Well we've been trying the last 5 cycles. Then he proposed. Then we set the wedding date. He's going to be joining the Army so he'll be gone when I give birth and my family is 1 1/2 hrs - 2 hrs away, I found my dress which I wouldn't be able to wear if I'm 8 months pregnant. I LOVE the dress...I think OH would just start crying the moment he sees me in it. But if it happens it happens. I got another strong positive OPK today with the test line being twice as dark as the control line. OH doesn't know this and we bd'd today. I'm just not sure what to think, maybe if it happens it happens. We're talking about really full on trying again in December so our baby would be born when he comes back from basic training. We just don't know where he'll be sent once he's back from basic training.