no drama mama
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My head's in a twist and I need somebody to talk some sense into me. lol
I haven't been on here in about 2 years, after my daughter was born and I discovered I was pregnant again. Unfortunately that pregnancy ended in a blighted ovum - it was horrible. My husband has since decided that he doesn't want another and I've been a bit devastated by that but I can't force anything on him obviously, nor would that ever cross my mind.
Fast forward to this weekend... we've been feeling very frisky and had a bit of a slip up on Sunday. Oddly enough, the sides of my boobs were sore that day and I was super HOT so I'm pretty sure that's when I ovulated, 3 days earlier than expected. Out of sheer curiosity, I did an OPK yesterday when I should have and sure enough it was negative. I'm not positive that I even did O but the symptoms did seem to indicate it.
Now... here's the weird part. Later on Sunday evening (the same day as the slipup), my friend texted me out of the blue. She's a bit of a psychic and has been spot on with predictions for some of my other friends. Anyway, in this random text, she told me that every time she thinks of me, she sees me holding a baby. She was in a drugstore, saw a pregnancy test and I came right to mind. And then she said that she absolutely positively knows that I'm going to have another child and that it feels close, like it will be soon.
Cue me freaking out - I would love to have another but like I said, DH is not keen on the idea. Of course, if he was really all that concerned, you'd think he'd be a bit careful but that's a discussion for another thread If it were to happen, I think he'd be fine but it would absolutely not be planned. So now my brain is all over the place, wondering if my friend could be right, wondering if the planets aligned to make it happen, and wondering how the hell I'm going to get through the next couple of weeks until I'm supposed to get my period. So I'm back and lurking. lol
I haven't been on here in about 2 years, after my daughter was born and I discovered I was pregnant again. Unfortunately that pregnancy ended in a blighted ovum - it was horrible. My husband has since decided that he doesn't want another and I've been a bit devastated by that but I can't force anything on him obviously, nor would that ever cross my mind.
Fast forward to this weekend... we've been feeling very frisky and had a bit of a slip up on Sunday. Oddly enough, the sides of my boobs were sore that day and I was super HOT so I'm pretty sure that's when I ovulated, 3 days earlier than expected. Out of sheer curiosity, I did an OPK yesterday when I should have and sure enough it was negative. I'm not positive that I even did O but the symptoms did seem to indicate it.
Now... here's the weird part. Later on Sunday evening (the same day as the slipup), my friend texted me out of the blue. She's a bit of a psychic and has been spot on with predictions for some of my other friends. Anyway, in this random text, she told me that every time she thinks of me, she sees me holding a baby. She was in a drugstore, saw a pregnancy test and I came right to mind. And then she said that she absolutely positively knows that I'm going to have another child and that it feels close, like it will be soon.
Cue me freaking out - I would love to have another but like I said, DH is not keen on the idea. Of course, if he was really all that concerned, you'd think he'd be a bit careful but that's a discussion for another thread If it were to happen, I think he'd be fine but it would absolutely not be planned. So now my brain is all over the place, wondering if my friend could be right, wondering if the planets aligned to make it happen, and wondering how the hell I'm going to get through the next couple of weeks until I'm supposed to get my period. So I'm back and lurking. lol