Those TTC for awhile.

[moter98]

Ok thanks faythe! Have run out of my Internet cheapie hpts! Oh no! Used an opk test a min ago and it's super postive so that will have to do for now! I know I shouldn't test so much but I'm so paranoid about losing this one again! X

I did the same thing! Tested for weeks. Now I get to hear hb and still check that almost everyday lol

 

[moter98]

Morning girls, hope everyone is well. Was thinking about going to the docs and getting time off work, I feel soooo ill! Not like vomitting but just zero energy and very fatigued. Im struggling with the 13 hour days at work I can do about 8 hours then I honestly don't know how I manage the rest. I'm weak and really tired and not sleeping well. Ahhh! X

8 hour shifts will be much more manageable for you rooster. I know the fatigue and weak feeling you're talking about. While its much better now, I'm still sleeping 10 hours a night most nights. From about week 6 to just last sat I felt so sick I only slept 1-2 hours at a time before the sickness would wake me up. My only advice is to eat often, lots of toast and crackers, and try to rest as much as possible. Hope you feel better!

 

[rooster100]

Thanks Moter! I'm not really feeling too sick yet. I hope I do as I didn't get it with my last pregnancy! Just feel like I have the flu! X

 

[sarahuk]

Most people have said boy

xx

You watch...it will be a girl now most of us think boy lol

x

 

[sarahuk]

Ok thanks faythe! Have run out of my Internet cheapie hpts! Oh no! Used an opk test a min ago and it's super postive so that will have to do for now! I know I shouldn't test so much but I'm so paranoid about losing this one again! X

Faythes advice sounds like good advice to me It wont hurt to get a doc appointment to get it on record about the pregnancy too Im not surprised that youre exhausted though. The body is going through so much at the moment that its bound to sap your energy!!

If the testing relaxes your mind then why the hell not chick. I reckon there would be trouble finding a woman thats been through a loss that doesnt go major test mode with a bfp I reckon ill be no different the next time!!

x

 

[moter98]

Thanks Moter! I'm not really feeling too sick yet. I hope I do as I didn't get it with my last pregnancy! Just feel like I have the flu! X

You might not be hoping you do in about a week lol!

 

[babytime2012]

I'm currently TTC #1 and i'm on month 7. It seems like its been so long but on the other it's like we've only been "trying" 7 times...very awkward month. What's a normal time? I've heard a year for most then I heard 18-24months for first time people TTC

 

[moter98]

With #1 it took 3 months, #2 it took a year! Good luck to you

 

[sarahuk]

I'm currently TTC #1 and i'm on month 7. It seems like its been so long but on the other it's like we've only been "trying" 7 times...very awkward month. What's a normal time? I've heard a year for most then I heard 18-24months for first time people TTC

You know...I think i no longer view it in terms of what is normal...its way too dependant on your circumstances, your health, how you bd and when etc. I always assumed it would happen within 6 months...I was well and truly wrong!

Everyone speaks about this 12 month mark but it seems the more I dig the more it seems to be the 18 to 24 month.

i hope you dont have to wait much longer

 

[sarahuk]

So am I 8dpo...or am i going to go through OV phase again...thats the question!

I give up on my body. Went to the bathroom because I felt "wet" and wondered if af was here. Loads of sticky CM, but not EWCM. So I started to panic a bit since I havent had any of my usual post OV soreness and did an opk. Its not positive...but if Id seen that opk around my usual fertile window I would have said I was a couple of days away from going positive.

But now im cramping, feels like af cramping a little, defo not OV cramping. Be typical if I get a bum cycle right after I had the HSG..it was meant to make me more fertile damnit! lol

Hows you ladies doing today?

x

 

[sarahuk]

I'm currently TTC #1 and i'm on month 7. It seems like its been so long but on the other it's like we've only been "trying" 7 times...very awkward month. What's a normal time? I've heard a year for most then I heard 18-24months for first time people TTC

Oh I forgot to mention!

Id give it about 12 months and if you havent gotten a bfp by then, then I would suggest making a doctors appointment for blood work to make sure all things are at the right levels etc. I waited way too long to do it!

x

 

[moter98]

Confusing! Opk's do get darker though when you have a bfp. For some, they can also go positive just before AF so it's hard to know what it means just going by an opk alone. So nerve racking! If you think it could possibly be ov, maybe bd just in case. Do you ever test early or wait to see if AF shows?

 

[sarahuk]

Im a sucker for testing early I have to admit. No doubt Ill go eye squinting in the morning I reckon lol. Ive had really feint lines after ov before av but I was so shocked to see such a solid line.

Ill get some naughty time in later just incase I dont feel like it will make much difference though as I have (ironically since I said I had nothing at ALL to report this cycle) started with cramping.

The joys! x

 

[moter98]

I'm holding out hope for your bfp tomorrow!

 

[Faythe]

Arms, legs, fingers, toes and eyeballs crossed!

 

[rooster100]

Just thought I was bleeding then but it was loads of white cm. my boobs feel less sore this evening which is freaking me out! I wish I could just relax about this!

 

[moter98]

The early part is awful rooster! I felt the same way. So freaked out about everything. Unfortunately time was the only cure for me. And I'm still a little paranoid! The cm though is really a good sign. That's your body preparing/making the mucous plug.

 

[moter98]

Will you get an early scan?

 

[Faythe]

My boobs were sore and then not sore some days too. So don't fret honey.

 

[rooster100]

Thanks girls! Thank god for you! I alled the hospital today and they said I need to get a referral from my GP for an early scan and will do it at around 8weeks. X