Those of you that already have a child

[pinkmommy]

Are you scared of secondary infertility?

I am so worried that this is going to happen to me. I already have a DD and love her to deatha dn am so grateful for her but now that I know what it is like to LOVE someone that much and want it so badly again I am afraid it will not happen. I am only on the 4th cycle but this has been weighting on me.

Anyone else? Or am I alone in this.

 

[Mervs Mum]

I'm a little bit worried - I have a 13 yr old daughter from my first marriage but my hubby doesnt have any kids. I'm not as young as I was when we conceived Emily - I'm 33 now - so I do worry a little but we've only been trying for 2 months so I'm not getting concerned yet.

How old are you?? 4 months isn't long at all. Try not to worry.

 

[diva4180]

I get a little worried too, I have a 5 year old son and I worry that i will have trouble conceiving this time around. I was 21 when I got pregnant the first time and 22 when he was born, and now I am almost 28, not a far jump but it worries me none the less. We are only on cycle three so I'm trying not to stress about it more, but I will admit sometimes the thought sneaks into my head.

good luck, and hopefully you get a bfp soon!

 

[foreverlove]

Yes im slightly worried and I really would love a brother or sister for my daughter, but I have a niggly feeling it realy isn't going to be easy

I am very grateful for the one I have I realy am, but id still love another x

 

[pinkmommy]

I'm a little bit worried - I have a 13 yr old daughter from my first marriage but my hubby doesnt have any kids. I'm not as young as I was when we conceived Emily - I'm 33 now - so I do worry a little but we've only been trying for 2 months so I'm not getting concerned yet.

How old are you?? 4 months isn't long at all. Try not to worry.

I am 28 now and will be 29 in March, and I worry about this no stop along with worrying my sister will be prenant before me with her second and I will have to put TTC on hold (my Mom watches our chidlren and would hate for my Mom to have two babies at once) and put my fertility even more in jeopardy. I have one ovary and worry no stop this will not happen for me.

 

[angelagain]

this happened to me...me and my husband found out after our first that we can't try naturally for various reasons...so we have to have ivf ttc our second...it is really hard, i thought after having one child that you loved to bits that those feelings of broodiness would go away, but no...

 

[pinkmommy]

this happened to me...me and my husband found out after our first that we can't try naturally for various reasons...so we have to have ivf ttc our second...it is really hard, i thought after having one child that you loved to bits that those feelings of broodiness would go away, but no...

Can I ask why you are not able to hav another, do you hve a dianognsis

 

[hypnorm]

I could have sworn i replied to this but the post is not there.
i have Ewan who is 2yrs 5months. we have been trying for number 2 since he was 9 months old. so that is now 20 months of trying.
I have had blood tests and they are all normal so i suppose that rules out PCOS.
i would like to know if i am unlikely to have any more - i have very irregular cycles ranging from 21 to 70 days! but i will not go down the IVF route, i have Ewan and i am very glad that i have him.

 

[elles28]

I have a 10yr old & a 5yr old and we decided to ttc #3 about 3 yrs ago....nothing happened...I was told I had endo & was booked in to have a laparoscopy to confirm this..2 days before I was due to get it I got my BFP....15 weeks later I still cannot believe it...Good luck hope you all get your BFP soon xx