A friend of mine has 4 daughters. One from a previous relationship, one with her current husband and her husband had two from two previous relationships (lol) The oldest is almost 16. A few years ago they fought and fought to get full custody of her from her mom. Well now I know why! My friend goes out every night and leaves the three younger girls with the 16 year old. She even said to me one time "any time you want to hang out, let me know. We have a live-in babysitter now! Hahahhaaa!" NOW, she posted on her facebook that her brother had an extra plane ticket to Hawaii and how could she "not say no to going" Um how could you not say no??? Maybe because you have 4 children to take care of, not to mention leaving your husband who already works 2 jobs to take care of them?!? Their relationship is a little disfunctional already. He cheats on her, she gets all mad, he buys her jewelry, and she forgives him. I just think she's being selfish. To just pack up last minute and fly to Hawaii with your brother, leaving your 4 kids and husband behind to fend for themselves?? I could maybe see her planning a getaway somewhere to get some time away, but Hawaii??? And last minute. I don't know. The whole situation just bothers me.