My son is 5 and will be 6 in september.
He was born at 33 weeks, his had bad tantrams since he was 17 months old, and i was told he just had the attituide of a 3 year old at the time.
since he could talk i was worried about his speach and kept on at the health vis and his doctor that i wasnt happy (even now some people can not understand him) he shouts when he talks and sometimes forgets to swollow which causes him to spit as his talking (everytime) i'v also been asking for a hearing test even though he seems to be able to hear , but was wondering if this would be causeing the shouting.
Anyway now they are finially listening to me and getting him speach therphy and booking him for a hearing test, his had a test thing to see at what mental and learning age he is and they have said his around the 4 - 41/2 year mark so about a year behind what he should be (they dont seem worried by this)
Right sorry let me get to the point of this thread. when my son goes to the toliet he wont shut the door, its as though he gets scared of being alone (his the same what ever the situation he wont go and play in his bedroom alone either.) he goes a wee on his own fine, but when he goes a poo when his finished he screams for someone to come and help him wipe his bum, he refuses to do this himself and just says i cant its a messy one TMI sorry but its like this everytime. i make sure the toliet roll is in easy reach of him at all times, and i try and encrugge SP? him to do it on his own, and on the odd time he does it i make a big fuss of him and tell him well done and his getting a big boy etc etc.
But 9 times out of 10 he will stay on that toliet seat untill i come and do it for him, i'v left it and left it for nearly an hour before now and he is still sitting there moaning that he wants someone to do his bum. iv never had this problem with the girls, so any advice will be great please.
He was born at 33 weeks, his had bad tantrams since he was 17 months old, and i was told he just had the attituide of a 3 year old at the time.
since he could talk i was worried about his speach and kept on at the health vis and his doctor that i wasnt happy (even now some people can not understand him) he shouts when he talks and sometimes forgets to swollow which causes him to spit as his talking (everytime) i'v also been asking for a hearing test even though he seems to be able to hear , but was wondering if this would be causeing the shouting.
Anyway now they are finially listening to me and getting him speach therphy and booking him for a hearing test, his had a test thing to see at what mental and learning age he is and they have said his around the 4 - 41/2 year mark so about a year behind what he should be (they dont seem worried by this)
Right sorry let me get to the point of this thread. when my son goes to the toliet he wont shut the door, its as though he gets scared of being alone (his the same what ever the situation he wont go and play in his bedroom alone either.) he goes a wee on his own fine, but when he goes a poo when his finished he screams for someone to come and help him wipe his bum, he refuses to do this himself and just says i cant its a messy one TMI sorry but its like this everytime. i make sure the toliet roll is in easy reach of him at all times, and i try and encrugge SP? him to do it on his own, and on the odd time he does it i make a big fuss of him and tell him well done and his getting a big boy etc etc.
But 9 times out of 10 he will stay on that toliet seat untill i come and do it for him, i'v left it and left it for nearly an hour before now and he is still sitting there moaning that he wants someone to do his bum. iv never had this problem with the girls, so any advice will be great please.
