Those TTC for awhile.

[sarahuk]

Thank god it's ok Moter! Was dreaming about you all last night! That's great news! A little boy as well!
I have read alot that bleeding is normal, some people even bleed when there period is due each month. It sounded like everything was perfect xxx

I read that too. I have had some spotting already last night but turned to brown today. I think our bodies are going through so much that its more surprsing to me that not everyone bleeds! All that stretching and growing our parts need to do..makes sense!

Hope youre feeling a bit better today Tina. xx

 

[moter98]

Oh Tina Massive hugs to you . How is the bleeding now?

Im sure everything is fine chick. Baby was happy and healthy on the scan. Bleeding is sooo scary but they told me at the hospital that 65% of pregnancies have some bleeding at some stage. Perhaps it was just caused by baby stretching things out in there a bit more and your uterus growing etc caused a bit of irritation.

Make sure to take things easy today. Im sure its all fine and just one of those things. Didnt sound like the hospital were concerned.

Congratulations on a little brother for Aden! Did they give you a piccie of the scan?

Thanks Sarah. Dr really didn't tell me anything except that everything looked normal and it's unexplained. Too bad I didn't have an actual OB dr. It was just and ER dr. Don't know how skilled they are at reading scans. I think I'm gonna call my clinic Monday and ask my regular dr to look over the scan pics. I know bleeding in the sencone tri is abnormal and there must be a reason. It's driving me crazy not knowing and I really don't trust the drs opinion that looked at the scan. This same dr before the scan told me my uterus didn't appear to be in the right place for how far along I am. Then the scan tech said it looked to be where it should.

 

[moter98]

Thank god it's ok Moter! Was dreaming about you all last night! That's great news! A little boy as well!
I have read alot that bleeding is normal, some people even bleed when there period is due each month. It sounded like everything was perfect xxx

Thanks rach. Still scared out of my mind.

 

[moter98]

Thinking of you Tina

xxx

Thanks

 

[moter98]

Thank god it's ok Moter! Was dreaming about you all last night! That's great news! A little boy as well!
I have read alot that bleeding is normal, some people even bleed when there period is due each month. It sounded like everything was perfect xxx

I read that too. I have had some spotting already last night but turned to brown today. I think our bodies are going through so much that its more surprsing to me that not everyone bleeds! All that stretching and growing our parts need to do..makes sense!

Hope youre feeling a bit better today Tina. xx

I've googled this of course all night and it said bleeding in first tri is very common. 30% bleed in first tri

 

[sarahuk]

I think if it helps to put your mind at rest then its a great idea to call your doc and have them take a look chick. Not nice when the doc said one thing and then the actual tech said it was fine! Talk about giving you an extra worry at the time

Im sure its all ok though. How you holding up? x

 

[moter98]

I'm just very emotional, stressed and worried right now. I think I'm gonna take a couple days off word and try to relax as much as possible. And now I'm scared to lift my son for fear of starting a gush of blood. Thy said not to lift over 25 lbs. he is just 25 lbs now with the brace on. We may need to switch to a toddle bed a lot sooner than I wanted. He cannot get out of his crib by himself. Also, there are just some situations where I have to lift him. Guess I'm gonna have to get creative

 

[sarahuk]

I think you are doing the right thing taking some time off work and just relaxing up hun. Its the best for both of you at the moment. Even though im sure all is well with baby, the emotional worry has probably been exhausting you so you need some time to recover.

It does sound like you might have to start thinking of an alternative to Aden and the crib. You dont want to be lifting him now. Do you have some mini ladders you can put next to the crib when hes getting out and hold his arms as he comes down the steps?

xx

 

[moter98]

dh is moving and setting everything together right now. we will switch him to his toddler bed today. i will have to get a sheet set but his crib sheet and baby blanket will do till it arrives.

i just have a bad feeling now and freaking out about every twinge. i feel this odd pressure now. i just hope this is normal and not something bad.

 

[moter98]

Here is a scan pic from last night and the boy parts shot.

 

[sarahuk]

WOW tina!! What clear scan piccies! Ive seen these "money shots" before on gender scans but could never make anything out but you can clearly see it here! Amazing too at almost 15wks

Good that the bed is getting sorted out. Be a new adventure for Aden too!

Im sure all will be ok. I think with having the scare its going to make you super aware of everything even more so than you normally would be. I bet baby is wondering what all the fuss is...he looks well happy in there! xx

 

[moter98]

I hope you are right. I'm a big ball of worry.

 

[rooster100]

Those scans are lovely! Defo looks like a boy! The baby looks perfect and has a lovely good hb. Defo think you should take some time off and relax. X

 

[Faythe]

Make sure you rest up and take it easy honey

xx

 

[sarahuk]

I know its hard to relax chick...but this time tomorrow youll have spoken to your doc and your mind will be much more at rest x

 

[moter98]

I will girls. In the meantime will just be waiting to see what my OB says. He is in surgury Monday mornings so hoping he can get back to me tomorrow afternoon. Really need his opinion on those scans.

 

[Faythe]

x

 

[sarahuk]

I think its always more reassuring when you hear "all is fine" by someone you know and trust. Thats the one thing I hate about the ER. Im sure he will look at the scand and give you good news.

Has the bleeding settled down now hun? x

 

[moter98]

Haven't had any for maybe 2 hours. It came and went yesterday too.

We really thought it was a girl so haven't come up with any boy names we agree on. Gonna have to break out my baby names book. We will name him regardless of outcome.

 

[sarahuk]

Outcome will be a riggly little baby screaming his little lungs out, just you watch!

The fact that its coming and going is really positive chick. Could just be that you have some irritation around the cervix maybe? Have you dtd lately?

How do you feel about having another boy chick? Were you really hoping for a girl? xx