MummytoOscar
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I was wondering how you deal with situations like parents evenings?
Basically my OH's ex phoned to say that their son who is 3 1/2 has a parents evening this Thurs at nursery. OH said that he would call her on Weds (tomo) to let her know if he could make it, which she said was fine.
OH is a HGV driver and does several nights out a week, the nature of his job is that he does not know where he will be delivering until the day before he travels, which is the reason why he said he would call tomo with a definite answer.
Well the ex called tonight and ranted that OH makes no time for his son, because she wanted an answer tonight and wouldn't wait til tomo. OH has arranged that if he is stuck out then his mother would go in his place as he wanted someone from his side of the family there. But there is no certainty until tomo. She then went into one that Oscar (our son) gets everything etc! I know that OH lives with me and Oscar etc but that does not mean that their son is treated any different while he stays with us every weekend. (I am fed up of the ex bringing our baby and me into all of this too).
It got me thinking...
What do others do when it comes to parents evenings etc? Would it be 'normal' for separated parents to go together etc?
Any suggestions how we can avoid this in future?
Basically my OH's ex phoned to say that their son who is 3 1/2 has a parents evening this Thurs at nursery. OH said that he would call her on Weds (tomo) to let her know if he could make it, which she said was fine.
OH is a HGV driver and does several nights out a week, the nature of his job is that he does not know where he will be delivering until the day before he travels, which is the reason why he said he would call tomo with a definite answer.
Well the ex called tonight and ranted that OH makes no time for his son, because she wanted an answer tonight and wouldn't wait til tomo. OH has arranged that if he is stuck out then his mother would go in his place as he wanted someone from his side of the family there. But there is no certainty until tomo. She then went into one that Oscar (our son) gets everything etc! I know that OH lives with me and Oscar etc but that does not mean that their son is treated any different while he stays with us every weekend. (I am fed up of the ex bringing our baby and me into all of this too).
It got me thinking...
What do others do when it comes to parents evenings etc? Would it be 'normal' for separated parents to go together etc?
Any suggestions how we can avoid this in future?