Totally Talkative, Crazy 1st-timers (NTNP/TTC #1!) - [22+ BFP's & 18 babies born!]

[Ccam]

Hey ladies sorry I been gone for a bit been very busy here glad everyone's doing so well!!
I'm 14dpo I've had a tad of spotting the past few days I tested td bfn still having symptoms my acupuncturist still says my pulse is the same which is good gonna wait till the end of the week and test again hopefully it will be positive dh has been soon amazing feel asleep with his hand on my belly last night

 

[Mrs.Luvbug]

wow BBH two at the same time!? That's pure talent! LIke you said, a couple weeks of BFing is better than none. I can't wait to see pictures, and hear about your birth story if you do decide to share!

 

[Aurora CHK]

Hey ladies, good to hear from BBH, Sharris and Ccam amongst others :wave:

I'm probably going to jinx myself and feel like a right nana in the morning when evidence is to the contrary after all, but sod it I'm gonna say it that at this moment at least I think I might possibly be pregnant.

I have been spotting the last two days, which are 11DPO and 12DPO - early for me, and its really unusual type of spotting for me, plus my temps haven't dropped, which again is unusual for me when I start AF spotting.

It's entirely possible that it is just AF is early and a bit different to usual because I've been so poorly this last week its affected things, but I am keeping everything crossed and would be grateful for everyone else to keep their 'gingers crossed' for me too (thread injoke! I put this last time by mistake instead of 'fingers crossed').

*my TMI description of my spotting, not for the fainthearted

Spoiler

although there's not much, it's quite thick & completely black - gross right? but apparently that's fairly common for implantation, its black as its old and taken a few days to work its way out, which wouldn't make sense for the start of AF, right? at least, it's not how mine usually starts

 

[sharonfruit]

Aurora, I'm so excited for you, I hope this is it! I had a 6 day implantation bleed and I remember it starting out as being thick and dark. Good luck!!! Are you going to do a test? X

 

[Aurora CHK]

I have been spotting the last two days, which are 11DPO and 12DPO - early for me, and its really unusual type of spotting for me, plus my temps haven't dropped, which again is unusual for me when I start AF spotting.

I've just checked last month's data, and apparently this isn't always true, sometimes I do spot before the drop I guess I'm just so desperate to be knocked up I am misremembering things so they fit better

Its definitely a bit early though. Then again, I have had short cycles before, and in the not too distant past. But the spotting is never like this, dammit! Honest!

Dust for everyone else as desperado as me to be PG!

 

[Aurora CHK]

Thanks Shar! I did a test yesterday morning which was BFN, so I'm going to wait a couple of days to see if the spotting turns into AF and if it doesn't by Wednesday, I will probs test then. I am tempted to wait til Friday as that's my 33rd birthday, but lets face it if AF isn't here by then I will have POAS about a million times by then, I have no impulse control

 

[Aurora CHK]

Shar just to double check, do you mean that on 6DPO you had a implantation bleed, or that you bled for 6 days with implantation?

EDIT: Just totes stalked your journal to find out you had peeing too though, I have nothing else. Probs just getting my silly hopes up as usual and tomorrow morning I'll be like 'yep, full AF now, forget I said anything!'

 

[joo]

That would be so amazing Aurora, definitely crossing my gingers for you my lovely!

 

[MommaAlexis]

Lara and I's gingers are crossed!!

 

[JJsmom]

My gingers are crossed for you too Aurora!!! Good Luck!!!!

 

[sharonfruit]

I bet you are up all night peeing since you typed that post

 

[Aurora CHK]

Haha no not a drop, boo! I am still spotting this morning but not full AF yet, & temp seems to have gone up not down. Hope its not just being a bit ill still! AF stay away!

 

[Sharris]

looks like DH and I are in for a long night.. I am so irritated and so many other emotions right now i could be sick... i tried to help someone and now it's completely blown up in my face and i am worried they're going to screw me over now..

who's awake and how's it going on your end?

 

[dontworry]

I've got my gingers crossed for you all, my lovelies!!

As for me, we've just been having a relaxed month and having sex when we feel like it. Haven't been using any Conceive Plus (I misplaced it when we moved and I JUST found it again lol. I had hidden it so my MIL wouldn't see it when she helped pack lmao!). According to my Period app (I got a new one - now using "P Tracker"), my "average cycle" is now 65 days long, which means AF apparently isn't due until October 21st lol. I don't see it happening that way, since I've had cramps on and off all day, but we shall see. Not going to think too much about it because I jinx myself all of the time.

Besides that, nothing is really new! I miss all my gals here and love you all to bits.

 

[Laura91]

Good luck to all the ladies awaiting a BFP

Hope everyone's good? (If not i'm off to stalk your journal!) xx

 

[Queen Bee.]

I'm out this month Keeping positive about it all though, bring on next month!
hope everyone is well, and keeping warm as it is so cold here! I feel like winter has come early this year.

Jess: Sending you lots and lots and LOTS of sticky lucky bean dust!

And of course more dust for everyone

 

[Aurora CHK]

Sharris I hope you're okay, I had a quick stalky of your journal and sounds like you've been in a super difficult family situation recently, is the current upset related to that?

Anyone fancy a gander at my chart? The discarded high temps are from my gastroenteritis fever - but it appears that I had a dip the day before I started spotting and they are now seemingly going up. God I hope its not just post-viral body weirdness!!!

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3ee546/thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart

 

[Sharris]

Aurora- yes, it does.. but it's not exactly my "family" it's a complicated situation, and tbh, my momo (niece) is the ONLY one i claim as family, even though we're not 'technically related' I've given to these people until I just can't give anymore, they're ungrateful at best, and they complain all the time. The worst part is, we think they've actually been stealing from us.. little things here and there are missing, this adapter thing (you plug into the car to make your phone play the music through the radio) went missing and like 2 days later the exact same thing showed up in some little bag she brought in my room.. (it was see through i didn't snoop lol) i asked her about it and she got all mad that i didn't remember helping her pack it at 4am in a house i'd never set foot in.. they're certainly keeping me on my toes just trying to make sense of all their stupidity...

 

[Aurora CHK]

Oh gosh, what a difficult situation. I don't know what to say, but I hope that your OH is being supportive of how you feel.

 

[Sharris]

He's being super nice.. he even told me if there was a way for momo only to stay, she'd be more than welcome to.. just because i love this little girl so much..