I'm expecting my first baby in late May and have always wanted a girl first. ACTUALLY, I didn't really mind till everyone started guessing that this baby is a boy due to hubby's heavily boy populated family and now I just want to prove them wrong. I always had the intention to find out. But then I posted my picture here, genderdreaming and on Ingender and received 90% boy guesses and that has made me want to wait.
I know I'm still within chance of having a girl since my ultrasound photo was 12 weeks. Plus 2 of the ultrasound experts on ingender(lovemy4 and coldwater) have both said that the full nub isn't seen and guessed 50/50. Wondering what everyone else was guessing on...
anyways I'm rambling. Hubby thought it would be a cool idea to wait and I do too. HOWEVER, I'm worried that I won't bond with baby.. I don't think I could ever feel disappointment when I hold my child but other have told me I might and that maybe it's best to find out.
I'm stuck. Part of me wants to find out to get it over with. But I don't want to feel bummed out throughout the rest of my pregnancy and deal with the "haha told u it was a boy!" comments. I pretty much only want to know if it's a girl lol.
What do you guys think?
I know I'm still within chance of having a girl since my ultrasound photo was 12 weeks. Plus 2 of the ultrasound experts on ingender(lovemy4 and coldwater) have both said that the full nub isn't seen and guessed 50/50. Wondering what everyone else was guessing on...
anyways I'm rambling. Hubby thought it would be a cool idea to wait and I do too. HOWEVER, I'm worried that I won't bond with baby.. I don't think I could ever feel disappointment when I hold my child but other have told me I might and that maybe it's best to find out.
I'm stuck. Part of me wants to find out to get it over with. But I don't want to feel bummed out throughout the rest of my pregnancy and deal with the "haha told u it was a boy!" comments. I pretty much only want to know if it's a girl lol.
What do you guys think?