats rather than actual men.

The best thing to remember is,we live in a world where karma is real.No good can grow or prosper out of a bad intention.Meaning,if a person has treated you like crap,they do no live a happily ever after life.Eventually they will have to face and own up to what they have done.I know it sounds crazy right now,but I promise you...eventually they will pay for it.

 

[Laura2919]

Men are just wrong when it comes to moving on. I asked FOB if he had met someone because I didn't want to look like a complete knob when someone else told me. Tbh I didn't care cos I knew I didn't want him. He lied, he was seeing someone and didn't tell me and I found out through someone else. Just that disrespect is what made me so glad he was out of my life.

Anyway, they are still together a year later but he only sees his girls at his mums house because she doesn't want them in her house. The girl is foul, vile and quite frankly a complete and utter twat but hey what can I say? She's chosen not to have my girls in her house so let's see how long it lasts now that he has to keep two parts of his life seperate. Plus she hasn't met me yet but she will. I wanna know why my kids have been shoved to the back and why she thinks its ok to make them feel so bad that they aren't welcome in her house?

She will answer my questions! Disgusting little bitch lol. They are welcome to each other but when she brings my kids into that drama then I'm game!

 

[gracexxx]

Men are just wrong when it comes to moving on. I asked FOB if he had met someone because I didn't want to look like a complete knob when someone else told me. Tbh I didn't care cos I knew I didn't want him. He lied, he was seeing someone and didn't tell me and I found out through someone else. Just that disrespect is what made me so glad he was out of my life.

Anyway, they are still together a year later but he only sees his girls at his mums house because she doesn't want them in her house. The girl is foul, vile and quite frankly a complete and utter twat but hey what can I say? She's chosen not to have my girls in her house so let's see how long it lasts now that he has to keep two parts of his life seperate. Plus she hasn't met me yet but she will. I wanna know why my kids have been shoved to the back and why she thinks its ok to make them feel so bad that they aren't welcome in her house?

She will answer my questions! Disgusting little bitch lol. They are welcome to each other but when she brings my kids into that drama then I'm game!

Wow what an absolute bitch! It sounds like jealousy to me, my dads wife was the same with me and my brothers as well. She wouldn't let us stay round her house (even though he took on half the house when they got married, so it's technically both their house) and would make our dad lie to us so we couldn't stay. When I found out all his excuses for us not being able to I stay we're lies I felt so rejected. Basically he got re-married and had 2 more kids and now has his own little family and his other kids are an inconvenience. I don't really care about it much now, I'm an adult now and can handle it. But just knowing how my dad was with me and my brothers makes me know how other kids feel when their treated like second best. I hope your girls don't feel rejected or too upset about it, just because of that vile woman. What's he doing letting her get away with saying that anyway? These men are so weak!
Peoples children should be THE most important thing in their life, and i would never put a man before my daughter. Unfortunately men seem to just be too selfish to think like that.

 

[Danie1stbaby]

OMG that is a hot mess! How could a man be with a woman...well girl..that does not want his flesh and blood around??? I could never be with a man that did not approve of my daughter.I wouldn't give such a man the time ! Men and their awful decisions~There is no way they will be happy.A year of hell later that your fob and gf have been together.Trust me,I bet it isn't all peaches and cream.He is such a loser to be with a woman that can't even accept his babies.Those babies will always be there while the women come and gmg that has pissed me off

 

[Laura2919]

The novelty of him having kids wore off pretty quickly I quess!! Makes me so mad thinking about it.. I can't wait until I catch up with her but until then I shall just bide my time!!

I'm hurt for them. I hope they don't grow up and feel rejected either. I hope he sees this as a big mistake before it is too late although I don't hold out much hope!!

 

[Dezireey]

I have absolutely no respect for people, male or female that get into a relationship and then one of them dictates to the other who they can and cannot see in their lives, this is seriosuly bad if they dont want them seeing their own kids. I speak from experience with a wonderful male friend of mine a few years ago whose ex partner got together with a man who basically said to her 'they are my kids now, they cant see their own father, I'm going to adopt them and he has to be out the picture' for a while, that tosser of a new boyfriend of hers was actually convincing her to stop her own kids from seeing their Dad, because he said so. Thankfully she saw sense in the end as he started telling her not to see her parents often aswell, so that made her wise up. But these girlfriends of FOB's saying their kids are not allowed in their house etc, makes me mad. Your kids and blood family are there for life, you can dispose of a girlfriend and get another one whenever you want. Some people are knobheads!